Attractiveness

My Sad and Pathetic Story How Women Piss on Low Status

I'm 5'6, unathletic, and have a nasty lisp to my voice. Women find me unattractive and unacceptable as a potential mate. They laugh at guys like me This is basically how I thought about myself for years -- from adolescence to adulthood -- in the deepest core of my being. I'm talking about my unconscious mind, where fundamental statements such as these which describe your sense of identity (or at least, certain aspects of it) are held un-critically as the truth, and are then used by your...

Classy Courage

ne of the best ways to elicit a positive response from any woman is to have a presentation about yourself that appears charismatic. Your prospects for acceptance go way up (and, conversely, your chances of rejection go way down) if you can aspire to come across with charisma and a stylish flair. What is charisma Webster's defines it as a. the power or quality of winning the devotion of large numbers of people b. Great personal magnetism charm. Now, for our purposes we won't consider the...

Your Secretly Shamed Affection Needs

The need to secure affection from others is a basic, natural, normal human need that begins to form within most of us at a very early age, probably as a continuation of infanthood. The key issue here is normal and natural. The human animal has an index of developmental needs that seek to find expression and validation as we undertake the maturation process, a process that begins in early childhood and winds a twisted path all the way through young adulthood. The major players in this journey...

Eye Cues Auditories look to the left or right with eyes level when thinking

So what, you say Well, this kind of intimate clue about a girl can be very useful in the early stages of a seduction. It allows you to capture an intuition about her that should have a good chance of being accurate, and this sets you up for being just a little mysterious and intriguing. I have a sense about you you are into music pretty heavily, do you play some kind of instrument you ask knowingly. Her return look is one of amazed curiosity. Bingo how the hell did you know that Women love to...

High Status powerful Males vs Low Status weak Males

Jockeying for pecking order among males is something that goes on constantly in all species of animal on Earth. It takes place in every human culture too, probably dating back to the very beginnings of Time itself. Men compete against each other every day and in all manner of ways, some subtle and others painfully obvious. From the high stakes power plays that define the bitterness and intrigues of office (or governmental) politics, to deciding who goes first at a 4-way stop sign, the struggle...

In Order to Get Something You Have to Pretend You Dont Want It

This strange but true phenomenon plays into the Universe's twisted desire to reward the nonchalant and torture the desperate. Why this is so -- I haven't a clue. Murphy's Law, test of the gods, inverted chance. Go figure. All I know is that this law seems to hold up under all aspects of life women, making money, getting killed in an accident (you ever notice how it's the safety conscious who always seem to invite disaster ), whatever. You can't beat it so you might as well play along with it....

Putting it All Together

Okay, let's see if I can summarize everything into another one of my famous 'cheat sheets'. Don't act weird. Sounds obvious but it's not. Single people tend to have a disturbing strangeness about them that tags them as curiosities to be avoided. I know you've met women that you can tell almost at a glance are lifetime virgins. In a man, single guy weirdness signals that he is a neophyte when it comes to matters sexual and emotional. It suggests that you're a low status male who's been roundly...

Yourself as a Player

ne of the damndest principles in all of life is that wretched one which insists that the rich get richer while the poor simply get poorer. You only have to look around at nearly every aspect of how society operates in order to observe its effects in action. For those already doing well financially, there seems always an anxious banker or drooling businessman standing ready to push still another opportunity at them so they can make more money (that they hardly need), while some joker slaving...

Romance is a Trance

Once you believe that you've picked up on her thinking style, your follow-up move is to make a conscious effort to use language that supports it -giving her the perception that you too take in the world through a similar experience of your physical senses just like she does. This confers a powerful sense of connection between the two of you on a subliminal or unconscious level, making such feelings profoundly hypnotic because it slips beneath the judgmental radar of the conscious Mind. For...

