Don't Rush into Sex and Other Rules for Intimacy

When it okay to have sex The Rule depends on your age and personal feelings. If you're eighteen and a virgin, you will want to wait until you are in a committed relationship. If you're thirty-nine, waiting a month or two can be fine. Of course, if you feel strongly against premarital sex, you should wait until you're married. If he loves you, he'll respect whatever decision you make. But don't be surprised if the man you're dating gets very angry when you kiss him good night in the lobby.

Accentuate the Positive and Other Rules for Personal Ads

Personal ads have become a popular way to meet men. But many women shy away from ads because they feel it smacks of desperation. Don't worry We know lots of women who've placed and answered ads without seeming desperate or too interested. That's because they wrote or responded to ads in a Rules way. Ads can be expensive so make yours no more than four or five lines. Ads that run on and on are a waste of money and seem desperate.

The Eyebrow Flash

When we first see someone we are attracted to, we give them a quick eyebrow flash. If the person of interest is attracted to you, they will return the flash. Watch out for this. This form of interaction is one of the most common in the human species even more so than the smile. This also means that it is an extremely good signal of sexual interest. If you have never noticed this before, don't be surprised as it only lasts about a fifth of a second It is hardly ever a conscious action, but it is...

Joan Of Arc Charisma

Charismatic Types Historical Examples The miraculous prophet. In the year 1425, Joan of Arc, a peasant girl from the French village of Domremy, had her first vision I was in my thirteenth year when God sent a voice to guide me. The voice was that of Saint Michael and he came with a message from God Joan had been chosen to rid France of the English invaders who now ruled most of the country, and of the resulting chaos and war. She was also to restore the French crown to the prince the Dauphin,...

Private Dances The VIP Room

Private dances are usually done in more secluded areas away from public view. This is usually where the girls are most open to do extras, such as hand jobs and blow jobs, among other things. But this is also the place where the girls can be most careful or businesslike, because men will usually proposition them for sex acts. When the girls are in private dance situations with the customers, they are kept an eye on by small security cameras or the Peeper.

Charisma and Seduction

Charisma is seduction on a mass level. Charismatics make crowds of people fall in love with them, then lead them along. The process of making them fall in love is simple and follows a path similar to that of a one-on-one seduction. Charismatics have certain qualities that are powerfully attractive and that make them stand out. This could be their self-belief, their boldness, their serenity. They keep the source of these qualities mysterious. They do not explain where their confidence or...

Let Him Take the Lead

The man must take the lead or you fall over your feet. He should be the first one to say I love you, I miss you, I've told my parents so much about you. They can't wait to meet you. He should be an open book, you should be a mystery. Don't tell him he's the first person you've felt this way about in a long time or that you never thought you'd fall in love again. Remember, let him take the lead.

Haptic Communication Touch

Haptics Communication Intimacy

Haptic communication is the communication that occurs by touch. It is very important to know how to touch because it can be construed differently under different circumstances and can result in different outcomes. Touch can be used as an extension of friendship or as a full on assault depending on how it is delivered. The method and particulars of the touch also have meaning. For example, a hug or handshake that last a bit longer than ordinary can signify intimacy or compassion. Or comparably,...

Sirens Are Often Fantastically Irrational

Man is often secretly oppressed by the role he has to play by always having to be responsible, in control, and rational. The Siren is the ultimate male fantasy figure because she offers a total release from the limitations of his life. In her presence, which is always heightened and sexually charged, the male feels transported to a world of pure pleasure. She is dangerous, and in pursuing her energetically the man can lose control over himself something he yearns to do. The Siren is a mirage...

The Head Tilt

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Women who are really attracted to you, will tilt their head forward and to the side (at about 45 degrees) when they speak with you. Any neck exposure is meant to display attraction. The neck is one of the most private areas of the body because it is so There are two prominent signals of attraction in this photograph. The most obvious is that Scarlett is crossing her legs higher than she normally would. Her right leg is crossed high over her knee with one leg firmly rested on the other. The...

Boyfriend Destroyer patterns

You're sort of seeing someone As you're only sort of seeing that image of him in your mind, notice what happens as that image gets smaller and darker only as fast as an image of you and me being together having lots of fun gets big and brighter right there in its place. Now as you look at that picture right there, doesn't it seem like something you really want. Oh yea, in fact, doesn't it seem like something that's already happened and there's no point resisting it cause it's too late to do...

Playing by the rules

There are very few rules when it comes to good and bad body language Although I'm sure there would be something very comforting in creating a special section of body language dos and don'ts, I'm not going to If I did you'd very quickly start to think I was being unfair You'd start looking at other speakers and you'd spot at least a few very good orators who used the gestures I'd banned you from using In fact, most of the great speakers I've seen appear to break every rule in the body language...

