Now that we've laid the groundwork for seduction, it's time to go out and field-test your seductive powers. We'll begin by taking a close look at what men and women find seductive in the opposite sex. Next, because you have to get out and find the person of your dreams before you can seduce him or her, we'll discuss the pros and cons of the various "hunting grounds." No matter where you go, you need to know how to attract your "quarry" once you're there. Toward that end, we'll go into the how-to's of the initial approach, the nuances of body language and other romantic signals, and the perils and pleasures of flirting.
Sooner or later, someone is going to catch your eye, and vice versa—and you're going to actually go on a date with that person. You'll find a step-by-step "survival guide" to the date—and how to use it to your seductive advantage—as well as a basic evaluation system to help you decide if you should go out with this person again. After all, even if you're not looking for your soul mate right now, you certainly don't want to seduce (or be seduced by) someone who's not right for you at all.
The Ultimate Seductress: A Man's Perspective
The debate about what constitutes seductiveness in a woman has raged for thousands of years. You would think that, after all this time, we would have reached some sort of consensus on the topic, but we have not for a number of reasons.
In this chapter, we will attempt to sort fact from fantasy, and to describe those attributes that men really desire and find appealing in a woman, as well as those that can instantaneously turn her from being a siren into a pariah in a man's eyes. The bad news is that women can sometimes do some of the things that turn guys off without even realizing they're doing them. The good news for women is that these behaviors or traits are easily avoided with a little awareness. Even better news is, despite what women have been led to believe, the traits men are genuinely attracted to aren't impossible fantasies or unachievable goals, nor are they confined to a physical appearance that only a few women can achieve.
You women can use this chapter to help you come up with your own personal assessment of your seductiveness. That way you can enhance the traits that make you more alluring, while minimizing (or even doing away with) those that can turn men off.
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