What You Owe For

Lots of men assume that, if a woman has sex with him, he's somehow obligated to stay with a woman as long as she wants, to call her the next day, and so on. Slavery was abolished in most countries long ago. And so was indentured servitude (unless you marry and or impregnate a woman). On what basis do you owe her anything beyond what she owes you Have you ever taken a woman out to a fancy restaurant and perhaps to a play or a concert afterwards For which you paid a hefty sum of money Perhaps she...

Lesson Ten Overcoming Shyness

Many men who do poorly with women are shy and it shows. They exude a clear lack of confidence around women. That in turn feeds on itself a The less confident the man, the harder it is for him to succeed with women. a The harder it is for him to succeed with women, the less confident he'll be. It's a vicious downward cycle, and you'll have to interrupt and reverse that pattern. Shyness is the fear of approaching and interacting with other people until you know them fairly well or at least until...

Hairstyle Differences Between the Sexes

Men's hairstyles on TV tend to be fairly pedestrian. They may be bald or perhaps they've shaved their heads. Their hair may be closely cut or it may be a bit longer and blow-dried. They might have a moustache or a beard. Whatever the arrangement, it will be fairly bland and similar to how many of the other men on the set also wear their hair. The two main exceptions are when a man wears an obvious toupee or is mostly bald on top but combs several very long strands of hair from one side of his...

Always Have An Exit Strategy

The fourth step for avoiding an entangling relationship you don't really want is to have an exit strategy. Venture capitalists won't put any money into a promising company without having an exit strategy clearly planned in advance. If you invest in the stock market, you'll do much better if you have an exit strategy for determining when to sell your stock (and not just a strategy for buying it in the first place). It makes just as much sense to have an exit strategy when dating. If you've ever...

Female Boxing Anyone

The recommended answer to this question is A (good). It's not easy to find female boxing matches, but they're golden opportunities if you do have a chance to see one. They're great places to take a date (if you've just met a woman somewhere else) and they can also be a good place to pick up women. Here's why There's one thing that excites women more than taking a man away from another woman and that's to see one woman treating another woman really badly. The more vicious the women are to each...

Heighten The Intrigue

Another of the big mistakes that most men make with women is to reveal too much of themselves, too easily and too early in the dating process. During the course of dates and relationships, you've probably had women grill you more intensively than most TV detectives would. They're trying to find out everything there is to know about you. Like most men, you probably answered all of their questions fully, right If they asked you about something, you somehow felt obligated to answer them because...

When A Light Touch is Called

Have you ever had a woman run a finger up and down your arm with so little pressure that it felt like a mosquito had landed You, being male, would not have found that to be exciting. To you, it tickled. Chances are that it gave you the creeps. So you'd tell her to stop doing that. But have you ever wondered why women like to do that Most men assume that she's just trying to tease him to get a reaction in the same way that kids tease each other. Not so. Women love in the style in which they...

Why Laundromats Dont Have To Be Boring

The recommended answer for this question is A (good). If you're still relatively young (under thirty), the corner Laundromat can be one of your best percentage bets. As with the local supermarket, both of you have Plausible Deniability and so her defenses will not be up. The place will almost certainly not be filled with handsome hunks you'll have to compete against. And she won't expect to get picked up there. And what makes the Laundromat even better than the supermarket is that there's...

Your Final Assignment

A light touch with women means that you're not intimidated by them. And that's an attractive quality to women, since the best catches are not afraid of women. So if you're fearless, you must be a great catch. Tailor your strategies to your own style and personality. You don't have to master everything in order to improve your results. Mastering even a few of the skills in this Program can boost your results noticeably. a Keep experimenting with your approach, and a Vary your technique a bit and...

Single Double Triple And Away You Go

As with anything in life, practice is the key. Once you can comfortably complete Double Couplets with cashiers and waitresses as if it were second nature, you can try for Triple Couplets. For that, we recommend that you notice something interesting (but nothing sexual in nature) about her. What will be interesting will depend on the woman in question. But the items to look for are unusual nail colors or eclectic jewelry or possibly even an off-beat hat. Here's the magic phrase Wow, cool (or...

Start With Her Feet

There's an easy way around that hesitation Offer to give her a foot massage. There's nothing overtly sexual about a foot massage and most women we've met love them. Women wear incredibly uncomfortable shoes in an effort to be stylish. Their shoes are often too small (in hopes of making their feet look less huge) and they have high heels that press her body weight downward into the narrow toe space. Eight or ten hours on her feet (or just half an hour spent walking around) and her feet will be...

Other Massage Types

There are other types of massage that work very well too. We always use these as a next step once we have a new woman hooked on foot massages. We talked about foot massages already. Hand massages are equally non-sexual but at the same time very sensual, which is almost the same thing for women. Similar acupressure techniques are available for massaging hands as for massaging feet. The degree of relaxation a hand massage provides is less than for feet but it's a logical progression. But if she...

Lesson Thirteen Chumming Referrals Low Hanging Fruit

Most men are not very skilled at dating, but quite a few men are good at their jobs. They may not understand women but they do understand how the business world works. Put that to your advantage Run your love life like a business. By that, we don't mean that you should charge women by the hour for your services (although if you can, why not ). But many strategies that make sense in business will also make sense in dating. Why Because so many elements are similar. Just as vendors compete for...

Building On What You Have

Let's build on what you can already do You can chat easily with women in the no sex available categories but that's partly because you already know them, so the initial ice has already been broken. Chances are good that in each of the above situations, either someone else had first introduced you to her thus breaking the ice for you or else she broke the ice herself by lobbing the first pleasantry. So the next skill to learn is how to break that ice for yourself. That requires that you practice...

A Your ranking is

A Then you're extremely boring b Then you're frequently boring C Then you're sometimes boring It's not quite that simple, but it's close enough If you're bored, then you're also boring. And when it comes to women, that constitutes the ultimate sin in dating for the man to be boring. Most men we've met who do poorly with women lead a pretty empty life. They work, they go home, they hang out, they kill time. Even they know they're bored. They think that, If only I can get a girlfriend, then...