Article 4 The best of Flowers started by yortex23

Okay, we all pretty much know that you never give flowers or chocolates to girls on first dates. But just in case you have any doubts, read this thread. Source Source Right 1 know this may sound a bit desperate or something but there is this girl 1 really like and 1 only met her once due to work, there is no way 1 can meet her again for work purposes, but she is really hot and 1 really like her and we had a good click when we talked. 1 also got to know she is single. 1 thought of sending her...

Shoulder Shrugs

This gesture is performed normally by a person with a soft side. It is given by someone who is prepared to let their guard down to someone else. It can be as subtle as a small lift in the shoulders or could be a full shrug and hold of the shoulders. It normally happens very quickly though and can occur in accompaniment with an eyebrow flash as well as eye contact. This form of gesturing is often unconscious so it makes for an accurate indicator of interest. Other shrugging movements indicating...

Vocal signals

You may be surprised to see this heading in the 'Non-verbal flirting' section, but 'verbal' means 'words' and vocal signals such as tone of voice, pitch, volume, speed of speech, etc. are like body-language in that they are not about what you say, the words you use, but about how you say it. We noted at the beginning of this 'non-verbal' section that people's first impressions of you are based 55 on your appearance and body language, 38 on your style of speaking and only 7 on what you actually...

Be a Creature Unlike Any Other

.Z eing a creature unlike any other is a state of mind. You don't have to be rich, beautiful, or exceptionally smart to feel this way about yourself. And you don't have to be born with this feeling either. It can be learned, practiced, and mastered, like all the other rules in this book. Being a creature unlike any other is really an attitude a sense of confidence and radiance that permeates your being from head to toe. It's the way you smile (you light up the room), pause in between sentences...

Feelingese The Language of Women

Womanese is feeling and feeling is Womanese. It goes beyond language. In our universe, cleaning our apartment is seen as a chore done primarily for sanitation reasons and to get stuff out of our way. But in Womaniverse, women enjoy the 'feelings' they get from a clean room (or rather they hate the 'feelings' they get from an unclean room). To us, a painting is just there as a 'decoration'. But in Womaniverse, colors, paintings, and designs all emit waves of good feelings which women soak up...

Attention Whores

BGMan wrote People who read and actually believe what Crowes wrote WILL be strung around and used by ATTENTION WH0RES unless you wake up Yes, it does appear there are 'attention *****s' who do all they can to get male attention. But I prefer to think of them as loving the sport rather than the fruits of the sport. They enjoy fishing but not the caught fish Women do become more attached to guys who take their virginity and often return to them. But what crowes says is quite correct. Guys,...

Secret To Womanese

What is this alien realm called Womaniverse where all these strange creatures known as WOAH-MEN emerge from They scatter about the Earth and cast Mankind in a Pleasure-Pain Paradox. Alas, the WHOA-MEN kept complaining and drove our ancestors so mad that they created civilization to please them. Seeing their failure (for women are forever complaining), it is no wonder that we die first. But to top it off, these WOAH-MEN speak in a totally alien language Oh MY GAAWWWWD I just ate a HUUUUGE cheese...

Seated Body Formations

Take the following situation you are in a supervisory capacity and are about to counsel a subordinate whose work performance has been unsatisfactory and erratic. To achieve this objective, you feel that you will need to use direct questions that require direct answers and may put the subordinate under pressure. At times you will also need to show the subordinate that you understand his feelings and, from time to time, that you agree with his thoughts or actions. How can you non-verbally convey...

Dominant and Submissive Handshakes

Submissive Dominant Relationships

Considering what has already been said about the impact of a command given in both the palm-up and palm-down positions, let us explore the relevance of these two palm positions in hand shaking. Assume that you have just met someone for the first time and you greet each other with a customary handshake. One of three basic attitudes is transmitted through the handshake. These are dominance 'This person is trying to dominate me. I'd better be cautious', submission 'I can dominate this person. He...

Body Language and Non Verbal Cues

So how do we subcommunicate the right things Through proper use of body language and non-verbal cues. As I mentioned, facial expressions, voice intonation, speed of speech, how you walk, the way you carry yourself through the world, making eye contact, how fast you move, and even our breathing communicate attributes to the people around you. Start watching people closely as you go about your daily life. At work, in the store, at the club just sit back and observe what people are doing with...

Bust her balls

In order to use this technique you must put yourself in the same mental state as a tennis or handball player. Watch out women love this technique. By using this technique you can have them dying of desire in a relatively short time. To do this, imagine that it is a game. The right mental state to do this is with a sense of humor, a little sarcasm and no anger. In the same manner as you made fun of your little sister when you were child. The general principle is as in tennis or handball any ball...

