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Articles

Psychologically disturbed women How to quickly recognise them and get rid of them even quicker

As a seducer you will no longer be in contact just with your cat and your beloved Maria who lives next door. You will be in contact everyday with a whole series of many different women. There is a reality to which you must be prepared otherwise you'll go through a lot of trouble The majority of women have problems, some have big problems. Many women you encounter on your path as a seducer are psychologically disturbed. You must learn to recognize them and bring them to bed just once or in some...

Dont Accept a Saturday Night Date after Wednesday

.Zt's quite common these days for men to ask women out for the same night or the very next day. And it's equally common for women to accept such casual, last-minute invitations out of fear that it will be the best offer they get that week. But this is not a Rules date. The man who eventually wants to marry you will not wait until the last minute to ask you out. On the contrary, he is kind, considerate thoughtful and also afraid that if he doesn't pin you down five days in advance he may not see...

Clusters Circumstances and Gestures in Daily Encounters

Has High Status

Figure 165 A good example of an openness cluster. The palms are fully exposed in the submissive position and the fingers are spread wide to give more impact to the gesture. The head is in the neutral position and the arms and legs are apart. This man is communicating a submissive, non-threatening attitude. Figure 166 This is a classic deceit cluster. As he rubs his eye he looks away towards the floor and both eyebrows are raised to the disbelief position. His head is turned away and down,...

Reading Male Flirting Signals

Research shows us that women have a range of 52 flirting signals to let men know they're interested men have approximately 10. Thankfully women are quite adept at spotting and deciphering these clues To see if a man's interest in you is more than just passing, look for the following preening clues when you're around a man Hair A guy either smooths or messes up his hair, depending on his hairstyle, to show you that he's trying to display himself at his very best. Smoothing When he flattens his...

Dont Call Him and Rarely Return His Calls

If you are following The Rules religiously, there is no reason to call him. He should be calling you, and calling you again and again until he pins you down for a date. To call men is to pursue them, which is totally against The Rules. They will immediately know that you like them and possibly lose interest Another reason not to call men is so you don't catch them in the middle of something-watching a football game, paying bills, entertaining a friend, or even sleeping when they may not be in...

Let Him Take the Lead

The man must take the lead or you fall over your feet. He should be the first one to say I love you, I miss you, I've told my parents so much about you. They can't wait to meet you. He should be an open book, you should be a mystery. Don't tell him he's the first person you've felt this way about in a long time or that you never thought you'd fall in love again. Remember, let him take the lead. He declares love first just as he picks most of the movies, the...

Tip 10 Stop Being Too Available

Never ever make yourself too available. People like mystery and enigma and the thrill of the chase when dating. In keeping with this do not sleep with your dates early on if you want them to progress, so keep sex until later. The longer a person is made to chase and fall for you within reason, the more likely that love may blossom. Peak too early and you have little left to offer and emotions may never have had the time to develop. Here is a truth, most people are too available far too...

How to Lay Girls Guide

General 3s Be the Alpha Dominant Do my looks The Iranian from Nice guys vs Good traits to have develop to be a successful It all comes down to Women want good sex and Should you express or contain your sexual Wanna play the dating game Um let's The rules with your Getting On confidence and getting started with approaching Casual meetings vs At a Just say Talk to girls How to initiate a Talking to her echoing Fluff The don'ts of fluff Reading body Kinaesthetics aka kino - have kino with your...

Dont See Him More than Once or Twice a Week

Ost men fall in love faster than women. They also fall out of love faster. They may want to see you two or three times a week, some even every day, in the beginning. If you give in and see them every time, eventually they get restless and irritable, and then stop calling. They seem moody a lot and say things 1 ikze, I don't know what's wrong. I just have a lot going on right now. To keep a man from getting too much too soon, don't see him more than once or twice a week for the first month or...

