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safe sex, 169

see also birth control scarves, as props for seduction, 218, 222 Sea of Love, 217

Secrets About Men Every Woman Should Know, 282 seducers (cultural icons), 18 seduction, 288

after effects of, 11 atmosphere, creating, 217-219 definition of, 3

delicious seduction, 8-10, 286

using dreams/fantasies, 179-186

effects of, 5

etymology, 4

feminine keys to, 85

fictional vs. real life, 3

goals of, 4

good versus bad, 5 399

intentions behind, 5

long-term seduction, 278-280 malicious seduction, 10, 287 negative seduction, 7 nonsexual, 5-7 planning, 9 positive seduction, 7 scenarios domination and submission, 296 dress up, 292-293 exotic locales, 293-294, 296 food, 294-295 harem girl, 293-294 prostitution, 291-292 sexual seduction, 7-10 surrendering to partner fantasies, 296 visualization, 211 seductive flirting, 140 components of, 148 guidelines for success, 149-150 seductiveness acquiring, 19 nature vs. nurture, 16-19 seductresses (cultural icons), 17-18 self-confidence, 288 attractiveness of, 14 components of, 69 during sex, 202 increasing, 69 projecting, 39-42, 216 self-image components of, 68 determining, 25-28

during first-time sexual encounters, 195 effect of sexual partners on, 174

improving, 19-20, 33 maintaining, 22-23 masking, 23 media influence on, 29 refining, 82-83 self-improvement, 33 self-talk, 289

sensuality, maintaining in a relationship, 252-254

sex affairs with married partners, terminating, 175 afterglow, 213 anxieties, 191 male, 192-198

measuring up to past lovers, 198 primitive impulses, 199

rejection, 198 relieving, 204, 208-210 birth control, 169 bisexual fantasies, 268 bondage, 266 communication during, 197 compatibility, developing, 201 considerations before, 206-207 danger element as a turn-on, 259 deciding when you're ready, 171-175, 204-206 domination, 267

effects on relationships, 171, 172 exhibitionism, 264-266 exotic locales, 259-262 expectations after, 176 experimentation, 206 female roles, evolution of, 196 first encounters, 189 foreplay, 208, 286

kissing techniques, 222-223 oral sex tips, 223-225 fulfillment, importance to men, 250 goal-setting, 207 humor, during, 207 improvement over time, 201 in bodies of water, 264-265 learning from your partner, 206 locations, varying, 219-220 making the first move, 205-206 402

marathon sessions, 194

media impressions of, 200-201 ménage à trois, 262-263, 267-268 morning after, 231-232

cooling-off period, 239-241 impressions, 233 insecurities, 232-236 objectivity, maintaining, 241-243 partner compatibility, determining, 237-238 reflections, 236-241 regrets, 235-236 rejection, coping with, 239 terminating the relationship, 238 oral sex guidelines, 223-224 tips for men, 225 tips for women, 224-225 partners chemistry between, 174 choosing, 172-176 determining if appropriate, 172-175 effects on self-image, 174 petting, 208 precautions, 168

first dates, 158-159 premarital sex, 241

props for a seductive environment, 222 public places, 264 relaxation before hand, 204 safe sex, 169

safety, projecting an atmosphere of, 213 self-confidence, 202

self-image during first time encounters, 195

sensuality, creating, 207 techniques, 195

timeliness of, 172 tips for men, 212-213 for women, 210-212 voyeurism, 264 woman's enjoyment of, 210 womens' concerns, 204 with the wrong person, 171 Sex in America: A Definitive Survey, 282

Sex on Campus: The Naked Truth About the Real Sex Lives of College Students, 282 sex toys, 218, 269 sexual dysfunction female, 198 impotence, 193, 287 premature ejaculation, 194 sexual fantasies comfort levels, measuring, 258 exhibitionism, 259 hot tubs, 261-262 men's, 262-265 role playing, 260-261 sharing, 257, 269 women's, 265-269 see also fantasies sexual peaks, 289 sexual seduction, 7-10 sexual tension building, 189

creating after first dates, 159 sexuality developing, 197 guidelines for women, 197 projecting through body language, 135-137 sexually transmitted diseases (STDs), 168 Sirens, 184, 217 smiling, 133, 186 smoking, 96

spirit, 289 405

aura, 66-68

components of, 65, 68 see also charisma spontaneity acting on your impulses, 212 as a device for seduction, 185-186 responding to, 212 STDs (sexually transmitted diseases), 168 striptease, 221

subtlety, sharing dreams/fantasies, 182 synagogues as meeting places, 106 syphilis, 168

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