Surefire Ways To Instant Dating Success

How to pick up, date and attract any woman you want at ANY time - Power tips from the Net's most talented dating experts Copyright 2004 - 2005, by Simon Heong, InstantDatingSuccess.com No part of this publication may be reproduced without written permission from the publisher except for brief passages which may be used by a reviewer. Copying by any means including electronic methods, selling or hiring, transmission by voice, electronic mail, posting to a website or uploading to an FTP site or...

Tip 1 Dont Be Afraid To Fail

How do you get good at a certain action or task The answer Repetition. Practice. These are the fundamentals of building a skill. Think about how you go about playing a sport, like baseball for example. Maybe you start with your dad lightly throwing a big orange ball and you whack it with your big red over-sized bat. Eventually, you learn to swing at a smaller ball with a thinner bat. Then the ball gets thrown faster, and your swings get harder. You miss more, but you keep swinging until you...

Tip 27 Be alert for signs of psycho or low self esteem women

A woman who keep on telling you about all the horrible guys she has known probably ATTRACTS horrible guys because she is psycho or low self esteem or just plain miserable. Women who keep talking terribly about themselves, I'm so ugly, I'm so fat, I'm stupid usually have low self esteem, and if you try to help them, you will get caught in a huge trap because the help they need is usually more than something you can solve and in fact many women who are low self esteem will think you must be low...

Tip 12 Be decisive

If you are not naturally a dominant, decisive type, you may have to work on this. Women tend to be attracted to men with dominant personality traits. They don't like to make all the decisions and if you allow them to they will write you off as a wimp. End of story. If she asks you where you want to eat, make a choice and stick with it. Don't say, Oh I don't mind, where would you like to go Know what you want to drink before approaching the bar, don't dither around making up your mind. Same with...

Tip 20 On a date this is all you need to worry about

In this ebook alone, you are going to get literally hundreds of tips, techniques, and suggestions on how to attract women, get a date with a woman, have a good date, etc. Most will be good, useful tips. They will give you things to work on and be aware of. However, when it comes time to actually go on the date forget it all. As much as possible, try to clear your mind of all the suggestions you have received. Don't worry about using her name a lot. Don't worry about trying to be witty. Don't...

The general rule here is when a woman likes you she will reciprocate your body language and have an open posture and if

If she likes you, she will move closer to you when you move closer (or at least will not move back) and if she does not like you, she will move back if you move closer (sometimes not straight away but in a few minutes). If she likes you, she will smile back to you when you smile at her. If she does not like you, she will look away. If she likes you, she will happily accept your ideas if she does not like you, everything you do will be wrong. If she likes you, she will be happy and relaxed, even...

Tip 15 Get your internals straight

As mentioned above we must have the right mindsets This 1 mindset is THE most important to have Women like sex as much if not more than we do. You may have read this someplace before on the Internet, I am no hack here, I f***** coined the entire movement, though surely didn't invent the truth of it. Sex is not that hard of a thing. If we all played naked twister we would have it happen at random. THE FIRST thing you must realize is that women LOVE SEX. Biologically we do differ, but compulsion...

Dating Attraction Tips from the Author of How To Overcome Shyness and Find The Woman of Your Dreams

What stops you from approaching, talking to and dating the women you are really attracted to Almost certainly, it's something we call 'shyness'. Which is another way of saying, 'fear of rejection'. So what is this 'fear' thing, anyway The best definition I've heard of the word FEAR is Fantasized Event Appearing Real. We feel fear only when we have the time to think about something that may be about to happen - and then we make big, scary pictures in our heads about how badly it could turn out....

Tip 17 Trust your Date

To paraphrase the opening lines of one of my favorite movies, Casino, spoken by Robert DeNiro When you love someone, you trust them, there is no other way. You give them the keys to everything that's yours, otherwise what's the point. For me, those words sum up a lifetime of dating and relationships for the very essence of any relationships is quite simply, trust. It is a word that we mention regularly without really thinking about what it really means. Well we kind of know but rarely do we...

Online Dating Tips from the Author of Dynamic Sex Life

Allen Gun Reyes here with my section of tips, techniques, mindsets, realizations attitudes, and tactics. For those of you who do not know me I wrote the e-book Dynamic sex life as well as the now internet wide and famous Gunwitch method that has been translated in to several languages and is responsible for many many men improving their sex life tremendously in straight forward fashion.