The Forehead Bow Body Language

The forehead bow is a position of submissiveness. It occurs when a woman lowers her head, then looks up at a man from under her eyebrows. It's a sort of come hither look and could occur while eating dinner or while reading. It is akin to a full body bow which is used around the world to show respect. In contrast, the opposite could occur where the head is tilted backwards and a downward gaze is cast upon the other person. It is best pictured as looking down one's nose at someone and comes off...

Two Steps Forward One Step Back

We don't realize how much we want the things we have, until we lose them, that is. How about making someone want something new, by giving it to them and then taking it away Sometimes a woman will be open and warm and other times, she'll be closed and cold. This can be because of all kinds of different factors how you're acting, how she's feeling, the setting you're in, what's on her mind, or what kinds of hormones are running through her body. I want to talk about a technique that I've found...

Tip 17 Assume rapport

As in assume there is already a rapport. This is achieved in a pretty straight up way as of course you want her to feel similarity with you being someone she is in rapport with. The basic way and theory is to be non-threatening. Not in a sexual way but in a rapport based way. So the hover before the approach, or to walk up in her general area, and pretend to notice something near her and pay quick attention to it, is a great first gesture. For her then to give you eye contact or look at you and...

Dominant and Submissive Handshakes

Submissive Dominant Relationships

Considering what has already been said about the impact of a command given in both the palm-up and palm-down positions, let us explore the relevance of these two palm positions in hand shaking. Assume that you have just met someone for the first time and you greet each other with a customary handshake. One of three basic attitudes is transmitted through the handshake. These are dominance 'This person is trying to dominate me. I'd better be cautious', submission 'I can dominate this person. He...

Flirting with intent The signs

Flirting with intent is when someone's interested in being more than just friends and their behaviour changes to indicate the romantic motive behind their actions. This intention is hormone-fuelled, and being able to tell when this is happening is useful for either progressing a relationship or avoiding leading that person on. Establishing if someone wants more than friendship is useful when you're flirting with intent or are trying to determine whether someone else is flirting with intent with...

The phases of a seduction

As we have said Seduction can be divided into phases. It is important to know them all. If you have a clear mental scheme you will be prepared when in action. You will be then much more effective. Once you have become an expert in seduction, you will also be able to perform variations on the theme, like a virtuoso. At the beginning, however, try to follow these phases. b. Establishing Initial contact (Opening and Small talk.) c. Building Attraction & establishing Rapport & Comfort. I...

How To Make A Girl Play Sex Wiz You Through Huging

No three-letter word holds more power. I suppose you were eager to get to this section, hmm Waiting for some hot tips I've got some great information for you, but I'm not going into embarrassing graphic detail here. Frankly, there are many other books out there to help you in this area. (And they have better pictures, too.) I just want to cover some of the Dating Dynamics concepts with you, as well as give you some information about sex you may not have known about. First of all, realize...

Reading and Reacting to Female Flirting Signals

Women have some extra flirting clues that are peculiar to the fairer sex. Look out for these in addition to the clues you've gleaned already. You may know the old saying 'a face can tell a thousand stories'. In the midst of a flirtation you can certainly tell a lot from a woman's facial expression, particularly by knowing how to read her eyes and mouth movements. Intense feelings cause the tear glands to secrete fluid, but they won't overflow and reduce her to tears unless she's feeling pain or...

Always End Phone Calls First

D on't call men see Rule 5 , except to occasionally return their calls. When a man calls you, don't stay on the phone for more than ten minutes. Buy a timer if you have to. When the bell rings, you have to go That way you seem busy and you won't give away too much about yourself or your plans even if you don't have any plans . By ending the conversation first, you leave them wanting more. Good conversation enders are I have a million things to do, Well, it's been really nice talking to you,...

Courtship Gestures and Signals

Female Courtship Signals

I have a friend named Graham who has developed an art that most males would love to acquire. Whenever he attends a social function he can quickly 'psych out' the available women, make his choice and, in almost record-breaking time sometimes as little as ten minutes , he may be seen heading towards the exit with the woman, escorting her to his car and drilling back to his apartment. I have even seen him return to the party within an hour and repeat this amazing process two or three times in the...

