Refining the close

(originally suggested by Mystery) When you do the close, don't just trade numbers, accompany it with a humorous But when I call you, I don't want you to answer Huh Who Ah. its you. ee so. howzit going., I want you to act really enthusiastic and happy, like Oh, you called God I'm so glad , ok Is that a deal ) This ends the close on a very light, friendly and positive note plus automatically kick-starts the phone call on that very same note ) Additionally you can end the phone call in the same...

Wanna play the dating game Um lets see

Actually, dates should be an exclusive reward and privilege of those girls that you're already sleeping with. But if you still decide to take her on a date before that don't make it a date, say that you'll just get together. And make sure she pays for her coffee drink food. If she refuses, eject her - she was only interested in a chump who would buy her food drinks. You can however suggest paying for rounds of beer coffee in turns - for example, you'll pay for the first round, she the second...

Use a gimmick to get going

Ross Jeffries Are you into metaphysics Do you believe in astrology Astral projection ESP Tarot cards What's that you say You think it's all a bunch of crap Well, so do I. But guess what Women eat this stuff up like candy, so I PRETEND to be interested in all of it Of course, my favourite gimmick of gimmicks is analysing a chick's handwriting. Do I have any training in this field Have I even read a single book on the subject OF COURSE NOT But of course, just by coincidence, we carry the good old...

Reading the signs of a committed woman

For starters - a story which at first glance only seems to illustrate the mistake of judging a girl by her words and not her actions. But after a more careful inspection, even those seemingly rejecting words of her are actually a complementary sign to her actions (the sign being - I want you ). Ok boys and girls, learn from Mr. Happy's mistake so that you don't fall for it yourself. I met this chick online and got her to agree to meet me to play some pool. She was *really* hot. I also did a...

Alienating the boyfriend in her mind

We all know that not one person in this world is perfect. If you begin talking about relationships, feel free to discuss the little things that bother people in a relationship in general and later get her to give you examples of some of the things that bug her about her boyfriend or husband. At first she may not say much, but if she can relate to the day to day problems in a relationship that you describe in general the more likely it is for her to agree with you on some points. When she does...

Falling in love vs being a player

The question of falling in love is tricky for everyone and the PUA is no exception. He is however less likely to develop a pathetic and desperate fixation commonly associated with falling in love. It can happen, but its effects (jealousy, depression etc) are far less severe. They just don't have any room to develop and aren't given enough time to reach their full potential. The word polyamorous has been coined which is probably the closest match to describing how a seducer is in love - he is...

Patterning over the phone

Ross Jeffries The phone is an incredible way to do patterns because women feel they aren't being observed and therefore can be a lot stronger in their responses. The consensus of using the phone as a seduction device is divided. Most agree, that if you lack any patterning skills, the phone is the kiss of death. Agree on a meeting, agree on her enthusiastic greeting of you once the two of you meet (see Closing), if she seems to want to have a chit-chat with you, talk to her a little using a low,...

Slow dancing

Slow dancing is another exception to the rule (see About dancing for the first few exceptions). It is a most excellent way of getting some more intimate kino started. If you hear a slow-dance coming up, don't waste any time. Take the girl you're presently with to the dance-floor (unless you're in the middle of a pattern and she is about to fly higher and higher ) or if you're presently in that 3 second period of having - and *closed one girl and not yet approached another (you haven't just been...

Anchoring explained

A more advanced aspect of patterning is anchoring. Anchoring is an application of Pavlov's reflex in NLP (and also in Speed Seduction). A Pavlov's reflex is a conditioned reflex first explored and introduced by Russian scientist Pavlov. The core of his experiment was as follows -he rang a bell, gave a dog some food, the dog saw and smelled the food and started salivating. After a few times of repeating the process of ringing a bell, offering food and getting the dog to salivate, he eliminated...

Nightclubs vs other places to meet girls

Adapted from Ross Jeffries' newsletter) Bars, night-clubs and night spots Well, if you want to waste you're money, go ahead. Women in these places are far more uptight, far more likely to be very picky about who'll they'll talk to, and plus you'll probably have to spend some money to get in or stay in. Far better places to meet girls are libraries, parks, coffee-shops and various spots around college campuses. Should you still be a college student yourself and have access to college-premises -...