Tip 13 Realize looks do matter

What is internal and what you project can make or break your interactions with women. Even more so however looking poorly can stop your interactions with women before they ever start. You do not need to be a model to get in the door with women, you do however need to have some base amount of average If you already have your looks and grooming taken care of you can skip ahead to tip 14. Simple basic checklist will go something like this Height Height is a social and never biological attractant....

Tip 18 Overcome your shyness

Most of us are shy in one-way or another or at one time or another. It is natural. Shyness is when we fear the consequences of our actions and are paralyzed to the extent that we cannot do what we would like to do. In dating, this becomes an acute issue due to having to put ourselves well outside our comfort zone. We wish to retreat into our shell and protect ourselves rather than take on the 'dangers' of opening up to a stranger. Shyness takes on many forms, from not being able to ask someone...

Contrary to the popular belief most Russian women dont want to emigrate and are not interested in meeting somebody

Only a very small percentage of Russian women are interested in a foreign man as a marriage partner. There are millions of singe Russian women - but only thousands women that post their profiles on the websites offering international introductions. This is what an American man that spent 6 months in Russia, visited 9 cities and talked to hundreds Russian people, men and women, thinks about it Many ignorant people (who have never been to Russia obviously) constantly claim that Russian women...

Tip 19 Demonstrate your sexual interest with Class not crass

You don't need to beat a woman over the head with blatant sexual comments in order to communicate your amorous interest to her. Trust me, she knows. Yet some men are so afraid of being misinterpreted as a buddy-buddy wimp they'll risk making complete fools of themselves with all sorts of lewd remarks just to insure that a woman doesn't think of them as a nice guy. While this desire to stay out of the friends zone is laudable, their method of achieving it is so ham-handed it destroys any chance...

Tip 27 Slow and Steady Wins the Race

You've probably heard this old story but I'll tell it. An Old Bull and Young Bull stand at the top of a hill. The Young Bull sees a herd of Cow's in the pasture below and says to the Old Bull, Hey, let's run down their and f*** one of those cows. The Old Bull smiles and says, Let's walk down and f*** them all. I've observed that every man I've ever known that did well with women was a pretty laid back kind of guy. Not easily excited, not easily angered and certainly not worried what other...

Tip 16 Dont be a whiner and complainer

Nothing puts the tag of the low-status male on you faster than engaging in a non-stop barrage of pissing and moaning about anything and everything under the sun. The more powerless you are to affect things in your world the more prone you are to complain about them. Since you are a helpless victim of the tides of life, there's nothing left for you to do but bitch about it I guess. And the more you complain, the more evident it is that your frustration has been ongoing and festering for a long...

Tip 13 Retain your Enigma

Think about how many times you have heard the expression mysterious stranger. Think about how many times you have heard someone say, I really want to get to know you more. Being enigmatic, in other words, is not knowing what makes a person tick. Not knowing their thoughts. Not knowing everything about them provokes instant challenge. A mysterious stranger is an attractive person. You want to know more, you want to gain their attention you want to be known to them. Someone you can read like an...

Tip 13 How To Handle Approaching A Woman

Are there signs you should look for that a woman is interested First, always start with a plan. I don't look for signs from a woman as much as I rely on my own ability to come up with a good reason for talking to her in the first place. Remember, you can't count on her to initiate. Guys are too caught up in looking for signs and other indications rather than just going up and talking to women they see and are interested in. If you get into a game of waiting for signs from every woman, you give...

Tip 5 You snooze you lose

Here is the common factor that holds most men back. Most men defeat themselves before anyone else can. If you stand on the sidelines at a club looking over at a table of girls, thinking, ok, after this song. Or After this beer You've missed the boat. If she looks at you twice for more than a second, get up and go talk to her. The worst thing that can happen is she will reject you. If that happens refer to Tip 1. You've got a winner and loser in your head. The war is between those two voices....

