B1 Enthusiasm

Have you ever heard the expression that enthusiasm is contagious This also applies to meeting women. Your enthusiasm need not emulate the phony behavior of a used car salesman. However, being a little excited and upbeat about your life and environment is always helpful. Hopefully, the tape-recording exercises have given you good idea of what you sound like now and what you can sound like with a bit more excitement added in. I want you to make an effort to be more enthusiastic in your tonality...

Passion inspires passion

If you are around someone who is constantly giving away negative emotions, you may find yourself feeling the same way. Conversely, if you are around someone who is emanating positive emotions, you will start feeling those positive emotions. Again, this is why the film Rocky inspires us. His passion and determination strongly influence us. Whether he is running up the stairs with random kids following him, or whether he is running through the snowy Russian mountains preparing to fight the evil...

Emotional Projection Revisited

Before I go over the listed points, I'd like to add a few more words about Emotional Projection. It is also an abstract attribute. Confidence is an abstract concept but it can be conveyed through the way you project your emotions. Emotional Projection is one of the main keys to attracting people. When you exude positive emotions, you will influence other people in a positive way. The dating advisors in the mainstream medium as well as the dating coaches on the Internet do not seem to cover this...

People gravitate upwards not downwards

Let's assume that, you and a group of your friends were sitting at a table in a coffee shop sharing a great time. Would you invite some random guy to join your group Probably not, unless you were working trying to recruit someone towards your religion or the popular cult of the month, in which case another sucker is always welcomed. Most likely, you would not want the random stranger to sit at your table. Heck, you probably have people you already know whom you wouldn't want sitting at your...

Different phases of the conversation

The first 15-20 minutes of a conversation are what I refer to as the probationary period. It's similar to having a job with a new employer, or at least the way it used to be 30 years ago before the corporate age. You were given a trial period of two weeks where you were on probation. At the end of the two weeks, your employer could express that he did not want you, or you could have left the job because it was not the right fit for you. In such a scenario, there are no hard feelings involved....

Am no longer an excuser

I can approach anyone I want to. I deserve a good girlfriend. I can socialize with people regardless of my surroundings. I am not bound by society programming and society bullshit. I live my life free of these false constraints. Put an end to the bad and limiting beliefs. From this day forth, things will be different simply because you believe differently. If you need to read this chapter again to recondition yourself with your new beliefs and words of...

Projecting Emotions through tonality

Use your tonality to project positive emotions People will share your enthusiasm. Remember that most people are followers not leaders. People love to find someone to follow. That person can be you. Think about a simple scenario Consider watching a comedy movie, a funny TV show or standup comedian. It's fun to watch alone. How much more fun is it to watch it with your friends, laughing out loud at the top of your lungs together In fact, ever have something stupid happen between you and your...

Core Attributes

This chapter will explain the core attributes. It is probably one of those chapters you should come back to and read a few more times. After all, the book is titled The Attributes. This chapter will explain why you observe certain guys who attract women and others who do not. This is arguably the most practical chapter and you need to start implementing the core attributes immediately. This chapter will be covered in two major categories of Attributes A. Physical Attributes A1. Body Language...

Body Language

It is difficult to demonstrate body language through the pages of a book. I have taken a series of amateur photographs to help demonstrate, which I will review with you shortly. Some people refer to these core attributes as alpha-male characteristics. Regardless of how and what they are labeled, they are the behavioral patterns of a confident man and you should internalize them. It does not matter whose techniques you use. They will not work if the attributes you communicated through subtext...

Opening conversations with women you dont know

The 1 rule is do not talk about her constantly. This is the most common mistake most guys make when they see a cute girl. They ask questions in a rapid-fire manner What's your name Where are you from What do you do Where do you live How often do you come here How long have you been living here This is painstakingly boring. Even if she were initially interested, she would lose her interest after your game of twenty questions. A similar mistake is to start offering constant facts about your self....

Calibration as a coldreading Technique

I have tried to stay away from techniques in this book for the obvious stated reasons. I'll share one of my favorite things that I like to do sometimes in an interaction with women. This is a technique and thus, it'll be a short segment. After this segment, I will get back to the attributes which are the main point. People love hearing and learning about them selves. This is why psychics, palm readers, tarot cards, and the like are so popular. This is also why I've met Pick up Artists who use...

Societys Rules and Social Conditioning

If you are reading this book, you may have some limiting beliefs regarding yourself and what is possible. You may feel that you are being intrusive when approaching a woman, or perhaps you are bothering someone. You may feel that you are not good looking enough or that you don't have enough money. This is all social conditioning If you lead, keep a strong frame reality and project the right emotions people will join you. Example Take a look at conmen. A conman might be penniless and yet he is...

No one was born to walk around with a hunchback while being ashamed dejected and staring at the ground

These all happened because of negative social experiences and it is time to correct them. You did not come out of the womb with the feeling that you are not good enough. In the same way, you did not come out of the womb to feel that a purse or a shoe held the secrets to self-fulfillment and self-worth. These were taught to you, to me, and to everybody else. These things were all instilled upon you by society. Now, we are taking steps to free you You were born a free spirit. You still are. Over...

Conversational Tips For Relationships and Dating Advanced

Up until now, I have discussed the attributes of a guy who is successful in meeting and attracting women. What if you are dating someone or already have a girlfriend Do you feel your girlfriend complains too much Do you feel that half of your time is spent listening to complaints How do you steer the conversation away from a complaint session I will share some thoughts on that. However, before I discuss the issue any further, I must mention one important factor. If your girlfriend nags and...