The alpha male and the alpha attitude

In some animal groups the Alpha male is the male having superior physical and intellectual skills and taking for himself the right to take sexually all the females of the group. The Alpha male is the source of life for the group. In fact he is the one with the best skills in supplying food and fighting dangerous enemies. The Beta male is the weaker male, who is forced to wait until the Alpha male dies, gets sick or is too old to be able to get his share of females. The beta male is also...

Humor And Positive Sexual Tension

Crucial to understand By showing that you are in control, perfectly at ease, and that you are dominant, you create a POSITIVE sexual TENSION. Women LOVE this type of tension, because it makes the thought of having sex with you so much more thrilling, since you have made it clear you are so masculine, so sexy, and so not easy Sexual tension is crucial in creating passionate desire. Sexual tension, and hence attraction, is created by the presence of obstacles to sex. Think about the most popular...

Dont Rush into Sex and Other Rules for Intimacy

When it okay to have sex The Rule depends on your age and personal feelings. If you're eighteen and a virgin, you will want to wait until you are in a committed relationship. If you're thirty-nine, waiting a month or two can be fine. Of course, if you feel strongly against premarital sex, you should wait until you're married. If he loves you, he'll respect whatever decision you make. But don't be surprised if the man you're dating gets very angry when you kiss him good night in the lobby at the...

Speed Seduction Article from Playboy July

The paradigm shift the journalist experiences is a good indicator of what to expect should you consider trying out for the first time either patterning or any other seduction technique described in this guide The article is also good example of how starting with patterns right at the outset is a doomed approach, they just sound too lame and embarrassing. But the one time the journalist does it right, starts with some fluff talk, has the actually we know each other attitude, comments on...

How to Act on Dates 1 2 and

Ii you are anything like us, you've thought a lot about how much the two of you have in common before he even arrives to pick you up. And you've named the children before he says hello. This type of seemingly innocuous daydreaming before the date is dangerous, possibly the worst thing you can do short of professing love to him during dessert. This kind of fantasizing leads to unfulfilled longing and to unrealistic expectations of romance and passion that make you prone to say foolish things lik...

Fish or Cut Bait Relationship Evaluation

There comes a time in any dating situation where you have to decide whether to go to the next stage or the next relationship. Going to the next relationship is exciting and can re-create the fun early days of getting to know someone. But if you're not careful, you may find yourself doing only dessert and never the meal, because in dating the dessert part comes first. If you're looking exclusively for excitement, it always makes sense to move on. If you're looking for intimacy and even...

No More than Casual Kissing on the First Date

1t's common knowledge that men want as much as they can get on the first date. It's your job to slow them down. Let him kiss you on the first date, but nothing more. Keeping it to a kiss will force him not to think of you as just a physical object. If a Rules relationship is to develop, he must fall in love with your soul, your whole being, not just your body. So the less you do physically, the better. Beside it's easier to stop something if you don't let things get too hot and heavy right...

Always End the Date First

If you have not been living by The Rules, then you probably didn't know that the first date or two should last no more than five hours. A good way to end the date is to nonchalantly glance at your watch and say something like Gosh, I really must be going now. I have such a busy day tomorrow. As we said before don't say what you're doing. It doesn't matter and it's none of his business. Ending the date first is not so easy when you really like him and want to marry him, and you're both having a...

Verbal Sparring with Women

One of the most effective seduction techniques you can develop is the ability to spar with women using only your wit. It's a little like doing improvisational comedy, in a lot of ways, but you can develop this skill fairly easily. Women are very effective with both oral and body language. They became experts at this when they were kids, when they had to interpret what other girls and boys meant. Boys were good at this, too, actually. They could figure out what their parents were really saying,...

Your manipulative body language techniques

In the '80s, budding salesmen and entrepreneurs were taught how to take control of meetings with powerful body language techniques These included gems like the power shake, where they fought to get their hand on top in the shake, and the eye-stare, where you engaged your victim in an eye-contact stand-off with the loser being the one who looked away first These are now quite rightly deemed corny and too much like testosterone-fuelled posturing to have a place in modern life . However, there are...

