Power of Positive Thinking
You want a woman to think about sex, especially when she is with you. There is something to be said for subliminal messages. Plan your dialogue to reflect your sexual desires. Use vocabulary that is associated with feelings and sensations related to sex. For example, use words such as 'hot', 'passionate', or 'delicious' to describe a pasta dish or the colors in her apartment. Use the word 'climax' when discussing a movie or music. You can use the power of suggestion to create sexual feelings within a woman's subconscious. Try to use words that you know she will associate with feelings of sexual desire.
This book is necessary today because men and women are losing their essential sexuality. Seduction is a part of that sexuality that is necessary. It's not a bad, manipulative act it's a validating and affirming act. As men, we owe it to women to become what we once were strong, decisive, and confident.
If you hear enough negative messages, you believe them. Telling yourself that you're useless or can't do something becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. You need to change your thinking. Throughout the book you'll find tips for putting together mantras or positive affirmations. These are just simple little messages or phrases you keep repeating to yourself to align your subconscious with your positive way of thinking.
An Ego Wall is a place where you hang your awards, certificates, diplomas, pictures, plaques, etc. - all the things that pump up your opinion and belief in yourself. On my Ego Wall I've got pictures of me snowboarding, skydiving, my day at a race car school, my college diploma, my martial arts certificates, etc. It's affirming to me, and when other women see it, they understand that I'm not just waiting around on the sidelines of life - I go out and actively pursue what I want. This is immensely attractive to women.
E) Now that you have taken the time to do these four steps, take just a little bit more time, to outline what YOUR plan would need to be to get started on makng money doing what you love to do. Start with what you ALREADY can do to get started, and write it all down. Then, write down what you would need to do to get things even closer to makng this idea a reality (Don't worry right now if it seems unottoinoble just write down whot you would need to do IF it wee ottoinoble) Then write down the following affirmation, and read it every sngle day
The world is complete exactly as it is, and I am grateful for it. My definition of pain is 'wishing the world to be different than it is.' In metaphysical terms, asking the world to be different (e.g. asking for something in your life) does not serve you because it affirms to the universe the lack of that something in your life. If the universe is a reflection of you, then it's going to come right back to you and say, You're absolutely right that's lacking from your life. So affirming the lack of something has the effect of driving it further away out of your life. approach them if not with desire The solution is to replace desire with gratitude - and, by extension, hope with positive expectation. Hope is needy positive expectation is affirming. When you have gratitude for something, you are accepting its presence in your life and affirming it to the universe. In return, the universe will do the same and manifest that object in your life. So you say, Thank you, world, for bringing so...
You can either use the affirmations I provide, or come up with some of your own. I would suggest a combination of both. The key to remember when creating an affirmation, is to use words your mind will accept. For example, you wouldn ' t want to have an affirmation like, My ability to fly like a bird grows stronger every day because your mind is going to hear that and go Fly Humans can't fly, so I reject that. You want to have affirmations that your mind can accept as poss e. For example, it ' s very possjble that you could have a job makng more money, so a good affirmation would be Ay ability to fnd a way of making more and more money is growing stronger while a bad affirmation would be My ability to find a way to make a billion dollars overnight is growing stronger. (Granted, it might still wok, but why be so specifc as to say a Billion If you only make 900 million overnight, then you will have missed your goal, right ) Also when creating affirmations, word it in a way that suggests...
One of the most exciting aspects of learning the art of relaxation is that you will be very positively affected in nearly every area of your life. You can draw upon this skill whenever you want to rest, sleep, or be involved in physical activities of any nature, especially in competition, tests in school, giving a talk or presentation, etc. As you use the Programmation Tape, you will learn the power of visualization, imagination and a positive attitude. These are most powerful tools for you to use in directing the development of your Rapid Reading habits.
