Womens Most Powerful Fantasies

Women have just as active a fantasy mechanism as do men. Some of the most popular women's fantasies, however, differ somewhat from men's, reflecting their unique needs and desires. By being aware of his woman's needs, a man can remain sensitive and responsive to her fantasies without feeling threatened. Some of those fantasies include:

• Being seen by others (exhibitionism)

• Being ravished

• Being in complete control

• Having other male partners

• Bisexuality

For HIS Eyes Only

Be a tender ravisher. Use soft restraints that won't Jeave marks on her bender skin; silk neckties make wonderful erotic restraints. Once you have her bound, tickle her with feathers, trickle warm fragrant oii on her most sensitive spots, kiss her lightly all over—in shorty tease her until she is crazy with desire I ------------------■

It's no secret: a woman needs to feel beautiful. It doesn't make us any less independent or any of the other things we've been working on since the suffragettes. But there's a little bit of Venus in us all. It's not surprising, then, that many of us fantasize about being seen and admired by other men. The fact that men have historically been the aggressors sexually, combined with the very real danger of being raped, has an inhibiting effect on a woman's desire to be put on display. Yet, the desire does exist in many women. A man who is secure enough to accept this, yet sensitive enough to accept the limitations his woman puts on the activity, may well find that he is the lucky recipient of some fantastic sex.

So indulge her in her role-playing fantasies. If she wants to pretend to be a prostitute (with you as her only "john," of course) or a topless dancer (with you as her sole audience member), sit back and enjoy it. No doubt, you'll both find the experience thrilling.

Tie Me Up, Tie Me Down

Many women are turned on by the idea of being tied up and ravished by their partner, giving themselves up totally to his control. This is partly a result of another primary female need: a woman's desire to feel emotionally safe with her man.

For HER Eyes Only if you realty want to get into the ravishment game, but don't want to ruin any clothes you care for, have a couple of throwaway dresses on hand. That way, he can Jiteralfy rip your clothes off—and your wardrobe won't suffer for it.

In any case, it's important to remember that a woman's bondage or ravishment fantasy is not a rape fantasy. Rape is a violent and criminal act that has no place in a loving relationship. And in order for any sort of dominance fantasy to be enjoyable for your woman, she needs to feel absolute trust in you. She needs to know that, when she gives you such a great degree of control over her, you will not do anything to abuse her trust. She must know that you would never allow any harm to come to her, and that you won't do anything that makes her feel diminished in any way.

So temper your dominance with lots of tenderness. Use soft restraints that won't hurt her. Let the only instruments of torture be your tongue and fingertips, and perhaps a feather.

The 1??8 nevtvaJ and re-release of the movie Grease may have demonstrated our country's Jove of nostalgia in the fate ZQth century, but itaiso showed something eise: Sandra Dee is alive and welJ. Most women were brought up with the notion of being "good girii"; they don't drink, smoke, or rat their hair-and they definiteiy don't act out their sexuai desires. Herc'i where the notion of being tied up and ravished conies in. Obviously, if the wild sex is beyond a woman's control, then she's not "guilty." (Of courre, let's not forget that of OJMa Newton-John broke out in a pair of tight blatk pants and tube top at tlie end—but Lii.ii'- ;■.■.: 345

For HER Eyes Only if you realty want to get into the ravishment game, but don't want to ruin any clothes you care for, have a couple of throwaway dresses on hand. That way, he can Jiteralfy rip your clothes off—and your wardrobe won't suffer for it.

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