Eliciting values introducing the questions

Back to the Table of Contents Partial Estonian translation In order to accomplish eliciting values properly, you need her to provide you with her core values and in order for her to be able to do that, you need to ask the right questions. For example, you could start with I think its an absolutely fantastic feeling to get to know another human being. And what's really stimulating, is to learn what someone else thinks of major issues revolving around us in this world. and discovering what's...

The Go First Principle

A really important and powerful principle in seduction that I love to use is the Go First Principle. It comes from the hypnosis field. Basically, it says that easiest way to push somebody into some specific emotional state is to go into that state yourself and then other person will pick up on it and unconsciously follow you. We see it all the time in daily life. When we hang around people we begin to share their emotions. That's why people like to be around fun lively people and stay away from...

Female Leg Cross Gestures

Woman Sexual Desire Body Language

Men often sit with their legs apart in an aggressive crotch display, whereas women use leg crossing as protection for their delicate genital area. Women use three basic positions to communicate a courting attitude. With the knee point Figure 121 , one leg is tucked under the other and points to the person whom she finds interesting. This is a very relaxed position which takes the formality out of a conversation and gives the opportunity for a fleeting exposure of the thighs. The shoe fondle...

Reading Body Language

Body language speaks louder than words you reveal all your thoughts, moods, and attitudes through it. You can also read the conscious and subconscious thoughts of the person you're flirting with by simply observing what they are or are not doing. I've heard so many people comment that somebody doesn't like them or is feeling defensive just because they've seen them cross their arms. Interpreting this gesture in these ways is a classic mistake one movement alone doesn't create a mood or...

The Secret Language of Flirting and Sexual Chemistry

Most of what people refer to as 'chemistry' lies in the communication between two people. You'll notice that if a man starts a conversation in a completely serious and proper manner, i.e. there's nothing unusual about the way he communicates, there's unlikely to be chemistry between him and the woman he's boring. When we say there's chemistry between people, what we're really saying is that they're both flirting with each other. It only takes one person to flirt, but it takes two to have...

Let Her Think Its Her Idea

Another essential strategy you must use is letting the woman think that the things you want are her idea. If she thinks you're the one asking her back to your house, she's going to have a cognitive guard up, making her wonder What's he after On the other hand, if she thinks you're just speaking what she's already thinking, (perhaps things she would never actually say, like Let's go back to my place) she's much more likely to go along with you. You're just opening the gate to the road in front...

How to look for signs of rejection or being dismissive

I Brushing hand across knee or thigh as though brushing away crumbs . Those invisible crumbs could be symbolic of your thoughts or ideas . I Shrugging. This gesture really does mimic a throwing off of ideas or situations . If they do this in reply to your idea or conversation, it's likely they're casting it off, but it could apply to their own speech, so look for the moment of shrug and what's being said at the time I Head shaking. This mimics a child rejecting the breast and is one of the most...

Science of Testosterone

Be a Man A Man is one who is not afraid of his testosterone. This will seem incredibly basic. But to illustrate the effects, look at the effects of men who must be injected with artificial testosterone because (for whatever reason) their body isn't making enough (usually due to having HIV). One HIV positive guy shares his differences with the before and after shots His weight increases from 165 pounds to 185 pounds. The collar size goes from 15 to 17 1 2, the chest from 40 to 44. His appetite...

Body Language and Non Verbal Cues

So how do we subcommunicate the right things Through proper use of body language and non-verbal cues. As I mentioned, facial expressions, voice intonation, speed of speech, how you walk, the way you carry yourself through the world, making eye contact, how fast you move, and even our breathing communicate attributes to the people around you. Start watching people closely as you go about your daily life. At work, in the store, at the club just sit back and observe what people are doing with...

Online Dating Tips from the Author of Dynamic Sex Life

Allen Gun Reyes here with my section of tips, techniques, mindsets, realizations attitudes, and tactics. For those of you who do not know me I wrote the e-book Dynamic sex life as well as the now internet wide and famous Gunwitch method that has been translated in to several languages and is responsible for many many men improving their sex life tremendously in straight forward fashion.

