Anatomy Of A Problem

LIFE'S Problems

Hurts

Emotional

Decision-hased

Stresses

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Intuition

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"Trapped" Problems

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Life's Resources To Defeat Problems

LIFE S STRENGTHS: Resources

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Well-Being (get needs met

Confidence/ Trust

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Decision-power

Conscience

Intuition

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Intellect

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Experience

CONTROL

• In every human problem, whether personal, business, economic, social, intercultural, international, political, familial, marital or psychological, there is always some portion which is in our CONTROL, i.e. "inside our personal boundary", and another portion which is OUT OF OUR CONTROL, i.e. "outside our personal boundary".

• Our Personal Boundary marks what we control from what we don't, so the first step in solving any human problem is to develop healthy, mature, high character boundaries.

• When you have a solid Personal Boundary, you clearly see what you control in any problem from what you don't. The beginning of solving problems then becomes easy. Let go of what you do NOT CONTROL and focus on what you DO CONTROL.

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The "DURABLE" Personal Boundary: Your Only Defense Against Suffering

The Personal Boundary marks the limit of what you control in your psychological territory, from what you do not.

When we burn emotional energy on those things outside our boundary, those things we don't control, it is called SUFFERING

• When your boundary has "holes" in it, these are what allow SUFFERING to happen. They are places where we "refuse" to hear "NO" from the environment.

BOUNDARIES .SUFFERING --spending energy on the uncontrollable

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BOUNDARIES .SUFFERING --spending energy on the uncontrollable

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The Nature Of Suffering

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BOUND ARIES, SUFFERING spending energy on the imcojitro liable

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