Tip 4 Groom Yourself

This is the last tip in the looks trinity that I'm gonna go through. Grooming is very important, not just when it comes to how others respond to you, but how you feel about yourself. There is simply no excuse for poor grooming these days. And bad hygiene is one of the most unattractive things to women. You can be the best looking guy in the world, but if your breath is so bad you can take the paint off walls, no woman is gonna want to be within 10 feet of you. Like your look, you have a lot of...

Tip 14 Be willing to learn from others

Chances are, you know one or two guys who are really good at picking up women. Find a way to hang out with them. Listen to how they talk to women. Notice how they stand. Check out how much they talk and how much they listen. Whenever you get the chance, observe people in relationships that seem to work well and listen to the quality of their conversation. Watch how they respond to each other. The depth of their rapport will most often reflect the underlying strength of their bond, and will be...

Tip 23 Dont be left sticky broke and confused

Have you ever met a midnight Casanova You know, the guy who slides his way into the bar just before closing time, to take the woman home that YOU were buying drinks for all night long. For whatever reason men tend to think that if they buy a woman drinks all night that they will get some sort of reward at the end. When meeting at a bar that your date visits frequently, make sure they get their share of the tab. If a woman is a regular customer and she gets a few drinks in her, you may be stuck...

Tip 24 You must deliver a knockout First Kiss

Though she may perform any number of shocking sex acts upon a perfect stranger who comes along with enough cash in his wallet, no prostitute will ever allow a john to actually kiss her. That's because even a whore views kissing as something far more intimate than actually blowing some horny slob For a woman, the first kiss with a guy is always a big memorable moment whether it was her first kiss ever (when she was a teenager) or the first kiss she had with a guy who eventually became her...

Tip 19 Be sexual

Finally once you get her in the rapport and conversation and are projecting the masculinity to her in the form of good eye contact and strong frame of mind and voice tone, etc she will begin to match you. Not MATCH you, but more go opposite of you and submit. She does not match YOU, she matched the frame and dynamic. You will notice this in her talking softer and lighter, looking down quicker when you engage eye contact and just overall being extremely agreeable verbally. THIS is when you...

Tip 12 How to communicate seductively

Women love every method imaginable to foretell the future and their destiny. There are all kinds of divination techniques horoscopes and astrology still popular for over a thousand years and counting , palm-readings, aura readings, I-Ching, tarot cards, tea leaves - you name it. What is it about fortune telling that women find so alluring First of all, women love anything that hints at destiny, or a magical coincidence. She wants to believe that you two found each other like two ships crossing...

Tip 17 Be unavailable

If you want to make a woman come towards you, back off. Give her space. Give her a chance to miss you. Coming on too hard, too fast is the surest way to make a woman run fast in the opposite direction. Scarcity creates demand - ask anyone in marketing. Be in short supply. Don't always return her calls the same day. Say no to a date once in a while, even if yoiu really want to see her. Especially if you really want to see her. If she wants to see you three times a week, agree to twice a week....

Tip 4 Beware the Friend Zone

Once you've entered the friend zone you have almost no hope. The only way you can overcome this is by having a crystal ball to go along with your brass balls. A woman may entertain the notion of turning a friend into a lover, but it occurs only once in a hundred times of her hanging out with him. It's a mood, fleeting and temporary. If you don't know when that mood is, you'll bomb big time. And even if you get the timing right, chances are she'll come to her senses and think, Oh, no I don't...

Tip 9 Be a Perpetual Flirt who isnt afraid to take a social risk

A dominant male is calm and in control, so a passive, got-my-shit-together approach is always better than a frantic, nervous one, right Of course, you can't act completely aloof unless you're an famous athlete or celebrity of some kind, in which case your reputation has preceded you and done all the preliminary work of seduction in advance. Normal guys like us have to walk a fine line between showing complete disinterest in a woman and behaving like a silly lapdog. Advertise your delight in...

Tip 28 Know how to flirt

You are at a party and out of nowhere someone is standing close to you. Like a genie, they keep turning up, close by, catching your gaze. You go and chat and they stand in the same position as you, playing with their hair, laughing with you and holding your gaze. This person likes you and is flirting. Because without realizing it, you are an expert in flirting and body language. What would dating be without flirting Flirting is fabulous, flirting is fun, flirting is giving out signals that we...