Man On The Street

A man breaks his back to support his wife, who stays at home yakking on the phone all day or watching Oprah, or maybe she has a part-time job-and all the time she's in a bitchy mood because he's 'neglecting' her. So the fool goes out and buys roses or something to placate her, like the world revolves around her personal happiness. It should be the other way around-she should be on her knees every night, waiting for him to come home, with her mouth open and ready, so she can thank him for the...

How to Lay Girls Guide

General 3s Be the Alpha Dominant Do my looks The Iranian from Nice guys vs Good traits to have develop to be a successful It all comes down to Women want good sex and Should you express or contain your sexual Wanna play the dating game Um let's The rules with your Getting On confidence and getting started with approaching Casual meetings vs At a Just say Talk to girls How to initiate a Talking to her echoing Fluff The don'ts of fluff Reading body Kinaesthetics aka kino - have kino with your...

Approaching and making them interested

Where to meet girls - the most popular places for a pick-up. If she seems unapproachable - then maybe everyone thinks so and she's all alone. General guidelines on approaching - a few pointers and examples to get you started. Demonstrate value and personality - the basic premise of seduction. The importance of a first impression - or relative unimportance, depending on whether you're an AFC or a PUA ) Pace and lead - and demonstrate understanding to increase rapport. Simple approaches -...

Understanding 4 Feelings Before Words

So many students have told me Ross, the patterns seem so foreign to me. They just don't seem like they are me. What's usually going on for these beginners is that the patterns are descriptions of experiences they themselves have never imagined or had. So naturally, they just seem like they are reciting empty words with NO meaning. These poor guys are so focused on memorizing the words, they haven't put any focus into getting some of the feelings. You see, if you have never had a peak experience...

Rolling Stone article about Speed Seduction

By Eric Hedegaad in the 3 5 98 Rolling Stone .Meanwhile, a few blocks away, on University Avenue, a group of guys spread themselves out and slipped into coffee bars, restaurants, bookstores, furniture shops and fancy fragrance emporiums. They called one another brother and went by names like Brother Kamal, Brother ESR, Brother Orion, Brother Vijay and Brother 007. They were laughing, whispering and taking long, appraising looks at all the pretty young Stanford girls. Around midnight, Brother...

Type 3 The Sleazy Club

Sleazy clubs are more difficult to identify since on the surface they may appear just like a show club or a neighborhood club. The obvious difference is that sleazy clubs appeal to customers who are expecting more than a no touch dance whether the dancer is a vision from heaven or not. Sleazy clubs are usually (but not always) nude clubs. Because sleazy clubs cater to the up close and personal customers, sensuality is the most important characteristic for the girls who work there, although...

The cognitive distortion of the only option

Imagine you seduced a beautiful and intelligent woman, one whom you really like. Imagine you have fallen crazily in love. When looking at her beautiful legs, her breasts, you are dying for her, and every time you have sex with her it makes you feel close to the door to Paradise. Little by little you begin to forget social relationships, work less your thoughts are always fixed on her from morning till evening. In short, you are in love. Imagine you are infatuated in this way with a woman you...

Speed Seduction Article from Playboy July

The paradigm shift the journalist experiences is a good indicator of what to expect should you consider trying out for the first time either patterning or any other seduction technique described in this guide The article is also good example of how starting with patterns right at the outset is a doomed approach, they just sound too lame and embarrassing. But the one time the journalist does it right, starts with some fluff talk, has the actually we know each other attitude, comments on...

The Standard Leg Cross Position

Common Gestures

One leg is crossed neatly over the other, usually the right over the left. This is the normal crossed-leg position used by European, British, Australian and New Zealand cultures and may be used to show a nervous, reserved or defensive attitude. However, this is usually a supportive gesture that occurs with other negative gestures and should not be interpreted in isolation or out of context. For example, people often sit like this during lectures or if they are on uncomfortable chairs for long...

Steepling Hands

I stated at the beginning of this book that gestures come in clusters, like words in a sentence, and that they must be interpreted in the context in which they are observed. 'Steepling', as Birdwhistell called it, can be an exception to these rules, as it is often used in isolation of other gestures. In fact, people who are confident, superior types or who use minimal or restricted body gestures often use this gesture, and, by doing so, they signal their confident attitude. My observation and...

Gauging Your Listeners Response

Listening Posture

Gauging your listener's response is useful in telling how interested they are in you. You can achieve this through a combination of linguistics and body language. Checking the linguistics is a great way to see if somebody wants to chat or flirt more with you, and works equally well in social and work environments. Interpreting linguistic clues is particularly useful if you haven't got the hang of reading body language yet or want another indicator to back it up. The three simple indicators of...

