How to Banish Bad Habits
If you get a no, you may want to take a minute to try to figure out why. Make sure you haven't gotten into some bad habits. You may need to ask yourself some tough questions. Are you too eager, too desperate, too whiny, too silly, or too tense Is your breath okay Do you make eye contact
Smoking is one of the things I hate most about humanity. Honest. I'm so happy they passed the laws that let us go to bars and actually breathe fresh air for a change Research has shown that if you are a smoker most women that don't smoke will invalidate you immediately Far more important than that is the fact that you're injecting yourself with cancer, smell like an ashtray, and you spend more money on cigarettes than you do on almost anything else If you want to kick this very bad habit all you need to do is want it (ha ha, easy said, never smoked a cigarette in my life ). But seriously, if you've failed trying to quit cold turkey, friends of mine have recommended CigArrest. It's a collection of products that help you quit smoking (like tablets and gum) combined with a program guide. You get a 30 day supply with the CigArrest Welcome Kit for FREE. Try it
Enough this week to not have to work next week. He failed to see the way he was sabotaging himself, and his long term success. You see, for whatever reasons, people develop the habit of seeing makng money as, If I make XXX this week, I don ' t have to work hard next week. Which DOES work, but it ' s an endless cycle of work hard, relax, wok hard, relax. And if you want to stay in a limited financial bracket, and only make enough money to pay the bills and survive, or only have a temporary financial cushion to play with, then stay with it. The same applies to efforts you make with helping people. It can become a bad habit to think, Oh, I gave blood this week, so I've helped out enough. Whereas an Alpha decisson is more like, I gave blood this week and I'll gather up those clothes I don ' t wear anymore and donate them. Do you follow me so far
If a woman is strongly attracted to you from the start, you'll have more space for errors, but just don't flood her too many times. If she likes you a lot, you've got a buffer against mistakes, so use it to your advantage. This is where most of the good looking guys fall into bad habits that end up hurting them in the long run, and spoil their seduction abilities. They use up their goodwill making stupid blunder after blunder, and she forgives him a little bit because she's attracted at first on his looks. And sometimes they make it to bed with her in spite of themselves. After a while, though, the luck runs out.
You need to get positive male role models in your life right away. Once you rid yourself of the negative influences in your world, you need to replace them with strong, uplifting guys you can hang with. This is replacement of a bad habit with a new, better habit. If you don't select your friends, you'll end up in default with whoever comes along, and that's not acceptable or desirable if you want to climb the Alpha ladder.
The smple truth is, if your world is one of, I'm too uncomfortable embarrassed to be seen at a restaurant bar club, whatever, alone, ' then you are attaching your value, your self worth on OTHER people ' s opinion, or at the very least, your PERCEPTION of their opinion. Having perceptions of what negative views OTHER people might have about you, and feeling that embarrassment before it ' s actually happened, is a bad habit to continue, and will weaken your ability to unleash your natural Alpha. Besdes, any true Alpha is empowered by their own feelings, their own sense of self worth, not the feelings of what others might have about them. (Ill be detailing this more in the Rejection Does Not Exst chapter.)
One of the quickest and easiest tests you can use in your approaches with women is called the Name Test. What you do is, after you've found your teasing introduction and gotten her attention, ask her what her name is - but what you do not do is tell her your name. What you're looking for is her to ask you what your name is. This is a test for interest from her, and it will help you get right to the important question Is she really interested in you at all This will take some restraint on your part, because most guys tell her their name right away, as if they must exchange names to go any further. It's a bad habit, and I suggest you kick it. You're striving to make every interaction between you and a woman different than other guys, and different than she expects.
If you've done everything right up to this point, congratulations. You embodied a strong masculine presence, you were compelling, you were romantic, you were an all-around stud, and by golly you got the girl. Now I've got news for you the work has just begun. As the old samurai proverb goes After the victory is won, tighten your helmet. Right after you've done everything right is when you are most likely to falter. Don't let that happen. Remember that the man's job is to maintain the lead - always. Keep up the good work you've done up to this point and fulfill your promise by maintaining a strong masculine presence (with the internal frame, total self-acceptance and leadership), staying compelling and keeping up the romance. Getting the girl is not a license to backslide into the bad habits of yore. If you do, she will notice, and you will lose her.
Frandne is a nice person, and is very independant as well. This combination resulted in her having the mindset of I'll be quiet for now, because I don't want to give him the satisfaction of knowing he's getting to me. But I'm still going to dwell on it in my mind. Bad habit
Show clubs depend on the exceptional or unusual appearance of their dancers as the main attraction for upscale customers, so show clubs usually will not tolerate a dancer who lets her appearance slide either from weight gain, long nights, or bad habits. A show club dancer who drops from a 9 to an 8 will be talked to by club management, and a dancer who drops to a 7 will usually be let go.
You've got to learn how to defeat the bad habit of shifty eyes or you will never be able to light her fire. Shifty eyes convey distrustfulness to many women. It looks like you're being dishonest and trying to hide something. If you can't look into her eyes, simply stare at the bridge of her nose. It's impossible to tell the difference. This is the old shy salesman's trick. Might as well use it if it helps you make a great connection with a foxy chick
Who's so certain his view of things is correct that he's constantly telling people that they should do this and should do that. I know I said this already, but it's such a common faux pas I'm saying it again. It might be such a bad habit that you don't even realize you're doing it turning people off every day with amazing efficiency. Take some time to assess how you interact with your friends and family. Try to step outside yourself and objectively observe your behavior for any chronically obnoxious habits such as this. If you find any, put a sock in it.
Don't ever get drunk in public and never, ever, EVER use any drugs of any kind. Women see all of those things as, not only bad habits, but dangerous ones as well I'm going to tell you something, drinking might make you feel braver when you want to approach a woman but if you are drinking, or high on anything, she will know it immediately and she will RUN the other way if she has a brain in her head.
Discarding Negative Habits
I ought to change, but I've attempted and failed. Does this seem familiar? Frequently, altering habits does seem insurmountable. A lot of us merely don't have enough motivation to alter our habits all of our foul habits in a way that would really affect our life. We hold them tight as we view them as rewards. But your habits determine your life. Discarding Negative Habits Methods That Will Help You Deconstruct The Bad Habits Holding You Back.