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Thanks to this site I have developed a great sense of self and a much higher level of confidence (not perfect by any means, but a hell of a lot improved). I've committed myself for the last couple years to doing whatever it takes to get what I want (money, girls, power etc). All of a sudden this does not seem appealing to me. I feel willing to give up all the hard work to follow a completely different path. All of a sudden, the thought of screwing people over or succeeding at all costs makes me...

Secret To Womanese

What is this alien realm called Womaniverse where all these strange creatures known as WOAH-MEN emerge from They scatter about the Earth and cast Mankind in a Pleasure-Pain Paradox. Alas, the WHOA-MEN kept complaining and drove our ancestors so mad that they created civilization to please them. Seeing their failure (for women are forever complaining), it is no wonder that we die first. But to top it off, these WOAH-MEN speak in a totally alien language Oh MY GAAWWWWD I just ate a HUUUUGE cheese...

The Inflammation

Love Love Love It is Nature's drug, a high, that so many become addicted to and must always be feeling 'love' at some part of their lives. A Nice Guy appears to protest this post. Ignore him, gentlemen. Women following this romanticized path means that the CHASE becomes the focus rather than the COMPANY of the lover. No wonder challenge works so well No wonder once a woman gets what she wants, she goes looking for something else The more a man is a challenge, the more a woman becomes...

Success with Women

A Initial Appearance P Personality C Challenge M Mystery W Women What are you high in What needs working on Extroverted Nice Guys have more success then introverted Don Juans. When W equals zero, then no matter how awesome or attractive you are, your success rate equals zero. Improving quantity improves likelihood of results. When you have female friends, the 'W' goes up and up. When you become friends with a chick, it doesn't mean nothing can happen. Rather, when you see the chick (because...

Do Girls Want Sovereignty

I think Chaucer visited this subject in the Wife of Bath's Tale. His conclusion was the opposite, that women wanted to rule, at least be soverign in their own choices concerning pleasing their guy. I don't think it is a farfetched idea to say that women view men differently then how we view them. We keep thinking that it is two people 'coming' together. Nah, I don't think women view it that way. When a girl eyes a potential mate, what is going through her head -Is he funny Will he make me laugh...

The Plague of Feminism

Feminism has castrated the male mind. Masculinity, noble, wise, triumphant, essential to civilization, is damned as decadence. The key to success in dating and with women in general is NOT finding out how a woman's mind works. To the contrary, the secret is finding out how a MAN'S mind works and being not a Nice Guy, not a Jerk, not some male, but a man. Come here, my feminists, and lay your charges against Mankind. The Dragon ladies shriek Masculinity is accused of the following. He has looked...

Patience What Truly Makes A Don Juan

I have observed guys that had it all (looks, confidence, experience, and even interest from the women). I was envious of these guys for they seemed to know what they were doing and knew how to do it well. I was in awe of how they could be so smooth with the ladies. Their abilities amazed me. Where I worked at, there were a couple of women who all the guys wanted. These women had initial interest in the guys mentioned above (and as you can imagine, those guys had quite a bit of interest in...

Mistakes

I cannot speak for others, but I will tell you the BIG reason why I became successful with women. I was willing to lose girls when I had no girls, and I was willing to spend the time when I had no time. What does this mean Willing to lose girls when I had no girls Let me use a money analogy. Let us say you were born poor. Most people remain poor because they cling so tightly to the pennies they have that they won't risk losing it in any investment. So they not only lose out with the big money,...

Are you gay

Why won't you go out with me (or anyone) If you happened to be handsome or really cute, girls will try to go out with you. If you say no (haha ), she will think to herself, All these girls want to go out with him and he won't go out with any of them. What is wrong with him IS HE GAY Girls wondering if you're gay can be the ultimate compliment. Think. They are already thinking of you in a sexual context. They want you to go out with them. When you don't, they ask the gay question. (Remember,...

Aphorisms

It all comes down to this choice live your dreams or live other people's dreams. The bitterness of a poor quality woman is remembered far longer then the sweetness of how easy it was to get her. Keep your standards up. Aim HIGH. The difference between successful people and unsuccessful people is this the former INVESTS his time while the latter SPENDS his time. Most young people don't realize that they are at a golden moment to plant seeds of talent to harvest throughout their lives. Some...

