Contents At A Glance

Part 1: Becoming a Modern-Day Seductress or Seducer 1

1 3 Redefining Seduction

Learn a new, more enlightened definition of seduction for the new millennium. Discover the individual elements that make a person seductive.

2 15 Goal Setting: The Proactive Approach to Seduction

A delicious seduction doesn't "just" happen. Learn to set goals to greatly increase your chances of successful seduction.

3 25 Physical Attraction: Looking Seductive

Your physical presence is the first and most obvious aspect of your seductiveness. Learn to optimize your allure by making the most of your sexiest attributes.

4 39 Intellectual Magnetism: Your Brain Is the Most Erogenous Part of Your


Looks aren't everything! In fact, it's more important to have an active, alert, and perpetually curious mind than it is to be stunningly good-looking. Learn to be seduced by life, and you can stay seductive for as long as you live.

5 53 Emotional Seductiveness: Creating Those Warm, Fuzzy Feelings

Increase your compassion quotient, learn to listen with your heart, and learn how to "resonate " with others—and you'll become virtually irresistible to the people around you.

6 65 Spirit or Essence: All the Elements of Seductiveness... and More

This is the whole that is greater than the sum of its parts; it's what makes you YOU! Learn how the subtle interplay of the elements of allure—along with self-confidence, self-worth, character and intent—create your entire seductive "package."

Part 2: Attracting Dates: Casting Your Spell 77

7 79 The Ultimate Seductress: A Man's Perspective

You don't have to be a supermodel lookalike or a centerfold candidate to enchant him. Make him feel like a winner, and you both win.

8 87

The Ultimate Seducer: A Woman's Perspective

Don't have bulging biceps or a bulging wallet? Not to worry; those aren't the characteristics that make a woman melt. Discover the simple secrets to becoming simply irresistible to the woman you're with.

9 101

Meeting Attractive People: Matching Your Destination with Your


The person of your dreams is out there; you just have to know where to look. Learn the pros and cons of various "hunting grounds, "from the traditional to the unconventional.

10 113

The Approach: Putting All That Preparation to Work

Forget the corny lines; learn how to make the kind of first impression that will elicit smiles of delight rather than groans. Discover how you can be intriguing from the moment you meet someone. Find out how to avoid the

"platonic trap, " and learn how to prepare yourself to ask someone for a date.

11 127

Romantic Signals: How to Read Them and How to Give Them

Discover how body language, eye contact, and sensuous touching can add to your intrigue, and can help you figure out what's really going on in the other person's mind.

12 139

Flirting: Tickle, Tease, or Torture

Flirting can be a harmless diversion, an instrument of destruction, or a prelude to a sweet seduction. Discover the nuances of the different kinds of flirting. Find out how to avoid the harmful variety, and learn the how-to's of purposeful, seductive flirting.

13 151 A Seductive Guide to "the Big D": The Date

Learn how to use the first date to determine if this is a person you want to seduce. If the answer is yes, you can use the date to begin picking up clues that will help you set the stage for a successful seduction.

Part 3: A Night to Remember 165

14 167 Should We or Shouldn't We?

No matter how attractive your partner is, sex is a decision that requires careful thought. Review the issues about safe sex, and examine several other factors that can help you determine whether or not this person is a suitable sexual partner for you.

15 179

Setting the Stage for Seduction

Seduction will be all the sweeter if you learn to make the most of the exquisite sexual tension that is building between the two of you. Find out how to spark your partner's fantasies, and push all of his or her "hot" buttons.

16 191

Pre-Game Jitters

Getting there may be half the fun, but let's face it: It's not all fun. Just about everyone gets pre-game jitters. Learn how to put your fears in perspective and transform nervousness into excitement.

17 203

Tonight's the Night: Lovemaking 101

Discover tips for optimizing your sexual pleasure every step of the way, from first move to "afterglow. "

18 215

A Seductive Potpourri: Tips and Tricks to Make the Night Complete Make the most of the explosive chemistry between the two of you by turning on all that seductive charm you've discovered!

Part 4: Seduction Is Forever 229

19 231

There's Got to Be a Morning After

Learn to deal with morning-after doubts and insecurities, and the feeling of "buyer's remorse " that often follows even the most wonderful sex. Discover how to say a kind goodbye if it didn't work out—or set the stage for next time if it knocked your socks off.

20 245

Keeping It Intriguing: Understanding Needs Beyond the Bedroom

In order to keep someone interested, you have to continue to seduce them on all levels—not just physically, but intellectually and emotionally as well.

Learn about men's and women's most profound emotional needs in a relationship. Discover how to create adventures together in order to keep your relationship alive and healthy.

21 257 Keeping It Spicy: Fanning the Flames with Fantasies and Games

Learn how sexual fantasy can bring the two of you closer together and help make your relationship a source of perpetual delight. Explore some of men's and women's most common fantasies, and discover how you can (harmlessly) incorporate them into your relationship.

22 271

What's Love Got to Do with It?

Learn about the different stages of love, and the part seduction plays at each stage. Find out how to make seduction last forever.


A 281


B 285

The Language of Seduction: A Wordplay Glossary

Steamy Seduction Tales

Index 299

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