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>■ The intangible "something" that makes you who you arc ^ B u i I d fng yq u r se If-confide n ce > Character and intent- the components of integrity >- 5elf-worth: feeJing you've got something of value to offer

In this chapter, we're going to discuss an intangible yet very powerful aspect of your persona: your spirit. Abstract though this quality may be, it is crucial to your seductiveness. For although it is difficult to quantify, spirit is the aspect of you that truly makes you sexy.

So, just what is spirit? Some people think of spirit as being synonymous with "soul," but for our purposes here, we're going to define it simply as your essence: The mystifying ingredient that is the sum total of all the other facets of your being. Your spirit is a blend of many ingredients:

• How you express your feelings

• The presence you bring into a room

• Your intent—the motivation behind the other elements

The word spirit has severef definitions in the drctionary, the first one being, "a person's mind or feelings, or animating principle, as distinct from his body.1'A more hoNstic way of fooking at spirit is to think of it as encompassing the physical presence, rather than being distinct from it Of course, "spirit" includes much more than the ptyicaf; it's the ium totai of who you are,

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The word spirit has severef definitions in the drctionary, the first one being, "a person's mind or feelings, or animating principle, as distinct from his body.1'A more hoNstic way of fooking at spirit is to think of it as encompassing the physical presence, rather than being distinct from it Of course, "spirit" includes much more than the ptyicaf; it's the ium totai of who you are,

But it is more than these. It is also the confidence you feel and the passion that drives you. Spirit, in short, is who you really are.

Though this elusive essence is comprised of all the other aspects of your being, it is also the core from which those aspects are drawn. Being as impalpable and abstract as it is, the spirit is also the most difficult element of your persona to work on. It can be touched only through one of its manifestations—one of the more obvious parts of your being—yet it responds to the elevation of other elements by being elevated itself as a by-product of your efforts. In other words, anything you do to upgrade one aspect of yourself will have a positive effect on your spirit.

The Power Of Charisma

The Power Of Charisma

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