Emotional Seductiveness Creates a Win Win Situation
The whole process of really listening to and empathizing, resonating, laughing, having fun with, and of genuinely liking another person, serves to validate his or her sense of self-worth. The most powerful—and the only positive—form of seduction is the kind that leaves the person being seduced feeling somehow enriched by the experience. To enhance another person's good feelings about him-or herself, and about the experiences he or she shares with you, is the ultimate goal in seduction.
Equally important is that the act of seduction be a positive, enriching experience for both parties. A true seduction is one that leaves both the seducer, and the person being seduced, smiling when they remember the experience.
The Least You Need to Know
The first and most important thing you have to do to be seductive is to show up—not only physically, but intellectually and emotionally as well.
y To seduce someone, you need to make the person feel safe with you,
V- To seduce someone, you need fo make the object of your affection feel good about him- or herself.
> It is almost impossible not to like someone who genuinely likes you.
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