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Grooming is a primitive signal of interest. Here, Scarlett picks some imaginary lint from Dave's shirt. Grooming could also take place by adjusting a shirt collar, fixing an out of place hair, or a multitude of other things. All are indicators of interest.

Scarlett is for the most part displaying interest in Dave despite having her legs crossed away from him. She is showing great eye contact with a slight smile and is playing with her hair which is a sign of arousal. Her left arm is closed off however, but this is overshadowed by the grooming she is doing to her hair in combination with her eye contact. Dave is showing a confident and relaxed posture. When he is finished with his drink, he would be best to place it on the bar top and use his hands to gesture while in conversation. He could also place his hand on his knee where it would be in plain sight or use it to further the attraction with subtle and fleeting touching.

Scarlett is for the most part displaying interest in Dave despite having her legs crossed away from him. She is showing great eye contact with a slight smile and is playing with her hair which is a sign of arousal. Her left arm is closed off however, but this is overshadowed by the grooming she is doing to her hair in combination with her eye contact. Dave is showing a confident and relaxed posture. When he is finished with his drink, he would be best to place it on the bar top and use his hands to gesture while in conversation. He could also place his hand on his knee where it would be in plain sight or use it to further the attraction with subtle and fleeting touching.

There is a mix of signals given off by Scarlett here. She is definitely comfortable, which is obvious because she is dangling one shoe from her foot. This shows that she is not in any rush or worry about making a quick exit. Her legs are crossed however, which is a closed body position that could show disinterest. She seems to be fairly slumped over and therefore disinterested, and is using her right arm to block herself off. Her left hand is playing with her upper chest, which combined with a blank stare on her face, is a signal of boredom. These cues could either be because she is not interested in Dave, the atmosphere, or is just having a bad day. Either way, Dave should do something to liven things u

Even though the distance between Dave and Scarlett is casual versus intimate, Scarlett is using positive body language to signal her interest. She is playing the tease by exposing her upper thigh by pulling up her skirt and is combining this with eye contact.

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