People's pupils grow with interest. They become larger when they see something they like, enjoy or are aroused by. When someone is aroused, their brain is being stimulated which then causes the pupil to open up, allowing more light to come in which in turn allows them to see better. Thus, a woman whose pupils become particularly large when looking specifically at you is probably aroused. This might explain why we seek dimly lit places for intimacy as it causes the eye to dilate further which also happens to look more attractive. This then furthers the sexual excitement.
The eyes also tell an intimate story when they flutter and make frequent eye contact. Interested women will gaze toward you every so often and give you about a four second scan. A woman might also gaze toward the mouth while in conversation with a man. Subconsciously, it is because she is thinking about a kiss. If however, her eyes move from you across the room, or worse, toward the door, you may have lost her interest. If her eyes drop to the floor then back up again to meet yours within a few seconds to a minute, then you still have a chance. Downcast eyes followed by additional signals such as preening is a good indicator too. If your eyes meet and she is interested she may deliver an eyebrow flash which consists of a sudden raise in her upper eyelids. The eyebrow flash is just that - a quick flash of the eyebrows just barely noticeable. Hollywood tends to overdramatize the eyebrow flash. It happens so quickly naturally however, that it is scarcely perceivable.
If you make eye contact with someone of the opposite sex, it is best to avoid averting eyes by shooting them off to the side. Instead, looking down is more submissive and hence more attractive to both sexes. A man should not be afraid either of holding a gaze a little longer than normal with a small even smile and allowing the woman to break the gaze by looking downward. Looking away may be construed as a threat and it may cause the other party to assume that you are "stealing" a look instead of being genuinely interested. This stealing of a look is fairly common for most men who are already in a relationship and are just checking women out. A steal is a sideways look absent of any head movement and it tells those receiving the smile that they don't want to be caught doing so. While playing these sorts of eye games, be sure to avoid staring for too long. Once eye contact is made, it is customary to glance away or down. Eye contact is generally avoided between strangers and it is therefore something that requires care to execute properly. Accompany your glance with a brief, moderate smile so as to show that you are welcoming of further communication.
When a woman converses with a man, her eyes will continually move around him. They will move from his face, to his eyes, to his mouth and then across the face again. Once flirting begins, the triangle the woman's eyes follow becomes even bigger. The transition from eye to eye becomes even more intense.
Women are not immune to looking elsewhere however, such as the crotch and buttocks. Interested woman will do this even more so. Women frequently establish eye contact with those they admire, but will pay particular attention to the man's mouth. We look at things we like and we look toward places we are interested in and are thinking about. If a woman is watching your mouth while you're talking to her, you can be pretty certain that she is thinking about kissing you.
Overall, it is normal for a woman to examine a man differently than how a man examines a woman. Women will spend the vast majority of time looking at a man's face, but will also look at his general build, clothing and accessories like watches, rings, and jewelry. This makes it important to maintain a kept appearance overall if you are to attract the entire imagination of a woman.
Another power signal is smiling eyes. This occurs when a woman smiles with her eyes alone and the mouth plays little or no part in the actual smile. It is just a tiny change in the tightness of muscles surrounding the eyes. As the eyes become more open, clearer and brighter, they become more seductive, all of which happens when women are aroused.
The simple catch of an eye can send the heart racing. Intuitively it is known that something has happened between two people. It is all about getting someone in the right frame of mind with the right facial expression. If you are really seeking to stun a woman then do whatever is necessary to catch her eye. The results can be very productive.
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