Science of Testosterone

Be a Man A Man is one who is not afraid of his testosterone. This will seem incredibly basic. But to illustrate the effects, look at the effects of men who must be injected with artificial testosterone because (for whatever reason) their body isn't making enough (usually due to having HIV). One HIV positive guy shares his differences with the before and after shots His weight increases from 165 pounds to 185 pounds. The collar size goes from 15 to 17 1 2, the chest from 40 to 44. His appetite...

My Sad and Pathetic Story How Women Piss on Low Status

I'm 5'6, unathletic, and have a nasty lisp to my voice. Women find me unattractive and unacceptable as a potential mate. They laugh at guys like me This is basically how I thought about myself for years -- from adolescence to adulthood -- in the deepest core of my being. I'm talking about my unconscious mind, where fundamental statements such as these which describe your sense of identity (or at least, certain aspects of it) are held un-critically as the truth, and are then used by your...

What a real Man is like and what it means to lead

I talked a lot about being a Man in the previous chapter. But what do I mean by this This is the most difficult part to understand. Once you really get it down, you will have no problems with women. If you ask them, 999 out of 1,000 women will say that they are waiting for the Man. Still, the concept itself is very vague. A girl will feel when she is with a Man, but that doesn't help you too much, does it In order to understand it from our viewpoint, we will look at genetics again. As I said in...

Develop your sense of humor

Flirt Humor

Take note of the things that make you laugh. Pay attention to what others find humorous. You don't have to be particularly quick-witted or a great storyteller in order to make others laugh. In fact, some of the funniest (and safest) material is that which is self-deprecating. As a side benefit this approach lets your listener know that you don't take yourself too seriously. Brush up on current events. Even with limited time, you can have a cursory knowledge of what's happening in the world....

The Emotional Roller Coaster

One hot summer afternoon in 1894, Don Mateo D az, a thirty-eight-year-old resident of Seville, decided to visit a local tobacco factory Because of his connections Don Mateo was allowed to tour the place, but his interest was not in the business side. Don Mateo liked young girls, and hundreds of them worked in the factory. Just as he had expected, that day many of them were in a state of near undress because of the heat it was quite a spectacle. He enjoyed the sights for a while, but the noise...

Forget the Strong Silent Approach Open Up

For many years, the ideal man was portrayed in movies and television shows as the strong, silent type. Men learned that they weren't supposed to show any feelings. Guys, it's time you taught that silent dude to talk After all, a woman needs to know she's attractive and interesting to her date. In that respect, we're not that different from you men. And we're also every bit as curious about you as you are about us. Of course, I realize you guys can feel pretty uncomfortable letting your date...

Anatomy of a Seduction

I am going to give you the point-by-point breakdown of an actual seduction performed with a target that was what most men consider a 9.5 on a scale of 1 to 10. This example is being given to ensure that you understand how these tactics work on real live women, and that you believe that it does not require you to either wimp out write her love poetry and lick her shoes or that you have to be a GQ model with a Ferrari or a lot of money. Just for your knowledge, Mark, in this account, is not a GQ...

All Things Have a Beginning

Congratulations on beginning thejourney Within this book I will be sharing a vast wealth of knowledge. Things that I have learned, experienced, and created, over the course of my lifetime so far Much of this book will be serious, because it needs to be in order to wok. But I have also injected a lot of my humor, sarcasm, arrogance, and many interesting facts, so that you enjoy the experience and stay more dedicated to making it really wok for you. So if you guarantee to me, and most importantly...

Fast dance to slow dance

You've seen them before - a guy and a girl on the dance-floor, ignoring all the other people diligently wiggling to the fast pace of the music and having a slow dance of their own, touching, kissing. A newly married couple on their honey-moon Hehe, think again Maniac High describes a dance-floor PU technique of turning a fast dance to a slow dance, and a slow dance to a oh darn, he had to leave before he could find out Anyway, here's the step by step description. Maniac High, ASF The PU was...

Stages of Online Dating

Match Com Physical Attraction Test

We can divide the steps that users take as they use online dating systems into three major tasks describing themselves, discovering other people, and communicating with selected others. Because dating systems differ within these tasks, but almost universally have the three tasks in common, I will describe approaches to the tasks separately rather than trying to categorize sites holistically. I will also give examples of sites that employ each approach some sites offer more than one approach for...

The Foundation For Success With Women

CHAPTER ONE YOUR PRIMAL MALE MINDSET The source of your success with beautiful women rests deep within you. It is the natural primal male mindset you were born with, but now lies buried beneath abundant layers of misguided social conditioning. Right now, at this very moment, you already possess the correct understanding of what turns women on. You've just been made to think that your understanding is incorrect. As I awaken this long-dormant, crucial dimension of yourself, you will begin to not...

