Subcommunication

We have to not only pay attention to what we communicate, but just as importantly, how we communicate it. Most people don't understand how to communicate effectively and control what they're subcommunicat-ing to others. If you want to be successful with women, and with people in general, you must understand how people communicate. 8 of that communication is done with words. The rest is subcommunication nonverbal signals such as the speed, pitch and tonality of voice, subtle body language cues,...

Girls Around the World

Hile traveling around the planet teaching our workshops, we have learned quite a bit about how girls of different nationalities behave. At the core they are the same, but every culture, every country is a little bit different in nuance and inhibition levels. Be flexible and learn to adapt and take advantage of the situations that you encounter. Here are some of our observations on the best places to go Beautiful country with beautiful chicks. They are much more easy going and looser about sex...

What Women Really Want

So basically, society tells us that we should buy girls drinks and flowers, be polite, be ourselves, kiss ass and be an all around nice guy. But for some reason when we follow this advice, we get terrible results. Why Because for millions of years women were searching for protection, power and safety from their man. Over million of years, it became part of their genes that they need a real man These are innate survival instincts. In primitive times, females were attracted to strong guys with...

Negativity and Weakness

One of things that will destroy your game big time is a negative attitude towards yourself and towards women. This is something that you must really be careful about monitoring. People can smell negativity and weakness especially girls. If you approach thinking about how beautiful she is and that you don't deserve her or that all women are stupid bitches and she will probably reject you, no matter how much you try to hide it, it will be obvious. Small body language clues will reveal it and you...

Become the King of Your College

For you college guys, this is something that's been tested and proved as pure GOLD. This works only if you are going to a new college, where the majority of people don't already know one another. There's no need to have some crazy skills to do this, everybody can do it, and it's simple. It's basically a natural human process that you can use to improve your social life. When young people come to college, most of them don't know each other, so sooner or later they will need to make friends or...

Think For Yourself

The first thing you must learn to do is to think for yourself. Most of what society has taught you about how to meet and attract women is based on fairy tale ideas of what society thinks is politically correct. Reality tells a different story. Women are wired to find certain qualities attractive and screen for things that no one ever talks about. Here are three of the most common bullshit ideas we are taught Girls Like Nice Guys - Wrong. Girls HATE nice guys. A nice guy represents every...

Shit Tests

Hen you talk to a girl, you are going to communicate things to her and she will sometimes try to test you to see if you truly are who you say you are. Sometimes they will be difficult in how they do this. They are testing your frame. They are making sure that you are legit, that you are congruent and that you are not weak. Shit tests are often in reality, a form of IOI. Sometimes they will shit test you from the moment you approach. This is to weed out the weak guys who buckle under pressure....

Approach Anxiety Is a Myth

> > A pproach anxiety as it is called, is not really anxiety at all. It is an emotion that has been perverted by society bullshit. When you see a beautiful woman you feel something strong, right And the hotter she is, the stronger the emotion is. You want deeply from the core of your being to approach the woman to potentially mate with her. Do you think cavemen perceived this emotion as fear No, they interpreted it as desire and motivation. But today, because of the repressive nature of...

Left Brain Right Brain Thinking

The easiest way to understand male female interactions is to look at how we think. The human brain has two hemispheres the left hemisphere and the right hemisphere. On the surface they look the same, but they are highly specialized regions that serve very different functions. The left side mostly deals with speech, logic, math and reasoning. It's the logical side of the brain. The right side deals with abstract things like emotions, creativity, dreaming and imagination. It's the creative...

Body Language and Non Verbal Cues

So how do we subcommunicate the right things Through proper use of body language and non-verbal cues. As I mentioned, facial expressions, voice intonation, speed of speech, how you walk, the way you carry yourself through the world, making eye contact, how fast you move, and even our breathing communicate attributes to the people around you. Start watching people closely as you go about your daily life. At work, in the store, at the club just sit back and observe what people are doing with...

The Go First Principle

A really important and powerful principle in seduction that I love to use is the Go First Principle. It comes from the hypnosis field. Basically, it says that easiest way to push somebody into some specific emotional state is to go into that state yourself and then other person will pick up on it and unconsciously follow you. We see it all the time in daily life. When we hang around people we begin to share their emotions. That's why people like to be around fun lively people and stay away from...

Inner Game

Inner Game is based is rooted in your confidence, beliefs and your overall attitude about life. Whether you realize it or not, your attitude is constantly projected to the women you talk to. If you have a strong, assertive and positive attitude, women will naturally be attracted to you. That's how most naturals get laid. They develop these three aspects of their identity confidence, beliefs and attitude. When this happens, they begin to feel more confident and they start to behave like they're...

Keeping the Girl

When you become successful with women, there is going to come a time when a special girl comes along that you would like to keep. For many people, that's why they study seduction techniques not so that they can sleep with a new hottie every day, but so they will be able to conquer the girl that has something extraordinary about her. You should know, in as much detail as possible, what you are looking for in a girl they can sense when you just want to get laid. And that may be fine for a ONS but...