For Jeffries, Speed Seduction as a practical application of NLP was about building altered states of consciousness in both the seducer and the seducee. For the guy, using various kinds of affirmations, the idea was to install in himself all manner of ferocity, playfulness, clarity, outrageousness and cockiness, no matter what kind of weenie-loser-geek, horndog or edge seeker he may have been before. Thus supercharged and in control, the guy then engaged himself in a singular mission to capture and lead the imagination of the HB of his choice. He might start by saying to the woman, I have an intuition about you, which would perk up her ears - after all, he was talking about her favorite person, herself - and lead her from a state of presumed neutrality (the guy was probably not the best-looking guy in the coffee shop) to definite interest and intrigue. He might then offer to analyze her handwriting. O r he might tell her that she was a very visual person and proceed to conjure up...
Gill met Steve at a networking event. She was drawn to him because of his outward confidence and was really pleased she'd made the effort to talk to him, because he was great company. She loved his positive attitude to everything, and it actually drew her attention to the fact that she was constantly putting herself down and was quite negative about work generally. During the conversation, she changed direction and stopped herself from being self-effacing or negative. Changing her attitude took a bit of concentration, but she noticed that when her language altered, Steve became more enthusiastic about her and their discussion. The conversation lasted the rest of the evening. Steve took Gill's card and emailed her a few weeks later to invite her to another event, where the two of them networked like demons and flirted when no one was looking.
Here's what P J Chandler, author of 'Beyond Positive Thinking', says about rapport The true purpose of creating rapport is not to manipulate or coerce, but to enable you to tell your truth in a way that is meaningful to others, and to enable them to tell their truth in a way that is meaningful to you.
How you see yourself and what you think of yourself influence your behavior, and people will respond to you accordingly. Being depressed and having negative thoughts will get you nowhere. Your thoughts form your personality. Those who have negative thoughts and see everything as gray will attract such things into their lives. People who learn to control their thoughts and strengthen themselves with positive affirmations become successful.
Most of the basic communication gestures are the same all over the world. When people are happy they smile when they are sad or angry they frown or scowl. Nodding the head is almost universally used to indicate 'yes' or affirmation. It appears to be a form of head lowering and is probably an inborn gesture, as it is also used by deaf and blind people. Shaking the head from side to side to indicate 'no' or negation is also universal and may well be a gesture that is learned in infancy. When a baby has had enough milk, he turns his head from side to side to reject his mother's breast. When the young child has had enough to eat, he shakes his head from side to side to stop his parent's attempt to spoon feed him and in this way he quickly learns to use the head
SeiMoubti and insecurities are normal after you've made love with a new partner for the first time. If there's true chemistry between the two of you, your partner will help allay your fears through words and actions. But you can help yourself by practicing self-talk and affirmations. Re mind youneIf of your attractive features or remarkable personality traits, No matter how the affair twrms out, remember that you're itill the same sizzling seductress or seducer you were before you made love with this penon. Remember who you are. Finally, if you're still feeling insecure about your attractiveness, or your self-esteem is a little shaky in the morning light, remember the exercises you learned in Part I of this book. Recall the affirmations you created think about your attractive features and wonderful personality traits. Focus on the beautiful, seductive you that entire package that is so much more than the sum of all its parts.
Affirmations you chose to use. 2) As you are hearing that song, I want you to say OUT LOUD each of the affirmations. Take it slow, this isn' t a race, say each affirmation slowly, and with confidence in the words you are saying. 3) As you are saying each affirmation, imagine that the words, in YOUR voice, are being added to the song you hear playing. Continue this until you have spoken OUT LOUD every sngle one of the affirmations. 5) Once both songs have all the affirmations in them, I want you to prietend that you placed one of those songs at the beginning of youri AlphaSleep play list, and instriuct youri Emosc playeri to place the second song furtheri down in the play list, in a location that will only play it when you are actually asleep. (The reason for this, is because you want your affirmations playing both as you start to sleep, and more importantly, while you are sleeping, so your subconscious mind has something to work on while you're dreaming.) As is the case with the songs...
