Set the Mood Dont Wait for it to Come Along

Nothing makes for a more romantic gesture than one that is made purely for the sake of romance itself. Confused? Let me explain. When it comes to seducing a woman if you want to make a really great impression on women then you'll want to pull out all the stops and create a romantic date without waiting for a special occasion. Not to mention there's no rule that says you have to wait for a certain day or time.

This particular tip requires knowing a bit about your lady and what she likes and doesn't like. But you don't have to know her like the back of your hand in order to make a truly romantic evening for the two of you to share. The most important thing is to consider what you know she finds romantic and then do your best to create that for her. The very fact that you thought of her and wanted to romance her out of the blue will really impress her and make her feel truly special.

To give you a hand, let me give you some inside information on some of the simpler settings and situations that sure to make your special lady feel like she's on top of the world. Many of these suggestions would take relatively little time for preparation. Remember, it's sometimes the smallest gesture that will really make a woman feel special. So keep this in mind when you're reading these ideas.

The first romantic setting is a candlelit picnic in a park or other quiet location. This is sure to make your lady feel special. There's no special occasion needed. This is also easy to put together with a bottle of wine, some cheese, strawberries, whatever the two of you like. If you have a portable cd player you can bring that along with a disc of romantic music and you'll have an evening that the both of you are sure to remember. Just don't forget to check the weather and be sure to bring the blanket!

The next suggestion I have is good for any weather, a nice candlelit meal consisting of her favorite foods and dessert at your place. When you're planning this evening be sure to have soft, romantic music on and a nice bottle of wine. Her favorite flowers would be an extra nice touch. This meal could be prepared by you or ordered and picked up from a restaurant. As long as you've taken care to choose what she likes it's sure to be a huge hit! If your place tends to be a bit messy, be sure to take the extra bit of time to clean it up so that she's not tripping over your tennis shoes or gym bag.

While private settings are nice, women also like going out for a romantic dinner in a cozy restaurant. A fine idea is to choose a restaurant that has an intimate setting, candles on the table, dimmed lights and not a lot of noise. If possible, arrange for a romantic song to be played while you're there. Try to have reservations made so that there's no waiting in line. I would suggest that you bring flowers for her or have a bouquet of her favorite flowers on the table and a bottle of wine selected in advance. Be sure to avoid any places that have televisions on where they can be seen or heard.

There are many other situations that are equally romantic. You don't have to choose your place or hers or a classy restaurant or park. You could easily choose any number of other locations. It could be the first place you went on a date, which might just be a cozy little mom and pop restaurant. Maybe you want to take your lady to the beach for a stroll at sunset and then a bite to eat at a café with tables on a balcony or patio.

The important thing to remember when planning a romantic time for the two of you is that it should be somewhere that you'll both feel comfortable. To do this you need to think about what she likes as well as what you like. Try to avoid places that either of you may have gone with people from previous relationships. This will definitely undermine the romantic mood you're going for.

Next you'll want to be sure that the location you've chosen will be intimate. You won't want to choose anywhere that will be noisy as this will detract from the romantic mood you're trying to set. Avoid places that are crowded areas, too. Even though it may not be noisy, the hustle and bustle and be very distracting and won't lend anything to the intimacy that you want. Once you've chosen the perfect location let your imagination run wild with all the possibilities of romance. You're sure to be able to put together a romantic time that the two of you will never forget.

As you can see, it's not very difficult at all to plan a romantic get together for you and your special lady. When you've taken the time to get to know her likes and dislikes, personality and interests it's actually quite simple to know what she will find romantic. It's quite amazing to see how all the work you've done really pays off in planning a special time for your woman.

The most important part of the romantic evening you have will ultimately be the feeling your lady gets from it. She will be impressed with the very fact that you took the time to plan it all. She will feel special because you thought enough of her to do it. The details you put into your evening will make her feel even more special and will reinforce her knowledge that you pay attention to what she's saying and take to heart what makes her happy. Ultimately she'll know that you understand her, know her and care about her.

If you're thinking that this is definitely the way to seduce your woman, you're right. Granted, you're not all the way there yet, but you're so very, very close. You can see now that all these tips work together as that guidebook on the path of seducing a woman. You've figured out that in order to seduce a woman you must understand what she wants in you so you can provide that you know you'll be right for her. She needs you to be confident and have self respect so that she'll feel sure that you'll respect her. You can clearly see why you need to know what you want in a woman, because otherwise you're basically wandering aimlessly in a sea of women without having a clue as to what kind of woman you're compatible with. You have to be willing to let go of any superficial tendencies you have in order to see what really makes a woman attractive and will allow you to have the kind of intimacy that's essential in seduction. And you must have a good attitude which includes the ability to be sensitive in order to have a relationship where you can communicate effectively and compliment one another, allowing you to have a deep, meaningful connection with each other.

Once you've achieved that in yourself and your relationship you're ready for that wonderful, romantic evening. After an evening full of romance and intimacy you're sure to be inside your woman's mind and well on the way to seducing her mind, body and soul.

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