Approaching Women

Attention Whores

BGMan wrote People who read and actually believe what Crowes wrote WILL be strung around and used by ATTENTION WH0RES unless you wake up Yes, it does appear there are 'attention *****s' who do all they can to get male attention. But I prefer to think of them as loving the sport rather than the fruits of the sport. They enjoy fishing but not the caught fish Women do become more attached to guys who take their virginity and often return to them. But what crowes says is quite correct. Guys,...

Secret To Womanese

What is this alien realm called Womaniverse where all these strange creatures known as WOAH-MEN emerge from They scatter about the Earth and cast Mankind in a Pleasure-Pain Paradox. Alas, the WHOA-MEN kept complaining and drove our ancestors so mad that they created civilization to please them. Seeing their failure (for women are forever complaining), it is no wonder that we die first. But to top it off, these WOAH-MEN speak in a totally alien language Oh MY GAAWWWWD I just ate a HUUUUGE cheese...

Feelingese The Language of Women

Womanese is feeling and feeling is Womanese. It goes beyond language. In our universe, cleaning our apartment is seen as a chore done primarily for sanitation reasons and to get stuff out of our way. But in Womaniverse, women enjoy the 'feelings' they get from a clean room (or rather they hate the 'feelings' they get from an unclean room). To us, a painting is just there as a 'decoration'. But in Womaniverse, colors, paintings, and designs all emit waves of good feelings which women soak up...

Science of Testosterone

Be a Man A Man is one who is not afraid of his testosterone. This will seem incredibly basic. But to illustrate the effects, look at the effects of men who must be injected with artificial testosterone because (for whatever reason) their body isn't making enough (usually due to having HIV). One HIV positive guy shares his differences with the before and after shots His weight increases from 165 pounds to 185 pounds. The collar size goes from 15 to 17 1 2, the chest from 40 to 44. His appetite...

Who Invented Marriage

I have to disagree with Jake Steed on this one (first time for everything ). MEN created the institution of marriage. It is common to think of weddings and marriages as one of the same. But they are seperate and have different origins. The wedding is merely a societal event, a celebration. It was to be more of a community event (remember how closely knit communities were back then, how the community was all). To say that weddings were invented by women, I would agree. But marriage No. Women are...

Kill That Desperation

Being a Don Juan is not a net sum of smooth manuevers and methods but of your own outlook on the world and on women. ANYONE can memorize 'techniques', but FEW can change the way HOW they think. Women will be able to sniff out the former. But with the latter, women will be clawing each other for you. A Don Juan is a state of mind, not a list of methods and tricks. This must be stated because it brings us to the subject of 'desperation'. In the end, we are all desperate with desire. We wouldn't...

Are you gay

Why won't you go out with me (or anyone) If you happened to be handsome or really cute, girls will try to go out with you. If you say no (haha ), she will think to herself, All these girls want to go out with him and he won't go out with any of them. What is wrong with him IS HE GAY Girls wondering if you're gay can be the ultimate compliment. Think. They are already thinking of you in a sexual context. They want you to go out with them. When you don't, they ask the gay question. (Remember,...

Introduction A Pook Is A Pook

The only reason why I'm here at Sosuave is to help myself. I have absolutely no interest in being an 'authority' or 'star poster' or anything of the such. I just want to correct my own flaws and discover life. I don't care about the DJ Bible, I don't care about any of the forum mechanics, or the forum custodians, or anything of the such. When I do a post, I basically talk to myself.The post is something I've found that helps me, that is why it appears in the 'tips' section. If I wanted to...

Pook Mans Advice to a Suffering Newbie

Anti Dump had a metaphor that I like a lot You should be free as a bird, flapping around, singing, full of joy with life. Women want to ****** the bird and throw it in a cage (cage committment). When birds try to fly into the cage, wouldn't you think something is wrong with that bird After all, who wants a bird that WANTS to be in the cage No, women want the birds that are FREE, WILD, and BEAUTIFUL. They want A GOOD CATCH. Good Catches do not fly into cages. Only wounded or needy birds do....

Casual Dating

Why, look at this We have received a letter from the ladies Dear Sosuave Youth, Before we, shall we say, get down to business, we have some things to say Sitting in your room and pretending to be content with your love life, or lack thereof, is not cool. This letter is meant to revive casual dating with you young males a practice that used to be followed by most, yet one that is strangely absent today. Casual dating does not mean commitment. It will not limit your freedom. It will not...

Do Girls Want Sovereignty

I think Chaucer visited this subject in the Wife of Bath's Tale. His conclusion was the opposite, that women wanted to rule, at least be soverign in their own choices concerning pleasing their guy. I don't think it is a farfetched idea to say that women view men differently then how we view them. We keep thinking that it is two people 'coming' together. Nah, I don't think women view it that way. When a girl eyes a potential mate, what is going through her head -Is he funny Will he make me laugh...

Feminism Put On Trial

All rise sosuave.com enters the courtroom with extravagant robes. Like an old man, he walks slowly to the judge's chair and sits. Everyone else sits after him. sosuave.com puts on his glasses and says softly, What is the matter The officer quickly walked over to sosuave.com and handed him the papers. Squinting through his glasses, he examined the papers. Who represents the Defense A feminist stands. (Note she is fat and ugly with a poisonous personality as most feminists are.) You represent...

Success with Women

A Initial Appearance P Personality C Challenge M Mystery W Women What are you high in What needs working on Extroverted Nice Guys have more success then introverted Don Juans. When W equals zero, then no matter how awesome or attractive you are, your success rate equals zero. Improving quantity improves likelihood of results. When you have female friends, the 'W' goes up and up. When you become friends with a chick, it doesn't mean nothing can happen. Rather, when you see the chick (because...