Starting an Office Romance

Most people meet their future spouse at work, but before you pack in your dating subscription, cancel your speed-dating extravaganza, and wait for the proposals of marriage to flood in, you need to consider a few things. Getting to know somebody better in the office while under the protective relationship of being a colleague is a fantastic way to decide if you like them without actually showing your hand. Flirting with married colleagues is one of the worst and potentially most destructive...

Working On Your Selfconfidence

Are you comfortable in your own skin Are you okay with your own thoughts These are some of the key issues that will arise when it comes to attracting a mate. Taking the time to think about who exactly you are is a key part of becoming attractive to someone else. Being honest with yourself is also a factor here. It is apparent to others when you are unsure of your own beliefs, or further to this, aren't particularly accepting of yourself. Great confidence comes from examining and accepting your...

Am no longer an excuser

I can approach anyone I want to. I deserve a good girlfriend. I can socialize with people regardless of my surroundings. I am not bound by society programming and society bullshit. I live my life free of these false constraints. Put an end to the bad and limiting beliefs. From this day forth, things will be different simply because you believe differently. If you need to read this chapter again to recondition yourself with your new beliefs and words of...

We need reminding as much as we need educating

Read this book at least five or more times to become familiar with the content. I repeat critical concepts several times, but you should still re-read it several times over. Print the book out on paper and put it in a binder if you have to. Read it actively, which means to have a highlighter and a pen or pencil in your hand the whole time you're going through the book. Use post-it notes to mark areas of importance. Scribble comments in the margin. Be sure to keep a journal of your seduction...

Partial Armcross Barriers

Lasting Longer The Bedroom

The full arm-cross gesture is sometimes too obvious to use around others because it tells them that we are fearful. Occasionally we substitute a subtler version - the partial arm cross, in which one arm swings across the body to hold or touch the other arm to form the barrier, as shown in Figure 75. The partial arm barrier is often seen at meetings where a person may be a stranger to the group or is lacking in self-confidence. Another popular version of a partial arm barrier is holding hands...

Gripping Hands Arms And Wrists

Arm Grabbing Body Language

Several prominent male members of the British Royal Family are noted for their habit of walking with their head up, chin out and one palm gripping the other hand behind the back. Not only does British Royalty use this gesture it is common among Royalty of many countries. On the local scene, the gesture is used by the policeman patrolling his beat, the headmaster of the local school when he is walking through the school yard, senior military personnel and others in a position of authority. This...

Never drop your guard

O I hate to be the bearer of this news, but many guys use effective strategies, build up their character through use of the Three S's, and as soon as they land a girlfriend, they turn into complete wimps. Until the end of your days with a woman, you must uphold the principles of the Three S's - Self-confidence, Self-discipline, and Sense of humor. These are not optional lures you use just to get a woman to sleep with you or to want to be your girlfriend or wife. They are not electives you can...

Romantic Intrigue Questions

The goal of your conversation with a woman is to increase her feelings of attraction to you, not kill them, while giving you an opportunity to learn about her. There is no better way of accomplishing both than by using Intrigue Questions. These are questions that get her in touch with her positive feelings, and help associate them with you. o First, you give an excuse for asking The other day, I was watching a show on amusement parks, and I found it really interesting how they engineer the...

Basic Psychological Principles

This is the ultimate human motivational mechanism, and the most basic. Everything you learn in this course is based on this one principle. If there's one understanding about our mental processes that you absorb, it's this People seek those things that give them pleasure, and work to avoid those things that cause them pain. When stacked beside each other, we are more motivated by the fear of pain than the promise of pleasure. There are many reasons for this o We understand and believe in the...

Alpha Man Characteristics

- Short on time The Alpha man has places to go, people to see. He does not have 3 hours for phone calls. He does not have the time to wait on a woman more than 15 minutes when she's late. He does not have more than a minute to wait for her to talk to someone else on call waiting. (I hang up on women that leave me dangling on call waiting or hold. If that other call is so important, they can call the other person back. When was the last time you really had an emergency phone call ) -...

How And When To Use Your Touch

Kinesthesia (n) 1 the perception of body position and movement and muscular tensions etc. 2 the ability to feel movements of the limbs and body kino (n) 1 The use of touch to arouse physical and emotional desire. There are many approaches and varied understandings about the topic of touching in the dating journals, and at least as much confusion. Hopefully, the information that follows will help to clarify this topic so that you can apply a strategy to your techniques of using kinaesthetics -...

ABF Always Be Flirting

One of the great guy movies of the last decade is Glengarry Glen Ross. It's essentially a male power struggle in the realm of real estate sales. One of the lines in the movie (and in sales) is ABC - Always Be Closing. I'm updating that for you and your dating search to ABF -Always Be Flirting. You have to take on a certain mindset if you want to improve and become more successful with women. All too frequently, men look at dating and the prospecting process as an isolated event. They are either...