One that I teach in stress courses is It's not a lion. It links to the thought that although your situation might be important, it's not a matter of life and death you're not being pursued by a man-eating lion Make up your own affirmation and repeat it in your head as a mantra to create calm I Breathing exercises will help . Breathe in through your nose until your lungs are at full capacity, then breathe out slowly via your mouth, allowing your body to empty and relax as you do so I If your hands get sweaty, carry some freshen-up wipes to cool them before you go into a meeting.
When you have an experience (be it a favorable one or an unfavorable one) you will see the memory of that experience insde your mind, especially when you encounter something elsejust like it. You then carry on a dialogue insde your mind about it. Something like, It worked didn ' t wok out last time, so maybe it ' ll work out won ' t work out this time too. And then because of that inner dialogue, you might start to imagine what result this new encounter will be. And based on what you see and hear yourself experiencing, it strongly influences the level of power and enthussasm and confidence you have in that moment.
Before we move on to the next chapter, I want to add a 9th category. This category, I want you call it, AlphaSleep. This one is going to be different than the Sleep category, in one respect. In this category, you ' re going to add what are called affirmations to the muste. In the event you ' re unfamiliar with affirmations, here is a smple example
This book would not be complete without a discussion of the basic head movements, the two most widely used being the head nod and the head shake. The head nod is a positive gesture used in most cultures to signify, 'Yes', or affirmation. Research conducted with people who have been deaf, dumb and blind from birth shows that they also use this gesture to signify the affirmative, which has given rise to the theory that this may be an inborn gesture. The headshake, usually meaning 'No', is also claimed by some to be an inborn action however, others have theorised that it is the first gesture a human being learns. They believe that when the newborn baby has had enough milk, he shakes his head from side to side to reject his mother's breast. Similarly, the young child who has had enough to eat uses the head shake to reject his parent's attempt to spoonfeed him.
The kind of attitude we have affects literally every aspect of our lives. Whether it's our work, social life, love life or health, our attitude plays a part in it all. When it comes to seducing a woman, attitude plays a very big role in how successful, or unsuccessful you are. If you have a positive attitude you're more likely to attract women more easily than a guy with a negative attitude. Being positive and upbeat shows in nearly everything you do, as does being negative and glum. Women are much more likely to choose the positive, upbeat guys. Let me take a little time to explain how attitude affects your success in attracting and seducing a woman. First, a positive attitude reflects confidence and self respect. As we already discussed, confidence and self respect are vital. A positive attitude also directly affects how other people feel when they're around you. For example, have you ever had a friend or co-worker who was always down or pessimistic If you have, did you notice that...
And positive attitude, women will naturally be attracted to you. That's how most naturals get laid. They develop these three aspects of their identity confidence, beliefs and attitude. When this happens, they begin to feel more confident and they start to behave like they're the prize, which is exactly what attracts women.
A positive outlook is a major portion of your overall attitude. It's an overall health indicator of a person, since it reflects their predominant life philosophy. It's a bit corny to use the old glass is half empty full analogy anymore (probably because we're all so cynical that even the best sayings are rejected if they're heard more than once.) I may not be able to convince you that a positive attitude is more realistic than a negative one, but I do have a very overwhelming reason why you cannot indulge in negative attitudes or pessimism There are a whole host of visualization and affirmation methods out there that can help if you've got some self-esteem issues (and everyone - including me - could stand some improvement.) See the References at the end of the book for more materials that can help you in this area.
Most people, even the negative Depressed Chicks, will nod their head and agree. And she'll also start to see that I can hold my own original, uplifting opinion. She'll be attracted to that. Not to mention that she will see that being around someone with a healthy, positive attitude will make her feel better. If she associates your presence with that, so much the better. Just don't get into the game of trying to be her personal therapist and inspirational counselor. This is far too consuming. And you need to be having fun in the process of seduction.
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Positive Thinking As The Key To Success
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