Hot Time in the Hot

There is something about being in a hotel that seems to bring out people's wild side. It doesn't seem to matter if the location is across town or halfway around the world. Perhaps it's the anonymity of knowing that you'll never see your neighbors again; or maybe it's the sense that, since many of your basic needs are being provided for by someone else, you don't have to be responsible for anything, even your own actions.

So picture this: You are getting away for the weekend together to an out-of-town hotel. After checking in, the two of you take the elevator to the floor where your room is located. For no apparent reason at all, your man starts kissing and fondling you passionately as the elevator ascends. You are grateful that the car is empty except for the two of you, but can't help feeling titillated by the knowledge that the doors could open at any time, and you would be caught. By the time you get to your floor, your face is flushed with your mounting desire. Once you get to your room, you naturally assume he will make love to you immediately (and you want him to), but he has other ideas.

Wordplay

Talking a fantasy simply means that you or your partner tell each-other about a fantasy you may have, but don't necessarily act it out The key to both of you enjoying a shared fantasy is in being completely honest with each other, and not doing or saying anything that will diminish your or your partner's sense of safety and trust. Keafiie that talking a fantasy doesn't necessarily mean you want it to come true.

Wordplay

Talking a fantasy simply means that you or your partner tell each-other about a fantasy you may have, but don't necessarily act it out The key to both of you enjoying a shared fantasy is in being completely honest with each other, and not doing or saying anything that will diminish your or your partner's sense of safety and trust. Keafiie that talking a fantasy doesn't necessarily mean you want it to come true.

Instead of going at each other right there, he tells you to get your swimsuit on, and the two of you go to the hotel's hot tub. The soothing jets of water feel delightful, issuing that "take me away" command to all your stress.

Then, you feel your man's fingertips on your thigh, slowly working their way upward. The bubbles in the tub hide his ministrations from view, so you lean back and let him proceed. The combination of the warm water, the bubbles flicking gently upon your skin, and his exploring fingers both soothe and excite you, and before you know it you are having a very public climax, with no one the wiser except you and your man. At that point you both realize that it's time to return to the room.

You can see how even entertaining the thought of doing something daring, something that you would never normally do, can maintain a sense of newness in your play. Even if you have no desire to act upon your fantasies, you would be amazed at how exciting it can be to simply talk a fantasy during sexual play.

Next we're going to get a little more gender specific and take a closer look at the most common fantasies of men and women. The purpose of this exploration is not mere titillation, but to examine ways in which the two of you can enrich your relationship and become closer.

Continue reading here: Mens Most Powerful Fantasies

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