Stepping Back

It's amazing what a little space to think will do for a woman's attitude when it comes to appreciation and recognizing what you have to offer. Most men are afraid to put this to work for them, based solely on their fear that if they back off or let up on the intensity of their romantic offensive on the women, she will lose interest and forget about him. The opposite is actually the Truth. By backing off and giving her space at a strategic point where you sense that she might be feeling a bit...

Romantic Intrigue Questions

The goal of your conversation with a woman is to increase her feelings of attraction to you, not kill them, while giving you an opportunity to learn about her. There is no better way of accomplishing both than by using Intrigue Questions. These are questions that get her in touch with her positive feelings, and help associate them with you. o First, you give an excuse for asking The other day, I was watching a show on amusement parks, and I found it really interesting how they engineer the...

ABF Always Be Flirting

One of the great guy movies of the last decade is Glengarry Glen Ross. It's essentially a male power struggle in the realm of real estate sales. One of the lines in the movie (and in sales) is ABC - Always Be Closing. I'm updating that for you and your dating search to ABF -Always Be Flirting. You have to take on a certain mindset if you want to improve and become more successful with women. All too frequently, men look at dating and the prospecting process as an isolated event. They are either...

Behaviors That Reduce Attraction

You should be aware up front of the behaviors that men exhibit which turn off a woman's attraction mechanism. As we progress, you will be given alternatives to these behaviors and ways to avoid demonstrating them. 2003 - Carlos Xuma. - DD Publications - All Rights Reserved - Unauthorized duplication or distribution is strictly prohibited. Visit www.datingdynamics.com for more information. - Clingy Needy behavior The root cause of this is insecurity. Any actions that tell a woman that you are...

Hi

Don't get tricky, just save the cleverness for that witty screenplay you're working on. If you get past the number one hurdle to meeting women, you'll be in infinitely better shape than the sad soul who spins on a barstool all night justifying why the woman he won't approach isn't my type anyway. That number one hurdle to getting together with women is just overcoming your (unfounded) fears and talking to them. I have found that over 90 of all women will smile and give you a shot if you just...

The Big Rule DOW Date Other Women

I choose to highlight this concept to you as being a priority in your dating adventures because it is the single most important attitude influence you will encounter, and one that you can totally control, if you so choose. There seems to be a dynamic of expectations out there that has been driven by women, and I want to clear this myth from our understanding. Stated simply We believe that women disapprove of men dating more than one person. I can't tell you how many times I've heard a man say...

What Women Really Want

I think I've gone a long way toward answering this, but I would like to summarize it here - Will make women feel excited, sexy, and turned-on rather than bored. - Will prioritize his life and doesn't let anyone walk over him. - Will make her feel important to him - Is not afraid to speak his opinion. - Keeps them on their toes through challenge. (i.e., the Three S's Self-confidence, Self-discipline, Sense of Humor) - Holds and maintains an element of mystery. (More...

How And When To Use Your Touch

Kinesthesia (n) 1 the perception of body position and movement and muscular tensions etc. 2 the ability to feel movements of the limbs and body kino (n) 1 The use of touch to arouse physical and emotional desire. There are many approaches and varied understandings about the topic of touching in the dating journals, and at least as much confusion. Hopefully, the information that follows will help to clarify this topic so that you can apply a strategy to your techniques of using kinaesthetics -...

No Second Chances Period

A good portion of the men reading this book will want a long term relationship, while many others will only want casual dating. Your background and beliefs will play a large role in your decisions and goals with women. I will share my own personal philosophy with respect to long-term relationships, and you can hold this up in light of your own situation. I decided at an early age that I didn't want to get married before I was 30. (That seemed a respectable age at the time, and I still feel that...

Supplemental Traits

These additional traits, while not part of the primary Three S's, are still a critical part of your internal game. They also need to be understood and developed thoroughly to fully develop yourself as a Dynamic Man. Attitude is another of the massively important concepts to understand if you want to be successful in the game of love. Attitude is the way you project your self-esteem to the world around you. Attitude is the all-powerful determinant of how successful you are at anything. What...

Dating Dysfunction

There are many traps you can fall into with women, and I will give you some of the tools to recognize and handle these better. If you ignore these seemingly small hiccups along the way, you will discover that they fester at the core of your attitude and feelings for her, and things will fall into a negative spiral. If you want a great example to learn from, watch the Hollywood star's romances (not their movies) and notice what works and doesn't work there. Watching just about any young actor's...

How To Make A Girl Play Sex Wiz You Through Huging

No three-letter word holds more power. I suppose you were eager to get to this section, hmm Waiting for some hot tips I've got some great information for you, but I'm not going into embarrassing graphic detail here. Frankly, there are many other books out there to help you in this area. (And they have better pictures, too.) I just want to cover some of the Dating Dynamics concepts with you, as well as give you some information about sex you may not have known about. First of all, realize...

Save YourMoney

For the first meeting, don't plan a big date with flowers and dinner and a movie. You'll look like a simpering fool that is desperate for acceptance, and no woman will respect - or more importantly, be attracted to - this kind of behavior. You are screening candidates for your job, and this is just a glance at their resume. I don't know about you, but I'd worry about a company that put on a big production number to lure me in for a job. Women worry about that sort of thing, too. Plan to spend...

The Vicious Cycle of Male Sex Desire

Why do men give up all their power to women for sex If you can understand the vicious cycle that unravels men's posture and confidence, you can overcome this limiting belief and have enduring success with women. The hungry never get fed yet, those who do not want always have plenty. Think about your patterns with women for a moment. If a man has been experiencing a lot of pain and little success, his thoughts are only that he wants dates and sex with women, and the more he desires it, the more...

Never drop your guard

O I hate to be the bearer of this news, but many guys use effective strategies, build up their character through use of the Three S's, and as soon as they land a girlfriend, they turn into complete wimps. Until the end of your days with a woman, you must uphold the principles of the Three S's - Self-confidence, Self-discipline, and Sense of humor. These are not optional lures you use just to get a woman to sleep with you or to want to be your girlfriend or wife. They are not electives you can...

Basic Psychological Principles

This is the ultimate human motivational mechanism, and the most basic. Everything you learn in this course is based on this one principle. If there's one understanding about our mental processes that you absorb, it's this People seek those things that give them pleasure, and work to avoid those things that cause them pain. When stacked beside each other, we are more motivated by the fear of pain than the promise of pleasure. There are many reasons for this o We understand and believe in the...

Male Female Communications

This will come as a shock to some of you, but women and men don't speak the same language. We have different communication styles, among other things. What you have to understand is how we differ so that you can control the outcome of the interactions you have, rather than the interactions controlling you. How many times have you found yourself in a conversation or argument with a woman as you felt things go wildly out of control Something like this Yolanda I'm thinking about taking a course in...