You must Escalate When the Time is Right in order to Realize a Successful Seduction

Have you ever heard of the expression 'passive-aggressive' It's a psychotherapy term that describes a technique by which a person can exhibit aggressive or hurtful behavior towards someone not necessarily by doing something to them, but by withholding something from them. You withhold the full expression of your personality in some way give half an effort, drag your feet on the job, give someone 'the silent treatment' -- whatever it takes to inhibit their efforts to accomplish something that...

Without Embarrassment

I mentioned earlier that seduction is a delicate bubble which can be shattered quite easily, especially in its early stages. Now you can see how this fragility is related to the length of time each person has invested in the potential relationship the more tentative the relationship, the more easily it can be destroyed by a failure to escalate properly at the correct moment. With little invested, our patience is thin. For instance, at the instant of first eye contact with an attractive person,...

A Knockout First Kiss

There are a couple of gestures in the seductive dance that cultural convention insists men must always be the first ones to initiate. The most difficult gesture of course is the one that lies central to all our problems with women i.e., being the first one to have to speak up and say something, and thus revealing our (shameful) interest in her and (shameful) need for affection. However, there is a second action which is equally as crucial one that you may not fully grasp the importance of,...

Getting Her Addicted to

Here's a neat little trick that I discovered in my travels along the perverted yellow brick road. Once you finally break the 'sex barrier' with a woman, all sorts of opportunities to form a powerful psycho-sexual bond between the two of you begin to present themselves. Getting a woman addicted to you is a seriously complex issue that could probably fill out an entire book on its own since it has to do with the creation of feelings of trust and shared experience and all that other good stuff....

First Nonverbal Contact

4) Get Caught Looking You should always try to make non-verbal contact first by maneuvering yourself into her field of view somehow. When she catches you peeking at her, (a cool, casual checking-out ) hold on for a few seconds and resist the urge to look away. Train for this moment like a prizefighter with dogs, cats, old ladies etc. wherever you get the chance to, so you can begin to defeat the shy 'look away' reflex that we all have without having to think about it when you need it most. 5)...

The Seven Perfect Attributes in Men that Women Would Love to

The great fear that you have when it comes to approaching women undoubtedly grows from the fact that you have a gnawing uncertainty of exactly what to say and how to act in a way that a great looking woman would find charming, clever and intriguing, as opposed to stupid, laughable and humiliating. Right The need to avoid these negative emotions overrides whatever horniness that you have. Simply put, ignorance begets fear. Well then get set to burn these next seven ideas into your brain forever....

Step 2 Knock her off her Pedestal

What the hell do I mean by that Well, one of your problems is that you've built up great looking women to be untouchable goddesses in your mind. This stops you from approaching them because you are in awe of them. It's like when someone idolizes a celebrity then finally gets a chance to meet the object of their reverence . What happens They freeze up and can't speak a word Why Because the celebrity has been built up to such superhuman proportions in the mind of the adoring fan, that seeing him...

Your First Words are Always Non Verbal

Now we're getting into the good stuff the nuts-and-bolts of the pick-up. I like to consider what I teach as seduction, even though you probably won't be getting laid out in the parking lot with these techniques (although you might -- some women go nuts when they run across a man who actually knows what the hell he's doing ) Yes, that's right you will soon be entering an elite brotherhood of men. Having romantically meaningful conversations with women is the moat you will need to cross in order...

First Verbal Contact

8) Open Up Showtime A bright, friendly, enticing expression will be the first communication of both your interest in her (as a man) and your availability. Try to keep your eyes locked onto hers, even if you have to use the old shy salesmen's trick of staring at the bridge of her nose (which is impossible to detect by the person being observed as being any different than a straight look in the eye). 9) Show you are Harmless and Interested It's as easy as saying hi , commenting about a common...

Get Informed

Iadmit it I plagiarized that opening sub-title from the radio promo of some gambling outfit that advocates its stone-cold-lock football handicapping service with this cute little moto. Stop trying to get lucky get informed. I liked it because it pretty much describes the approach that men have been taking with women since we were no longer allowed to club them over the head or buy them from their fathers for two pigs and a bale of grain. Getting lucky. The whole notion of getting lucky sums up...