The general rule here is when a woman likes you she will reciprocate your body language and have an open posture and if

If she likes you, she will move closer to you when you move closer (or at least will not move back) and if she does not like you, she will move back if you move closer (sometimes not straight away but in a few minutes). If she likes you, she will smile back to you when you smile at her. If she does not like you, she will look away. If she likes you, she will happily accept your ideas if she does not like you, everything you do will be wrong. If she likes you, she will be happy and relaxed, even...

MLTR Multiple Long Term Relationships

A healthy adult man, who for one reason or another is in a state of sexual deprivation, feels bad and doesn't live well. A healthy adult man needs to have sex at least once a day or at a minimum 4-5 times a week. The lack of sex is an extremely painful and unhealthy condition, particularly if the man is under constant presence of a stimulus very beautiful women in front of his eyes all the time. A man's pressing sexual instinct is one of the main reasons why...

Fidelity and seduction a new context Dont let women transform you into a beta

I know I am going to upset all your ethical notions, but you'll notice that in so doing I'm helping you, little by little, to live a better life. Here's a new concept about fidelity. Fidelity is a time contract, which, if you want, you can make with a woman who satisfies you emotionally and physically and who treats you well. And in the same manner as you made the time contract, you can also terminate it if she stops treating you well. Indeed the awareness that she might loose you at any moment...

Tip 18 Create Sexual Tension

A common trait I've noticed between guys who regularly get women, and guys who don't, is their willingness to bring sexuality into their interactions with women. Many guys are a bit gun-shy when it comes down to talking sexual with a woman. Often times, we're taught we gotta handle women with kids gloves, and not offend them with overt sexuality. But more often than not, the guys who DO bring it up are the ones that get the girls to go along with it. Oddly enough, I learned this from watching...

Teasing And Oppo Site Body Language

Tease Grammar

Opposite side in order to be on the proper side of your open gestures. Playing hard to get can sometimes put you back in the driver's seat with women. For example, you could display a carefree attitude by slouching lower in a seat, opening up your posture, and taking up more space than necessary to demonstrate dominance. This may excite certain women since you are displaying as a typical alpha male, but if you go overboard, it will turn women off. You can also tease by showing feigned...

How to Act on Dates 4 through Commitment Time

The first three dates, you showed up and acted sweet. On the fourth date you can show more of yourself. You can talk about your feelings, as long as you don't get too heavy, or play therapist or mother. Exhibit warmth, charm, and heart. If his dog died or his baseball team lost, express sympathy. Look into his eyes, be attentive and a good listener so that he knows you are a caring human being a person who would make a supportive wife. Still, don't mention words like marriagp, wedding kids, or...

Dont Meet Him Halfway or Go Dutch on a Date

En love a challenge that's why they play sports, fight wars, and raid corporations. The worst thing you can do is make it easy for them. When a man is trying to set up a date to meet you, don't say, Actually, I'm going to be in your area anyway don't offer the names of restaurants between your place and his, unless he asks. Don't say much at all. Let him do all the thinking, the talking, let him flip through the Yellow Pages or magazine listings and call a couple of friends for suggestions to...

Haptic Communication Touch

Haptics Communication Intimacy

Haptic communication is the communication that occurs by touch. It is very important to know how to touch because it can be construed differently under different circumstances and can result in different outcomes. Touch can be used as an extension of friendship or as a full on assault depending on how it is delivered. The method and particulars of the touch also have meaning. For example, a hug or handshake that last a bit longer than ordinary can signify intimacy or compassion. Or comparably,...

Almost Ten Places where Unwanted Admirers may Strike

Putting space between yourself and colleagues Dealing with strangers Losing unwanted admirers rn Occasionally finding that your new best friend, colleague, or flirtation is actually very annoying can be disappointing. Worse still is when you find out they're actually pretty clingy and resistant to your polite efforts to let them down gently. Most people have both the ability to tell when a relationship -romantic, work, as friends, or otherwise - isn't quite working and the sense to know when...

