The Mature Personal Boundary Politics

SEMI-PERMEABLEBOUiyDARYovith "doors",not "holes"

Person connecting destrueiïvely

SEMI-PERMEABLEBOUiyDARYovith "doors",not "holes"

"open the door" when people do ■ constructive things

"close the door" when people do destructive things

Person connecting constructively

"open the door" when people do ■ constructive things

Did you ever look down at the ground as you cross the border of a country? Is there a dotted line? No. However, if you cross without a passport, will something very real happen? Yes, you will be stopped (hopefully).

This is exactly how psychology works, and how the personal boundary works—invisible but real.

The most mature Personal Boundary has "DOORS" rather than holes or walls in it.

The human skill of combining your decision-making with your boundary function - to DECIDE when to open and close its doors - is called POLITICS.

High health is to open your "doors" to CONSTRUCTIVE ideas, emotional energy and behaviors, and slam it shut on DESTRUCTIVE ideas, energy & behaviors.

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Mature Masculine Power

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Masculine Power = Observing Ego

+ Mature Boundary Function (Doors)

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