Patience What Truly Makes A Don Juan

I have observed guys that had it all (looks, confidence, experience, and even interest from the women). I was envious of these guys for they seemed to know what they were doing and knew how to do it well. I was in awe of how they could be so smooth with the ladies. Their abilities amazed me. Where I worked at, there were a couple of women who all the guys wanted. These women had initial interest in the guys mentioned above (and as you can imagine, those guys had quite a bit of interest in...

Women Initiating Dates

Hidden, thanks for sharing with all the details. I know that took an effort to write and its hard looking back at such a bad time when all you want to do is forget about it and move on. I'm finding myself in a *similiar* situation. The girl was hitting on me very very hard, yet I turned her down (haha ). But I admit, I was very very flattered (what bigger boost is there to the ego then a chick hitting on you HARD ). We've been playing lots of phone tag. I've noticed that infatuation has creeped...

Failure is a necessary component of growth Let yourself fail

You are not the Nice Guy who crashes and burns without a clue (and does it again and again and again). Don Juans are made by failing, not by succeeding. When you fail, you have information sent back on things that can be worked on. Are you too scrawny Do you not have fun dates Is your personality the problem Do you let yourself have fun Are you scared of sex What is it A failure can help you more than reading every damn post on this board. Failure will aid you much more than...

Towards Manhood

Come now, gentlemen, and gather around this pool of ashes, the remnants of All Great Men. Let us light the fire within and let it be the oracle for our post. Shh Hear that They are giving their advice. Listen The only dreams that are impossible are the ones that are not pursued. Dream Dream Dream What You say that you have a full weight of bad experiences on your shoulders Shrug and live through imagination, not through history. What You are scared of risk Imagine your emancipated spirit...

Perfection is boring To be Human is Beautiful

Modeling You think modeling is about perfection Yes, Pook. I believe it is. Sure, there are standards. But anyone can play the role of a mannequin. Even in modeling, there is heavy emphasis on penetrating the lens, to 'be Human' so to say, to slip your personality throughout. Music What You think music, that divine grace that is the perfect union of art and math, is to be 'perfect' When you learn an instrument, there is much emphasis on tone, scales, notes, and rhythms. When you play in a...

Sisyphus Disease

From the shocks and snaps that is the hysterical shrill known as Feminism comes the manufactured guilt impregnated into males. The most awful curse ever to be inflicted on men What horror this curse is For before you is the bounty of heaven, (paradise in your grasp ) yet every step you take plunges you into the depths of humiliating torturing hell The more you pursue the women desired the more you end up driving them away The more steps you take to end loneliness, the greater loneliness becomes...

The Masculine Male

Pook walks toward a bubbly Nice Guy with a needle of Man-ness. No The prick will hurt me Fine, die a painful long death of Regret, Loneliness, and Frustration. Any other takers See This fella knows that a momentary pain is prefarable to consistant suffering. Pook puts the shot into the Nice Guy and injects him with testosterone. Now, gentlemen, watch the effects. The Nice Guy no longer fears what he desires. He sees the woman he wants. He approaches her. Why do jerks approach women To marry...

The Women Agree

Even on this site's discussion of 'Nice Guys versus Jerks', read what some of what the women had to say. Italics will be the woman. Regular text will be da Pook Man. First Lady Alright, I read some of your responses from women and noticed that most of them seemed older. And probably uglier It is the pretty chicks we want. Too bad pictures weren't And since a lot of guys who go here seem to be around my age (17), I figured I would put my 2 cents in. I don't like the nice guy. To me he's a...

Its not possible to be horny and not needy at the same time unless of course youre a think about sex and have no

Some people ask, Why does Pook hammer the same points again and again just read the above. There is no contradiction. Keep in mind also that the time between those two posts was YEARS. I'm a bit wiser now but the same principle applies. Years ago, when I first came to this forum, I was a Nice Guy. How am I going to get the women One thing I said back then was KINOING. I said it because IT WORKED. I said, Kinoing turns you into a SEXUAL BEING to her. If you do NOT kino her, she will see you...

The Inflammation

Love Love Love It is Nature's drug, a high, that so many become addicted to and must always be feeling 'love' at some part of their lives. A Nice Guy appears to protest this post. Ignore him, gentlemen. Women following this romanticized path means that the CHASE becomes the focus rather than the COMPANY of the lover. No wonder challenge works so well No wonder once a woman gets what she wants, she goes looking for something else The more a man is a challenge, the more a woman becomes...

The Plague of Feminism

Feminism has castrated the male mind. Masculinity, noble, wise, triumphant, essential to civilization, is damned as decadence. The key to success in dating and with women in general is NOT finding out how a woman's mind works. To the contrary, the secret is finding out how a MAN'S mind works and being not a Nice Guy, not a Jerk, not some male, but a man. Come here, my feminists, and lay your charges against Mankind. The Dragon ladies shriek Masculinity is accused of the following. He has looked...

Key Three You are the PRIZE to be won

Think She wants to be with me, rather than I want to be with her . Imagine girls are gravitating towards you in every way. Assume that she is interested in you. If she is not, assume that she will be. This will keep you from being disrespected, keep you from falling for an UG, keep you from sacrificing your life to her, and keep the focus on her winning you. YOU are the GREAT CATCH But it is not arrogance. This key unleashes a pleasant cockiness. Combine this with the Fun Key, and you have both...