Love Only Those Who Love

One of the greatest payoffs of doing The Rules is that you grow to love only those who love you. If you have been following the suggestions in this book, you have learned to take care of yourself. You're eating well and working out. You're busy with interests and hobbies and dating, and you're not calling or chasing men. You have high self-esteem because you are not sleeping around or having affairs with married men. You love with your head, not just your heart. You are honest you have...

Dont Tell Him What to Do

If your boyfriend wants to join the new in health club where all the leggy model types work out, don't tell him to jog on the street or exercise at home. Say, That's great and go about your business. Don't show that you are jealous or insecure. If he loves you, it won't matter how pretty the girls at the gym are. If he'd rather go camping with his friends on the we& ends than be with you, either let him or break up with him, but don't tell him what to do. Our friend Marcy was seeing Joe for...

Last But Not Least 12 Extra Hints

When he asks you out silently count to five before saying yes. It will make him nervous and that's good 2. Don't call him even when you feel mean about not calling him. If he loves you, he'll call anyway. When he asks you to call him, call him once. Do the absolute 3. When he asks you out for ice cream, a drink, or to a football game when you wish you were going out for a fancy dinner, say Sure Remember, you're hard to get but easy to be with You'll go to an expensive 4. When walking down...

Womans language and seduction

Of course, seduction is not only connected with genetics and the instinct to procreate. Seduction has much to do with psychology as well. Neuropsychology is a science studying the way in which our neurological structure expresses itself on a psychological level. Surprise, surprise It helps us to understand the differences between man and woman. Also a branch of psychology called NLP (Neurolinguistic programming) helps us to understand what happens in the field of seduction. NLP is a very broad...

Goal Setting The Proactive Approach to Seduction

> Taking control of your life V The lessons of history classic seductreiiei and ieJocers > Deciding to become seductive > Determining the type of people you want to attract This chapter is about goal setting deciding exactly what you want and beginning the process of getting it. If you're an incurable romantic, you may be wondering why we're talking about goal setting at all in a book about seduction. Perhaps you think any mention of goals in this context sounds too much like business and...

Tip 15 Manage your horniness instead of letting it manage you

Let's face it, if you're the kind of guy who's been taking care of your own business for most of your life I wouldn't know anything about this myself, but I read all about it in a book somewhere once, I think. , then you've probably got the art of self-love down to a friggin' science by now I suspect that you probably practice your craft often and with great enthusiasm as well. This is all fine and dandy, but unfortunately, sex drive happens to be one of Nature's great motivators for getting...

Be a Creature Unlike Any Other

.Z eing a creature unlike any other is a state of mind. You don't have to be rich, beautiful, or exceptionally smart to feel this way about yourself. And you don't have to be born with this feeling either. It can be learned, practiced, and mastered, like all the other rules in this book. Being a creature unlike any other is really an attitude a sense of confidence and radiance that permeates your being from head to toe. It's the way you smile (you light up the room), pause in between sentences...

Master the Art of the Bold Move

A moment has arrived your victim clearly desires you, but is not ready to admit it openly, let alone act on it. This is the time to throw aside chivalry, kindness, and coquetry and to overwhelm with a bold move. Don't give the victim time to consider the consequences create conflict, stir up tension, so that the bold move comes as a great release. Showing hesitation or awkwardness means you are thinking of yourself, as opposed to being overwhelmed by the victim's charms. Never hold back or meet...

Male Courtship Gestures

Listening Gestures

Like most animal species, the human male displays preening behaviour as the female approaches. In addition to the automatic physiological reactions already mentioned, he will reach for his throat and straighten his tie. If he is not wearing a tie, he may smooth his collar or brush imaginary dust from his shoulder and rearrange cufflinks, shirt, coat and other clothing. He may also preen himself by smoothing his hair. The most aggressive sexual display he can make towards the female is the...