Tip 23 Dont ever be predictable

If you go out with a woman you have just met, and you have been going out every Friday, change the date, and don't be available every weekend. The more a woman has to figure you out, the more you will be on her mind. The second she feels TOO comfortable, she will take you for granted since she can't help it, for most guys are just too easy. When a woman asks you a predictable question, DON'T give a predictable answer. If she asks you what you do for a living, tell her you're a porn star. If you...

Tip 15 Manage your horniness instead of letting it manage you

Let's face it, if you're the kind of guy who's been taking care of your own business for most of your life I wouldn't know anything about this myself, but I read all about it in a book somewhere once, I think. , then you've probably got the art of self-love down to a friggin' science by now I suspect that you probably practice your craft often and with great enthusiasm as well. This is all fine and dandy, but unfortunately, sex drive happens to be one of Nature's great motivators for getting...

Tip 11 Best Selfconfidence Technique

I present my favorite techniques for building self-confidence in my Advanced Audio Coaching Sessions and e-books, including my Quantum Leap method. I'm going to give you a few techniques here to build your sense of personal power. Here's a little trick I use to boost my self-confidence before going into any seduction situation Sit in your car and put in some music that gives you a lift. I use the theme to the movie The Rock, as well as the Gladiator soundtrack. Sometimes a little music from...

Tip 7 Always try to act guileless when you first meet a woman

Huh Okay, here's some of the synonyms that I'm getting for the word guileless from my spell checker genuine, innocent, honest, sincere, aboveboard, natural, unfeigned, open, trusting, casual, unpretentious, etc. etc. Get it Just the opposite of how reserved and overly-cautious most people usually act around someone they don't know. Why guileless Because being guileless makes you seem approachable and harmless, two qualities that will encourage a woman to strike up a conversation with you....

Tip 1 Women grade men for both sexual attractiveness and mating potential by reading their position along the grand

This one isn't so much a tip than a Commandment that every guy should chisel into the sidewalk in front of his house. Up until the age of 35 or so, I never fully understood just how absolutely monumental the whole male dominant status thing was to women when it comes to the process they use in their minds to sort out men for mating and dating potential. With surprising speed, only minutes after meeting them sometimes, women will mentally sort men into three distinct categories A men whom they...

Tip 10 Stop Being Too Available

Never ever make yourself too available. People like mystery and enigma and the thrill of the chase when dating. In keeping with this do not sleep with your dates early on if you want them to progress, so keep sex until later. The longer a person is made to chase and fall for you within reason, the more likely that love may blossom. Peak too early and you have little left to offer and emotions may never have had the time to develop. Here is a truth, most people are too available far too...

Tip 4 The best place to meet highquality women is Eastern Europe

You might think I say so because I am Russian. Yes, I am Russian but I also work in the online dating industry for more than 5 years and I can tell you honestly, the levels of women that are available for you at home and in Russia are miles apart. There is NO other place like Eastern Europe to look for quality women You understand now about global markets. The same job that is paid 5,000 in the USA can be paid only 200 in India. The same is applicable to dating market. High quality women that...

Tip 18 Create Sexual Tension

A common trait I've noticed between guys who regularly get women, and guys who don't, is their willingness to bring sexuality into their interactions with women. Many guys are a bit gun-shy when it comes down to talking sexual with a woman. Often times, we're taught we gotta handle women with kids gloves, and not offend them with overt sexuality. But more often than not, the guys who DO bring it up are the ones that get the girls to go along with it. Oddly enough, I learned this from watching...

Specialized Russian dating agencies have the knowledge and resources to make your search a success By using a

Choose an agency that is recommended by many sources. Check Google - what people tell about them If the agency is bad, you will find complaints in online forums. If there are no references at all, you will be in better off staying away from them - if no one knows them, they are either very new and inexperienced, or they are not for real. As a rule, a good agency will be able to accept payments by credit card, provide references, and have their business address and phone number listed on the...

Tip 17 Assume rapport

As in assume there is already a rapport. This is achieved in a pretty straight up way as of course you want her to feel similarity with you being someone she is in rapport with. The basic way and theory is to be non-threatening. Not in a sexual way but in a rapport based way. So the hover before the approach, or to walk up in her general area, and pretend to notice something near her and pay quick attention to it, is a great first gesture. For her then to give you eye contact or look at you and...