Become the King of Your College

For you college guys, this is something that's been tested and proved as pure GOLD. This works only if you are going to a new college, where the majority of people don't already know one another. There's no need to have some crazy skills to do this, everybody can do it, and it's simple. It's basically a natural human process that you can use to improve your social life.

When young people come to college, most of them don't know each other, so sooner or later they will need to make friends or join an already established group. Usually it takes a few weeks for those friendship circles to be formed. After a few weeks, you will see many circles with 5 to 10 members in each group.

Once they are formed, some of them will last until the very end of college days, until graduation. It's hard to manipulate already established groups. The only thing you can do in that case is to join the group, but then you cannot establish yourself as the leader, as you are a new member. The easiest way to join an already established group is to pick one person from group and create rapport with them. She or he will invite you to go and hang out with the rest of the group. Then slowly you can create rapport with all the other members and that way you will become an intrinsic part of that circle of friends.

But I must say that this is not the way I like to do it. My style is more creating a group and controlling it and that's what I want to teach you.

The first 7-10 days are particularly crucial. In those first few days social circles will be created. The goal is to create a social circle of 6-7 hot girls, make them friends, and establish yourself as a leader of the group. Can you imagine the respect and admiration you get going to a club with 10 hot girls? Basically, with this kind of social proof you can have any girl in the club.

Or have a house party and have them invite their other girlfriends. Soon you will find yourself living your life surrounded with hot girls. That's the lifestyle I am talking about. So let me teach you how to do it.

During the first and second day of college people will be extremely friendly, because they will be nervous and anxious in the new environment, the new context in their life. Some of them will look lost, like sheep that have wandered from the flock. They will feel lonely and they will have an incredible urge to meet new people and make friends in order to remove the unpleasant feeling of isolation and aloneness. You can use this knowledge to make a difference in your own life.

Don't be shy; be friendly and outgoing towards them, there is no pressure to seduce them or anything like that. You can go straight for rapport without concerning yourself with attraction. It's just about being friendly, cool and normal and getting to know the people that you will spend the next few years with. That said, don't be weird and don't talk about your obsessive computer gaming habit and addiction to internet porn. You still want to seem like a cool person

Naturally during these first few days there will be many events, introductory sessions, initial lectures and so on. Information is normally advertised clearly in the college so you should get there early and make sure you know what's going on. When you go to one of these events make sure you try to sit next to a hot girl that you want to befriend. Start a conversation, exchange some basic facts about yourselves. Where you're from, your hobbies, your family; get them into some kind of conversation. Tell her you are looking for cool people to hang out with and she fits the bill. Exchange numbers, hang-out with her after the class or lecture, go for coffee or a drink. Just be friendly and try to make new friends. Don't try to pick them up! Not yet, anyway... You can meet them in class, in the hallway, inside dorms. Wherever.

The next day or at the next class, do the same thing with a new hot girl. Sit down next to her in the class, talk for 20-30 minutes, build rapport, hang out with her afterwards, but this time invite the girl from before to join you. Or more of them if possible.

You will see as soon as you sit down with two girls that they will start to connect. They are extremely good at bonding and creating rapport with each other if they have a reason to. Especially hot girls, because they have so many things in common that no one else understands. So, all you need to do is isolate two or more girls somewhere and let them connect by themselves.

Don't hit on them or try to seduce them during the first few weeks. The social proof you create for yourself by hanging out with these girls will get you tons of other girls. This is all about creating a lifestyle that will perpetually bring you chicks by itself. If you decide you want to take advantage of some girl's loneliness in the new situation, then by all means find one and seduce her. But don't bring her into your group. Bringing a girl you've slept with into your social circle can be dangerous. The other girls will not help you find girls since you are "taken" or the girl you sleep with can spread rumors about you and destroy your reputation if you dump her. It's better to keep the two activities separate.

So over the course of 5-7 days, you can collect 6-10 girls into a social circle. Gather them together at regular intervals. Once they get together, and know each other (which should take one or two meetings) they will become good friends. They will exchange phone numbers, emails and keep in contact. You will see how they will later plan to study together, to exchange books, scripts and essays for class.

After 10 days, try to get them together from time to time to go out together partying. The more things you all do together, the better friends they will become. Try to create events that will bond them together even more. Naturally the more experiences the group has together, the more things they will have to talk about tomorrow and the more reason they will have to hang out the day after that. In this way it becomes self-perpetuating. Be the ring leader and arrange these things to do.

Start organizing house parties and let your new hot friends invite their girlfriends to the party. Because everyone likes you and because you are their LEADER, chicks that come from outside the group will have automatic ATTRACTION for you.

You can also take them to clubs. Have fun with them. Hug them and lead them around. Other chicks in the club will notice this and trust me, they will start hitting on you. Chicks always want to have what other girls have. You can easily get to the point where you don't need to pick up chicks at all, instead, they will be around you and you just need to choose which one you want. Maybe this all sounds a bit complicated at the moment, but it's much easier to set up than you might imagine.

It is sometimes hard to organize a group consisting solely of girls. Usually you will have one or two other guys inside, and that's just fine as long as you are the leader and you approve of them. When you go out those are the guys who will be buying drinks for the girls. Also they protect the girls from other drunken guys inside club that may hit on them. So basically, they can be useful.

So if you organize everything and make decisions for the group, you think for them. They will see you as the alpha male and they will naturally follow you.

Later on, if you want to, you can leave that social circle for another one. Usually from the circle a new person comes forward that will becomes its leader and starts deciding everything for the group. Then you can jump into and out of new groups to give yourself an even greater variety.

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