Becoming A Modernday Seductress Or Seducer

The very word holds a promise of tantalizing pleasures, sensual indulgence, or, perhaps, forbidden delights. If you're like most of today's women and men, however, you're not hungering for forbidden fruit you simply want a pragmatic, honest, and mutually pleasurable path to enticing a lover. Over the years, I've worked with thousands of couples and individuals first through owning the video dating service Friend Connection, and now through my relationship...

Opening Lines for Speeddating

Speed-dating's great as you're all in the same boat. Everyone knows that everyone else is single and looking for lurve. The pressure's certainly on to find an opening line that works. You can play it straight or make a remark about the event itself. Here are some examples (Playing it straight.) 'Hi, I'm Elizabeth, pleased to meet you' followed by a friendly handshake. This works because standard conversation code is followed and everybody knows where they are and how to respond. (Chapter 8 has...

Rotation Of The Pelvis

While sitting or standing, a woman may subtly roll her pelvis. She may also move her arms and shoulders back so as to make her breasts become more obvious. Upon interest, her chest will seem to protrude further and her posture will become more proper. If a woman is really turned on, she will hold all of her hair in her hands, and then place it on top of her head. She will then tilt her head around to face you while looking over a raised shoulder. You can probably visualize this image in your...

Making the Right Initial Choices A Flirting Checklist

Choosing to flirt with someone you find attractive, as opposed to someone who's available, is a very common mistake and one of the main reasons for rejection. Yet the person being rejected takes it personally, even when the object of their failed flirtation wasn't looking for someone to flirt with in the first place. You can minimise your chances of rejection at the early stages of a flirtation by working through the flirting checklist and making sure everyone's getting the right message. Mark...

Tip 9 Be a Perpetual Flirt who isnt afraid to take a social risk

A dominant male is calm and in control, so a passive, got-my-shit-together approach is always better than a frantic, nervous one, right Of course, you can't act completely aloof unless you're an famous athlete or celebrity of some kind, in which case your reputation has preceded you and done all the preliminary work of seduction in advance. Normal guys like us have to walk a fine line between showing complete disinterest in a woman and behaving like a silly lapdog. Advertise your delight in...

Charisma and Seduction

Charisma is seduction on a mass level. Charismatics make crowds of people fall in love with them, then lead them along. The process of making them fall in love is simple and follows a path similar to that of a one-on-one seduction. Charismatics have certain qualities that are powerfully attractive and that make them stand out. This could be their self-belief, their boldness, their serenity. They keep the source of these qualities mysterious. They do not explain where their confidence or...

Pictorial On Showing Disinterest

Eye Contact Body Language

Both Mark and Julie are showing closed and disinterested body postures. Both have arms crossed and are guarded and both are looking away from each other. Clearly, there is no interest by either of them._ Both Mark and Julie are showing closed and disinterested body postures. Both have arms crossed and are guarded and both are looking away from each other. Clearly, there is no interest by either of them._ Julie isn't taking well to Mark. Her left hand is placed in between her legs so as to hide...

Accentuate the Positive and Other Rules for Personal

P ecsorial ads have become a popular way to meet men. But many women shy away from ads because they feel it smacks of desperation. Don't worry We know lots of women who've placed and answered ads without seeming desperate or too interested. That's because they wrote or responded to ads in a Rules way. Ads can be expensive so make yours no more than four or five lines. Ads that run on and on are a waste of money and seem desperate. Why else would anyone spend six hundred dollars for one ad Not...

Dont Discuss The Rules with Your Therapist

To telling your therapist everything, so it's only natural that you want to tell him or her about The Rules. We strongly suggest you don't go into great detail for the following reasons 1. Some therapists will think that The Rules are dishonest and manipulative. They will encourage you to be open and vulnerable in your relationships with men, to talk things out not to keep your feelings of love or hurt inside. That of course is the basis of the therapeutic process. It's great advice for...

