Attraction and Fulfillment An Introduction

Most people are intuitively skilled at evoking a given emotion in another person. You probably have reliable ways of making someone feel anger, surprise, fear, sadness or mirth. But how do you create the feeling of attraction in another person To answer that question, first we will develop a working definition of attraction. I think of attraction as spontaneous movement towards an object. Iron filings are attracted towards a magnet. Rainwater is attracted to a valley, a river, and ultimately...

The BeDoHave Paradigm of Success

Most people are seeking some kind of result in their lives, and believe that success means having that result, be it wealth, status, relationships. As such, they're often looking for the shortcut, the quick and dirty solution, the overnight scheme. The overnight scheme exists the problem is that it also tends to last only overnight. Easy come, easy go. True success, on the other hand, is not an accident it is a habit. Most lottery winners go back to the same or lower level of wealth as before...

Have Making Relationships Last

Your relationship with a woman begins from the moment you say hello. That relationship can last anywhere from a minute to a lifetime. However, a sexual relationship with a woman begins when you first engage in sexual activity with her (whatever your personal definition of sexual activity is). The relationship changes significantly after that point. As such, it's important to make it clear to her and to yourself what you want and what you're offering before sexual activity happens. Representing...

What You Want and How to Get it

What do you want from your dating life Most people out there don't have a concrete answer to that question. The people who think they know what they want sometimes end up getting it, only to realize it's not quite what they expected. I would like to suggest that there is a simple answer to that question. What we want from a relationship (and almost everything else in life) is feelings. And the feeling that is worth pursuing is fulfillment. Once you think of it that way, you realize that you're...

Do Part IV Romance or Advanced Techniques for Attraction

Time and time again, surveys have been published about what women want. The main flaw with these surveys is that they try to make women explicitly state what fulfills their unconscious needs. Since by definition they are not conscious of these needs, the answers to these surveys don't always translate to useful information for the thinking man. However, from looking at the ensemble of dozens of such surveys, a pattern emerges. From these and from my experience, I conclude that women above all...