The Denial or the Takeaway

Human beings always take things for granted. It's our nature to take all our possessions for granted after a while. Think of all the stuff you own that you once treasured, but now you treat just like everything else. Your car was once a novelty, but that got old, especially after the first few times you had to wax it or repair it. Your big-screen television was cool, too, but you don't think it's as great now as when you first bought it and played that first X-box game on it. There's a famous...

Stepping Back

It's amazing what a little space to think will do for a woman's attitude when it comes to appreciation and recognizing what you have to offer. Most men are afraid to put this to work for them, based solely on their fear that if they back off or let up on the intensity of their romantic offensive on the women, she will lose interest and forget about him. The opposite is actually the Truth. By backing off and giving her space at a strategic point where you sense that she might be feeling a bit...

Male Female Communications

This will come as a shock to some of you, but women and men don't speak the same language. We have different communication styles, among other things. What you have to understand is how we differ so that you can control the outcome of the interactions you have, rather than the interactions controlling you. How many times have you found yourself in a conversation or argument with a woman as you felt things go wildly out of control Something like this Yolanda I'm thinking about taking a course in...

Dating Dysfunction

There are many traps you can fall into with women, and I will give you some of the tools to recognize and handle these better. If you ignore these seemingly small hiccups along the way, you will discover that they fester at the core of your attitude and feelings for her, and things will fall into a negative spiral. If you want a great example to learn from, watch the Hollywood star's romances (not their movies) and notice what works and doesn't work there. Watching just about any young actor's...

Behaviors That Reduce Attraction

You should be aware up front of the behaviors that men exhibit which turn off a woman's attraction mechanism. As we progress, you will be given alternatives to these behaviors and ways to avoid demonstrating them. 2003 - Carlos Xuma. - DD Publications - All Rights Reserved - Unauthorized duplication or distribution is strictly prohibited. Visit www.datingdynamics.com for more information. - Clingy Needy behavior The root cause of this is insecurity. Any actions that tell a woman that you are...

What Women Really Want

I think I've gone a long way toward answering this, but I would like to summarize it here - Will make women feel excited, sexy, and turned-on rather than bored. - Will prioritize his life and doesn't let anyone walk over him. - Will make her feel important to him - Is not afraid to speak his opinion. - Keeps them on their toes through challenge. (i.e., the Three S's Self-confidence, Self-discipline, Sense of Humor) - Holds and maintains an element of mystery. (More...

Control Your Thinking

Having the self-discipline to control your thoughts is the core success factor in seduction. If you can't control your own thinking, you'll never be able to follow the Method long enough to get the results you seek. One of the biggest mistakes a guy typically makes, especially if he's not used to success with women, is that he will meet a woman, hit it off, and between that time and the next when they meet again, he'll be daydreaming and imagining all kinds of scenarios with her. He'll imagine...

Object of Worship

Liane de Pougy was the reigning courtesan of 1890s Paris. Slender and androgynous, she was a novelty, and the wealthiest men in Europe vied to possess her. By late in the decade, however, she had grown tired of it all. What a sterile life, she wrote a friend. Always the same routine the Bois, the races, fittings and to end an insipid day dinner What wearied the courtesan most was the constant attention of her male admirers, who sought to monopolize her physical charms. One spring day in 1899,...

Madame Recamier

Women the contrast between reserve and seduction, and between the most devoted tenderness Interpretation. Madame Recamier's list of conquests became only more and a sensuality that is impressive as she grew older there was Prince Metternich, the Duke of ruthlessly demanding Wellington, the writers Constant and Chateaubriand. For all of these men consuming men as if they she was an obsession, which only increased in intensity when they were away from her. The source of her power was twofold....

Body Language

It is difficult to demonstrate body language through the pages of a book. I have taken a series of amateur photographs to help demonstrate, which I will review with you shortly. Some people refer to these core attributes as alpha-male characteristics. Regardless of how and what they are labeled, they are the behavioral patterns of a confident man and you should internalize them. It does not matter whose techniques you use. They will not work if the attributes you communicated through subtext...

Charged Words

A seduction is a bubble of magical influence on a woman. In the game of seduction, you must master the art of using charged words to convey your meaning and to drive her forward. You do not speak in words that other men use habitually and lazily. You must learn to choose your words, as well as speak them with a seductive rhythm. Injecting your conversation with charged words works on two levels. Her conscious mind will recognize that you have a poetic and romantic affect on her. Eloquence with...

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The G-spot, Here it Comes, and The Approaches originally published at Dating Insider. Some sections revised and reprinted with permission from Dating Dynamics. The only life worth living is the adventurous life. Of such a life the dominant characteristic is that it is unafraid. It is unafraid of what other people think It does not adapt either its pace or its objectives to the pace and objectives of its neighbors. It thinks its own thoughts, it reads its own books, it develops its own hobbies,...