Dont Open Up Too Fast

There are many ways to kill a relationship. Getting heavy and examining everything is certainly one of them. Conditioned by therapy and self-help books to tell all, women tend to overdo it on first dates, bringing up past relationships, their hurts and fears, their alcohol or drug problem all in an attempt to bond with this new man. This is deadly and boring. Be intelligent but light, interesting yet mysterious. That's why we have suggested not opening up too fast. (See...

For Husbands Single Men and Players By Franco

And improve their relationships with women. Encyclopedia of Pickup, Seduction and Female Relationships for the modern man This book is a trademark owned by Matrix Nova. The content of the book, structure & presentation is Copyright 2004 by Matrix Nova. All Rights Reserved. Any attempt to use the book for commercial purposes or illegally distribute it will be legally prosecuted.

Slow and Calculated Movements and Gestures

Watch a few James Bond films, and while you're at it, check out Dirty Rotten Scoundrels. Have you ever noticed that James Bond never looks like he doesn't know how to act And that he never fidgets or behaves nervously Everything James does is a little slower than it should be. He's just too cool. Try learning how to turn your head slowly, how to blink slowly, how to change facial expressions slowly, and how to gesture slowly. This makes a huge impact on how others perceive you. This kind of...

Give Them Space to Fall The Pursuer Is Pursued

If your targets become too used to you as the aggressor, they will give less of their own energy, and the tension will slacken. You need to wake them up, turn the tables. Once they are under your spell, take a step back and they will start to come after you. Begin with a touch of aloofness, an unexpected nonappearance, a hint that you are growing bored. Stir the pot by seeming interested in someone else. Make none of this explicit let them only sense it and their imagination will do the rest,...

Next and Other Rules for Dealing with Rejection

Fortunately, The Rules will help ensure that you are never unnecessarily hurt by a man. By behaving around men in a Rules way independent and busy, not needy or aggressive we do not put ourselves in a position to be hurt. However, we cannot make a certain man like us or prevent a man from meeting someone else he likes better and consequently dropping us. And we can't stop an ex-girlfriend from winning him back. So what do we do when we get dumped Our natural reaction may be...

Tip 26 Make contact even if they are with a significant other

One of the most difficult things to overcome is how to make contact with a certain someone if they are already with another person in a public place, such as a restaurant etc. The best way I have found (without going to the restroom 20 times in hopes they follow you) is to have some very simple business cards made up with an E-mail address on it. I don't know how many times I was eating at a restaurant when a totally hot babe was setting just two tables away with another guy. I suggest taking...

Dont Expect a Man to Change or Try to Change

L et's say you have met the man of your dreams almost. There are a couple of things you wish were different. What do you do Nothing Don't try to change him because men never really change. You should either accept certain flaws or find someone else. Of course it all depends on what it is about him that bothers you. If he is fanatically neat chronically tardy, hates Chinese food (your favorite) and disco dancing (you love it), or he won't part with his childhood baseball card collection, but he...

Echoing And Mirroring

When a woman is interested in you she will do as you do. She will echo or mirror your body movements. An echo is when a body position is taken by a man and a woman follows and adopts the same posture. This may happen some time after the posture has occurred - hence the name, echo. Mirroring on the other hand, occurs when a posture is adopted simultaneously by both people. There may also be a slight variation in the posture. This has the same effect as echoing though. If a woman really likes...

Dont Talk to a Man First and Dont Ask Him to Dance

Ever Not even Let's have coffee or Do you come here often Right, not even these seemingly harmless openers. Otherwise how will you know if he spotted you first was smitten by you and had to have you, or is just being polite We know what you're thinking. We know how extreme such a rule must sound, not to mention snobbish, silly, and painful but taken in the context of The Rules, it makes perfect sense. After all, the premise of The Rules is that we never make anything happen, that we trust in...

Objectify Your Demons

Michael Hall has developed an that he calls Meta States Hall has realized that we humans often wrap one emotional state around another, and then another until they're so tangled up that it's almost impossible to fix For instance If you begin to feel jealous of another man who's with the girl you like, then get angry at yourself for feeling jealous because it's immature, then become depressed because you're getting angry at yourself because it's not helping the situation , then you have...