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Children delight in being silly, but for most adults silliness is a lost art Rediscovering this art with your partner can put 10me "zing" into your relationship. Think of some completely sifly things to do together. 6low bubbles. Go to the zoo and make faces at the monkeys. Play a kids' game such ii Twister. Buy some face or body painti and paint each Other. Have a food fight Use your imagination; the idea ii far the two of you to dissolve together in helpless laughter... and there's no telling where that might read!

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It's no exaggeration to say that laughter and joy can be more enticing to the opposite sex than a hard body or legs "up to there." And even if you can't tell a joke to save your life, it's easy to make humor a part of your life. Here are a few tips:

• Learn to make yourself see the humor in everyday situations, even those that you'd normally find aggravating. There's almost always a funny side. Laugh, and the world might not always laugh with you, but you'll feel better. And a person who's laughing, or at least smiling, is infinitely more seductive and attractive than someone who's throwing a temper tantrum or who's just a plain old stick in the mud.

• Share your gift of laughter with others—not in a way that they feel they are being ridiculed or laughed at, but in a manner that brings them into your personal circle of joy.

• Never be afraid to laugh at yourself. People who take themselves too seriously are not seductive. On the other hand, people who have the ability to find joy and humor in their lives, and to infect others with that joy and humor, are nearly irresistible.

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