Turnaround Structure

1- Don't acknowledge that she's even pissed. Don't show any facial expressions of reaction to her getting upset. Laugh it off, but in a way where you're not laughing to cover up discomfort. Like you think she's almost joking or teasing. This is important, because if she thinks you realized she was serious, it's natural psychology to be consistent to it and not let it go. 2- Interpret it like she just qualified herself to you, in the way that she showed that she can stick up for herself. Do this...

Hand Shake Styles

Handshake Communication Meaning

The palm-down thrust is certainly the most aggressive handshake style as it gives the receiver little chance of establishing an equal relationship. This handshake is typical of the aggressive, dominant male who always initiates it, and the stiff arm with palm facing directly downwards forces the receiver into the submissive position because he has to respond with his palm facing up. Several ways to counter the palm-down thrust have been developed. You can use the step-to-the-right technique...

Find out about her values and give her what she wants

This part can be put in practice during the whole seduction process from the beginning or later, depending on the situation. It is used as a method for collecting important information about the woman with the purpose of getting to know better how to seduce her. As we have already seen, it can be also used as a way to feed her back her values and what is important to her and increase the effectiveness of your seduction. If used well and in the correct way, it helps seduction. If used in the...

How To Seduce Women

Once you find a woman you'd like to approach, you must know how to make initial contact with her. Once you achieve recognition, you have to be able to read her signals - do you continue your approach Or do you take the red flag and get out of the game This chapter is devoted to helping you learn the best strategy for approaching a woman. I will define the entire process, from initial contact and flirting, through conversation, touching, and to the bedroom. This chapter will lay the foundation...

Article 1 The Mother of all Theory Posts by Vatican

One of the best posts I've ever read for seducing a chick. The entire seduction process is broken into a step-by-step framework to allow you to acquire your target Source All right, this is one long mother, but I've wanted to write it for quite some time. This is not a step-by-step guide it's more like a framework for getting women to sleep with you. On with the show. Now what the hell is that, you ask It's the chart of how to get a woman in bed. I'll explain in detail. Let's start at the top....

Who Invented Marriage

I have to disagree with Jake Steed on this one (first time for everything ). MEN created the institution of marriage. It is common to think of weddings and marriages as one of the same. But they are seperate and have different origins. The wedding is merely a societal event, a celebration. It was to be more of a community event (remember how closely knit communities were back then, how the community was all). To say that weddings were invented by women, I would agree. But marriage No. Women are...

Stir Up the Transgressive and Taboo

There are always social limits on what one can do. Some of these, the most elemental taboos, go back centuries others are more superficial, simply defining polite and acceptable behavior. Making your targets feel that you are leading them past either kind of limit is immensely seductive. People yearn to explore their dark side. Not everything in romantic love is supposed to be tender and soft hint that you have a cruel, even sadistic streak. You do not respect age differences, marriage vows,...

From Thundercats Seduction Lair

Okay, so the debate has been raging for a while now over who is the best pickup artist out there. Obviously, a lot of egos are involved in this assessment, and everyone has their own opinions about who the best really is. In fact, its so subjective that I don't really think there will ever be a clear and honest answer on the subject. Its like asking who the best warrior or soldier is in a war. But that doesn't stop some people from categorizing the guys in our little community as the best. So...

Various Magic Tricks

For bending forks, making cigarettes vanish, and levitating beer bottles. Yes, I was bringing out the big guns. It was an important night my first workshop as a wing and I needed to prove myself I had neglected to tell Mystery that his standard workshop fee was half the annual salary of the average Serbian, so most of our students were from out of the country. They met us at Ben Akiba, a lounge just off the central square in Belgrade. Exoticoption was an American who had taken a train from...

Fish or Cut Bait Relationship Evaluation

There comes a time in any dating situation where you have to decide whether to go to the next stage or the next relationship. Going to the next relationship is exciting and can re-create the fun early days of getting to know someone. But if you're not careful, you may find yourself doing only dessert and never the meal, because in dating the dessert part comes first. If you're looking exclusively for excitement, it always makes sense to move on. If you're looking for intimacy and even...

The alpha male and the alpha attitude

In some animal groups the Alpha male is the male having superior physical and intellectual skills and taking for himself the right to take sexually all the females of the group. The Alpha male is the source of life for the group. In fact he is the one with the best skills in supplying food and fighting dangerous enemies. The Beta male is the weaker male, who is forced to wait until the Alpha male dies, gets sick or is too old to be able to get his share of females. The beta male is also...