The Masculine Male

Pook walks toward a bubbly Nice Guy with a needle of Man-ness. No The prick will hurt me Fine, die a painful long death of Regret, Loneliness, and Frustration. Any other takers See This fella knows that a momentary pain is prefarable to consistant suffering. Pook puts the shot into the Nice Guy and injects him with testosterone. Now, gentlemen, watch the effects. The Nice Guy no longer fears what he desires. He sees the woman he wants. He approaches her. Why do jerks approach women To marry...

Failure is a necessary component of growth Let yourself fail

You are not the Nice Guy who crashes and burns without a clue (and does it again and again and again). Don Juans are made by failing, not by succeeding. When you fail, you have information sent back on things that can be worked on. Are you too scrawny Do you not have fun dates Is your personality the problem Do you let yourself have fun Are you scared of sex What is it A failure can help you more than reading every damn post on this board. Failure will aid you much more than...

Kill That Desperation

Being a Don Juan is not a net sum of smooth manuevers and methods but of your own outlook on the world and on women. ANYONE can memorize 'techniques', but FEW can change the way HOW they think. Women will be able to sniff out the former. But with the latter, women will be clawing each other for you. A Don Juan is a state of mind, not a list of methods and tricks. This must be stated because it brings us to the subject of 'desperation'. In the end, we are all desperate with desire. We wouldn't...

Science of Testosterone

Be a Man A Man is one who is not afraid of his testosterone. This will seem incredibly basic. But to illustrate the effects, look at the effects of men who must be injected with artificial testosterone because (for whatever reason) their body isn't making enough (usually due to having HIV). One HIV positive guy shares his differences with the before and after shots His weight increases from 165 pounds to 185 pounds. The collar size goes from 15 to 17 1 2, the chest from 40 to 44. His appetite...

The Women Agree

Even on this site's discussion of 'Nice Guys versus Jerks', read what some of what the women had to say. Italics will be the woman. Regular text will be da Pook Man. First Lady Alright, I read some of your responses from women and noticed that most of them seemed older. And probably uglier It is the pretty chicks we want. Too bad pictures weren't And since a lot of guys who go here seem to be around my age (17), I figured I would put my 2 cents in. I don't like the nice guy. To me he's a...

Feminism Put On Trial

All rise sosuave.com enters the courtroom with extravagant robes. Like an old man, he walks slowly to the judge's chair and sits. Everyone else sits after him. sosuave.com puts on his glasses and says softly, What is the matter The officer quickly walked over to sosuave.com and handed him the papers. Squinting through his glasses, he examined the papers. Who represents the Defense A feminist stands. (Note she is fat and ugly with a poisonous personality as most feminists are.) You represent...

Attention Whores

BGMan wrote People who read and actually believe what Crowes wrote WILL be strung around and used by ATTENTION WH0RES unless you wake up Yes, it does appear there are 'attention *****s' who do all they can to get male attention. But I prefer to think of them as loving the sport rather than the fruits of the sport. They enjoy fishing but not the caught fish Women do become more attached to guys who take their virginity and often return to them. But what crowes says is quite correct. Guys,...

Introduction A Pook Is A Pook

The only reason why I'm here at Sosuave is to help myself. I have absolutely no interest in being an 'authority' or 'star poster' or anything of the such. I just want to correct my own flaws and discover life. I don't care about the DJ Bible, I don't care about any of the forum mechanics, or the forum custodians, or anything of the such. When I do a post, I basically talk to myself.The post is something I've found that helps me, that is why it appears in the 'tips' section. If I wanted to...

Be A

There is a prize to the person who correctly answers this question, What is a Man When asked what they want in a guy, women say simply, A MAN But, alas , real men are becoming more and more rare these days. Women are tired of the sensative wimps who have no backbones. One women even wrote a song about the subject, Where have all the cowboys gone So what is a Man How should he act Decades and centuries ago, the question was nonsense. But today in our feminized culture this may be more in America...