Sexually suggestive topics

This one has to be handled with care. A lot of guys bring up sex far too early in conversations with women and blow themselves right out of the water. I'd suggest that any guys who do not feel secure in their new Alpha Man shell hold back from using this one if possible, because you actually stand more chances of turning her off than on if you screw it up. However, if you're really willing to play with the fire, you need to use this technique to raise the tension level. First of all, make sure...

Body Language

A man's body language is a very powerful communications mechanism. You give off waves of information about yourself by the way you walk, and by the way you stand still. Just by the way you choose to face a person, you can communicate your personality and feelings. If you were to watch two men walking down the street, one a very confident, successful player, and the other a fairly quiet average guy, at first glance you'd think they looked pretty much the same. But take another look. They are not...

CSFs

Critical Success Factors are the primary skills you need to be effective at a task. When you have all these skills down, you will be a force to be reckoned with. Women will not be a problem for you. On the other hand, if you suck at any one of these CSFs, your success will be limited to the highest level of that ability. In other words, your least developed skill in this list will be your weakest link, and determine the highest level of success you will have...

Playfulness and Sophistication

There are two facets of Alpha Man Power that a man should understand when dealing with women, and they are when to employ the techniques of playful and sophisticated flirting. These can be mixed in your own personal recipe of seduction. The first kind, playful flirting, is when you regress a woman into more basic and primitive interaction to get her excited. This is a lot like the sandbox interaction you learned with kids on the playground. Some of the types of playful flirting are 1) Tickling...

Get Rid Of The Infatuation Up Front

Foolish and usually extravagant passion or love or admiration One of the symptoms of dating and seduction of attractive women that afflicts men is what I call the Babe-shock factor. When you first approach a woman you find attractive, what's going through your head most of the time Oh, wow I can't believe I'm talking to this hot babe This is great I wonder if she likes me And you proceed to act like a goober, fawning all over her and complimenting her. Smiling all the time. Leaning...

Alpha Man Characteristics

- Short on time The Alpha man has places to go, people to see. He does not have 3 hours for phone calls. He does not have the time to wait on a woman more than 15 minutes when she's late. He does not have more than a minute to wait for her to talk to someone else on call waiting. (I hang up on women that leave me dangling on call waiting or hold. If that other call is so important, they can call the other person back. When was the last time you really had an emergency phone call ) -...

Adventure and Danger The Alpha Man as Bad

One of the attractive qualities of an Alpha Man is his willingness to jump in and take life by the balls, not playing it safe. A woman can sense if a man is the kind who will be fun to hang around because he's either out there pushing the envelope, or he's working in the mailroom licking envelopes. Adventure and danger are no strangers to the Alpha Man. As you are aware, the Bad Boy myth - that women sleep with the dangerous guys out there - has some elements of truth to it. Not every woman is...

Movies

Gladiator - Russel Crowe is the epitome of male confidence. Strength and Honor Maverick - Mel Gibson's character imitates wimpiness, but he's really demonstrating the hallmark characteristics of the confident and effective Alpha Man. Most all the James Bond series, especially the early Sean Connery films. Groundhog Day - Bill Murray's transformation from clueless joker to balanced guy is priceless, but the best part is watching him learn to change his impact and influence on people. The Empire...

Goodcommunication skills Listening as well as talking

Communication skills are not taught in skill, beyond the most primitive basics. You're not taught how to pace your speech, structure your verbal communications, or even how to use techniques like mirroring and reading body language. All of this you must learn on your own, by experience or by study. I urge you to develop your abilities in this area as much as possible, as it will be your primary tool for influencing other people. Without good communication skills you can never really communicate...

Verbal Sparring with Women

One of the most effective seduction techniques you can develop is the ability to spar with women using only your wit. It's a little like doing improvisational comedy, in a lot of ways, but you can develop this skill fairly easily. Women are very effective with both oral and body language. They became experts at this when they were kids, when they had to interpret what other girls and boys meant. Boys were good at this, too, actually. They could figure out what their parents were really saying,...

Get Rid of Those Whiney She Man Boyfriends of Yours

Most guys are running around with a boat anchors around their neck. These anchors are their negative-attitude, got-no-game, man-bitch, whining, wimpy boyfriends. Don't get caught up in the game of rehabilitating your friends. I know that peer groups are often difficult to separate from. Honestly, if you feel that it's too painful to get rid of certain friends to get to this new state, then you'll never do it. You'll just sit back there in the pack, kissing the asses of the Alpha Dogs in front...

Step 1 The Introduction

During the introduction, you have only one game plan To raise her interest enough with your teasing and humor so that she wants to know more. Just when you think she's ripe, you either get her away from the pack (isolate her) or you get her number and eject from the situation. The better you get at this, the further you can go in that first encounter. Younger women (18-24) need to be moved on further in the first meeting or you might not get that second chance. Their buying temperature can cool...

Impatience The Alpha Killer

Oh, if I could just demonstrate this one pitfall that all men fall into and how it kills your chances with women. As part of the Dating Dynamics and Seduction Method operations, I regularly answer emails from customers during the process of answering questions or handling any number of other customer service issues. One thing that distresses me most is the level of impatience I encounter in my dealings. I can literally tell by the emails they send me and the tone of the writing as to what is...

Bravado Boldness Cockiness Confidence Selfesteem

These terms all mean something completely different, and all have a place on our sliding scale of demonstrating Alpha Man behavior. Let's put these behaviors on a scale Arrog ance True High Self-steem Arrog ance True High Self-steem On one end - the far left - you have the least disciplined form of man, who is a slave to his insecurities and to other's opinions of himself. On that same end, we have Bravado, which is a false confidence that doesn't know how to handle itself. It's like having a...

There is no woman who can change my value as a man

I'll tell you this If you can build this belief so solidly that you never even flinch when you say it to yourself in the mirror, you're well on the path to being a bad-ass with women. Because this core belief must be in there somewhere or she's going to be able to sniff you out faster than a dog can find an ass convention. Don't avoid the truth, and don't be too afraid to shine a light on those lacunas. And if you ignore it too long, it will bite. Now, back to our scenario. Remember when I...