Dealing with rejection

Whatever you did to get rejected (a serious dumb-ass pick-up line, asking for a dance out of the blue, offering to buy a girl a drink, trying a close when all her signs were screaming I'm not interested etc), you should seriously reconsider you approaches. You are there to make the woman feel good, better than she's ever felt before in her life. Remember, the attitude to have when is Hmm, let's find out how much incredible and ticklish fun this woman can stand...

Pace and lead

An example of verbal pacing and demonstrating understanding to increase rapport (see Mirroring for an explanation and examples of physical pacing). Speed Seduction newsletter, Ross Jeffries VERBALLY PACE THE ONGOING SITUATION - I cannot emphasize enough the power of this VERY important rule. Basically, what it means is to verbally describe and therefore ACKNOWLEDGE the situation and reality that she finds herself in with you. Let's say you're a lucky s.o.b., and, like me, you live right by a...

Understanding 8 Do NOT Lust For Results

Speed Seduction is not just about how you speak it is a different way of perceiving the world. As such, it takes time to approach mastery. That means the key is to immerse yourself in these learnings. Practice all the time, every day, on as many people as you can. If you reserve your practice ONLY for beautiful women, you make beautiful women the cause of your skill, and THAT is a fatal error No, I'm not suggestion you get some disgusting ugly monster hot and horny. I am suggesting that using...

Female seducer turning straight girls into bi and lesbian

Today I am going throw into discussion, someone I know who is capable of what I consider, an ultimate seduction. A friend of one of my GF's is a (Japanese) lesbian sadist. Her (the Catwoman) sport, is to meet normal girls, get them to fall completely in love with her, and make them lesbians (or Bi's) so that she can shag them or do whatever else she wants to do to them. I consider this to be the ultimate seduction, as not only does she have to catch the chick, she has to make them lez too. I am...

The three major lines in the hand

Hand Know Long Life

When you look into your hands, you will see the three major lines of heart, head, and life (see picture). The heart line shows how we feel, the head line how we think and the life line how much physical vitality we have to sustain the body. The motivation to live is not shown by the life line alone. One's inspiration for life could be arising out of a strong emotional need to connect with someone, reflected by an intense heart line. The desire to live could be motivated by an urge for...

You look stunning approach

One of the best approaches I've ever used for meeting women is just to be incredibly direct, but also VERY low key. This combination exerts an almost HYPNOTIC fascination. So, for example, if I spot a woman I find attractive, in a low-key, but direct way, I'll walk up to her and Excuse me (you're not really excusing yourself for making her feel really-really good in just a moment, you're giving her a command to stop whatever she's doing and pay attention to you, you can alternatively use...

The questions game

I bet you always have a lot of interesting questions you'd like to ask a lady when you first meet her. Like What was your first kiss like , When did you have sex for the first time , How did you have your first orgasm , What makes you horny , Have you ever been caught masturbating etc, you get the idea (see Eliciting values - the questions for a list of some slightly more normal questions to ask). But you can't just go ahead and ask them - you'll come off as a complete insensitive jerk if you...

Delivering patterns general rules

It is important to be as vague as possible in your patterns. For one thing, vagueness for a woman doesn't sound incoherent or obscure like it does to the rational and matter-of-fact mind of a man. For a girl, vague equals romantic, thrilling, mysterious and intriguing. For another thing, being vague in your patterns lets her more easily link the feelings you describe with her own experiences or dreams. The more vague, the better Doesn't patterning sound unnatural (Ross Jeffries )...

If she has second thoughts

To help her decide, when she already wants it, you can try these pattern-like approaches Ross Jeffries We shouldn't do it, and we shouldn't enjoy so much. And please don't try to convince me, that you'd really want to do it. now. with me, this is the way I see it. I just talked to my friend, Tina, and she told me it is so unbelievably unfair, that men can make love to any woman they choose, but if a woman wants to express exercise and enjoy her sexual liberty, she is frowned upon. And I...

How to Lay Girls Guide

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