The most powerful aphrodisiac on the planet challenge

Human beings consider as attractive and interesting what they cannot have. This principle seems to have an extreme influence on women. A man who is under the influence of his strong sexual excitation can be totally uninterested in how challenging his woman is to others. He is only interested in reaching one objective to take her sexually. For him is not that important whether his friends consider his woman beautiful and challenging or not. For him it is enough that his woman is beautiful and...

What You Owe For

Lots of men assume that, if a woman has sex with him, he's somehow obligated to stay with a woman as long as she wants, to call her the next day, and so on. Slavery was abolished in most countries long ago. And so was indentured servitude (unless you marry and or impregnate a woman). On what basis do you owe her anything beyond what she owes you Have you ever taken a woman out to a fancy restaurant and perhaps to a play or a concert afterwards For which you paid a hefty sum of money Perhaps she...

Rejecting her and telling her why or simply rejecting her forever When it is better to give up and look for something

While seducing women you will often be in a situation in which you need to decide whether the whole thing is worth continuing or not. There is one general rule to follow seducing a woman must never be such a big deal that you would be willing to reduce your quality of life for it. There is also a paradox. If the woman senses that you are suffering and reducing your quality of life in order to seduce her, you will obtain the opposite effect she will consider you beta and your relationship will...

The Contrast Between Alpha Men And Shy

Men who are unskilled with women tend to focus more on the potential downside of romance. Their primary goal is to keep themselves from getting hurt too badly, because they're used to getting poor (and even no) results most of the time. Because Non-Alpha Males seem to get hurt more often than not, they're very risk-averse. This means that Non-Alpha Males tend to be rather shy and thus are much more likely to want women who are outgoing. After all, they don't have to work as hard to start up a...

The important meaning of qualification

This is already a very advanced chapter and if you learn the art of qualification you'll become a very effective seducer and your successes will increase exponentially. To qualify means to give to another person negative, positive or neutral attributes. For example You are a boring girl is a negative qualification. You are a wonderful woman is a positive qualification. You are the one who is driving today is a neutral qualification. To qualify oneself to someone means to present oneself with...

The Ten Commandments

Now it's time to revise some rules of interaction with society. You may consider these your ten commandments, learn them by heart because in the time to come they will completely alter the way you act. Start implementing these rules in your behavior. 1) Flirt- Women (and other straight guys also buy the way) love men who flirt. Flirt with women you want, flirt with women you don't want, flirt with the world. I'm not talking about sexual flirting I'm talking about plain flirting. Once you adjust...

Become the King of Your College

For you college guys, this is something that's been tested and proved as pure GOLD. This works only if you are going to a new college, where the majority of people don't already know one another. There's no need to have some crazy skills to do this, everybody can do it, and it's simple. It's basically a natural human process that you can use to improve your social life. When young people come to college, most of them don't know each other, so sooner or later they will need to make friends or...

Female tests and how to overcome them to seduce a woman

This is an EXTREMELY important chapter. If you understand the concept of feminine tests and you learn to react to them in the right way, you will surely be able to seduce as many women as you want. As we said THE subservient FRAME is seduction's enemy number one. It is a mental scheme used only by beta men. Alpha men don't justify themselves, they don't ask for forgiveness, they don't submit to other people. Feminine tests are tests a woman does partly unconsciously, partly consciously right...

Your Final Assignment

A light touch with women means that you're not intimidated by them. And that's an attractive quality to women, since the best catches are not afraid of women. So if you're fearless, you must be a great catch. Tailor your strategies to your own style and personality. You don't have to master everything in order to improve your results. Mastering even a few of the skills in this Program can boost your results noticeably. a Keep experimenting with your approach, and a Vary your technique a bit and...

A list of the principal female tests and their meaning

A test can have many meanings and serve the purpose of uncovering parts of your personality in a really effective and extensive way. For example, the test of always being of a different opinion than you can be a way to check if you are self-confident. At the same time it can be a way of checking if you are aggressive or violent it can also be used to check if you have an opinion of your own or not. A woman's tests are often multipurpose. She can check several things about you with one single...

Fast rate PNP technique

The concept of teasing or flirting means causing sudden feelings in her, moving her emotionally, exciting her, shaking her, in practice it means sexually possessing her mind. The majority of men believe that to possess a woman means bringing her to bed and having sex with her. To possess a woman means, first of all, shaking her mind and her feelings, to bring to bed the mind before the body. Sex is a natural consequence of the fact that the seducer succeeds in shaking, possessing her mind at an...

In an irresistible way

The basic principle is In every woman there are two levels the socio-rational level and the evolutionary primordial, instinctual level. Read this phrase dozens of times and remember it Even better, write it on the mirror you use to shave yourself in the morning. If you want to become an expert seducer you need to remember this always. If you ask a woman why she spends so much time in front of the mirror to do her make-up or why she uses clothes which emphasize her breasts and legs, she will...