Secrets for the Seductress

Heart Brakes

When you share a hidden fantasy with your partner, be sure that

Heart Brakes

When you share a hidden fantasy with your partner, be sure that

Far HER Eyes Only

A feather can have more impact than a baseball bat You can let him know you're thinking about him, but don't always tell him wfui you're thinking.

Far HER Eyes Only

A feather can have more impact than a baseball bat You can let him know you're thinking about him, but don't always tell him wfui you're thinking.

There is a widespread notion that seduction is much easier for a woman than for a man. Billy Crystal once said that the difference between men and women on a date is that men spend the evening wondering if they're going to "get lucky," while women already know. While this may, on the surface, seem to ring true, neither men's nor women's attitudes toward sex are quite this simplistic, as you probably know from reading the previous chapters in this book. The very act of seduction carries as many risks for women as it does for men.

The delicious seduction of the new millennium, however, isn't about shallow, meaningless encounters. It's about two people sharing more than bodily fluids. It's about actually touching each other on multiple levels.

Toward this lofty goal, there are many things you women can do to inspire a man to think of you in a seductive way, yet still maintain his interest in you as a person. The first rule is: Always be subtle. To subtlety, add a bit of spontaneity, visual appeal, and presentation, and you've got a seductive mix that will have his mouth watering for you.

Subtlety: Letting Him Fill in the Blanks

Just as I described in the dream at the beginning of the chapter, you can let your partner know that you see him in a sexual way, without beating him over the head with details. You can relate your own dream, or perhaps give him a very brief description of a fantasy you have, leaving the delicious details to his imagination. Done with the appropriately light touch, this can be a more powerful aphrodisiac to the man than the most blatant X-rated narrative.

Here's an example. Say the two of you are watching a movie, and there is a scene that tickles your fancy. In the movie Sirens, there is a scene where a very proper young woman is tied to a tree by three of her playful friends, and must wait for a supposedly blind hired hand to untie her. To some women—and men—the fantasy of a woman being gently but firmly restrained (with no malicious intent, of course) is very exciting. Imagine what your date's reaction would be if, while watching such a scene, you elicited a soft, yet obviously excited, sigh.

His mind would immediately begin racing, with thoughts of you in such a predicament and with himself as the hired hand (who is, of course, not really blind). Most men are so visually oriented that they could play this scene out to its conclusion, with the two of you making passionate love in the shade of the tree. With a simple sigh, you have elicited his tendencies toward fantasy.

By using such a subtle approach, you have gotten his motor running, while still maintaining your own safe boundaries. If he doesn't seem amused by your little outburst, you can simply say that the situation seemed really frightening, and you're off the hook. On the other hand, if he takes your cue, you will get your point across in a subtle manner, without having to go into a long description of the eroticism you saw in the scene.

There are many other ways that you can enlist the man's help in creating your own aura of seductiveness. With the right words (and the right touch) from you, he will be a very willing participant in his own sweet seduction.

Seduce Her With Laughter

Seduce Her With Laughter

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