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Mark is showing a closed body position and this has forced Julie to become more aggressive toward him. She is trying to get more attention by touching his sides, probably trying to open up his posture. Her left foot is also pointed toward him meaning that her attention is all his.

This is showing poor body posture once again. Here Mark is leaning to one side by placing most of his weight on his right foot.

Mark is hiding his hands, which is never a great body position. He should have his hands to his sides and visible. In this position, he comes across as having something to hide._

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Lending a piece of clothing is a way for Dave to get close to Scarlett without actually touching her. It's also a great way to score a phone number since he'll need to be able to get it back from her at some point. Scarlett could also be testing Dave's chivalry and therefore his interest in her, as she might not be cold at all. Sharing clothing can be a very intimate thing to do.

Lending a piece of clothing is a way for Dave to get close to Scarlett without actually touching her. It's also a great way to score a phone number since he'll need to be able to get it back from her at some point. Scarlett could also be testing Dave's chivalry and therefore his interest in her, as she might not be cold at all. Sharing clothing can be a very intimate thing to do.

It's a losing battle, Dave! Dave would have a much better shot at regaining or simply gaining Scarlett's attention by standing up and circling to the front of her. He is showing that he is insecure by not leaving his post at the bar to make his approach. Even if he tapped her on the shoulder, I doubt he could secure her interest. No amount of "body groveling" will get her to move around and nobody responds well to a stiff jab in the back from a stranger, especially from a seemingly subordinate man.

Julie is taking control of the interaction by leaving. Mark is trying to regain her company. It looks like she has found someone more interesting to accompany her. By reaching for her in this way, Mark is lowering himself to her and will be forced to continue the chase indefinitely. He would be better off to approach her at a later time or wait for more signals of interest before continuing his pursuit.

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