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Available women often carry themselves differently than those in committed relationships. For example, they often walk with exaggerated swinging of the hips, back arched, stomach flat, breasts protruding, and head held high. You might notice this more the next time you see it. Often it is quite obvious. Women signal this way so as to solicit men's invitations. This is normally perceived as the "sexy walk across the room." Women might do this with an accentuated roll of the hips drawing attention to the pelvic region. It could also be accompanied by a sideways glance and slightly parted wet lips which l . , if r\£ ■ f f-1

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This is full on mirroring and a very powerful positive signal. Notice that each body part reflects what the other person is doing. Dave might test her interest by changing his posture and then seeing if she adopts the same position. It may take a few seconds to occur, in which case it would constitute "echoing." If mirroring is not occurring naturally by the woman, a man could test a woman's interest by adopting a similar position as hers to see if it makes the woman uncomfortable. If she then quickly changes her position to become dissimilar again, then naturally, it would indicate disinterest. We like to seem as different as possible from those we don't like or agree with._

When a woman mirrors you, she will usually do so by only roughly adopting the same body position. When I say roughly, I mean that she will have some of the same characteristics of your posture but will throw in some of her own. If a woman is really interested she may fully mirror your posture.

Full synchrony can take anywhere from 15 minutes to over 3 hours. You might also notice that the echoes can occur up to a minute later. A woman who has echoed your posture will be comfortable in your presence and is also likely attracted to you. You can test how much she likes you by changing your body postures on purpose. The more she likes you, the more she will follow. On the other hand, you can mirror her postures having the effect of sending the message to her. If however, she quickly changes her body postures as you adopt hers, then she is telling you that she is not interested.

pressure can also become matched. But what is most visible is what occurs on the outside, and this is a mirror between arms, legs and torso placement. For example, say the left elbow of one person is on the bar. The mirror would then be completed when the other person places their right elbow on the bar. Torsos in this situation would both be at 45 degrees facing the room. The next step up from this could be a drink that occurs in unison or each having one foot up on the bar rail.

POINTING ISN'T RUDE

When a woman is attracted to you, she may unconsciously point at you with her fingers, eyes, hands, arms, legs, feet, and toes. Pointing toward what we want and are thinking about is a very prominent activity. Women can use their hands to emphasis a part of their body, draw attention to their face, genitals or breasts. Looking is another form of pointing, and since women are normally much less forward than men, keep a close watch on her eyes to find out what she is thinking about.

A caution is required at this point. Do not purposefully mirror everything a woman does. She will quickly turn off to you. The key is to quicken the mirroring that is already occurring and also add in some postures of your own.

While standing, the typical sequence of events occurs as follows: a woman will begin by standing or sitting at your side and will then gradually turn to face you. The more she faces you, the more interested she is. It might amaze you to see a couple that has been together for a long while as they may begin to move practically in synchrony, as if they were one person. They each drink at the same time or shift at the same time, or look away at the same time. Effectively this is a display that there is something in common between them and it is portrayed by the body instead of the mind.

Dancing is a great way to test a woman's interest. If she is interested in you she will begin to mirror or echo your body positions. Since dancing is so fluid, it provides a great opportunity to verify this. If she is disinterested, she will show poor eye contact, be looking away or at other people, and in essence, will be doing her own thing. Her dance moves will be independent of yours and won't occur in synchron

Dancing is a great way to test a woman's interest. If she is interested in you she will begin to mirror or echo your body positions. Since dancing is so fluid, it provides a great opportunity to verify this. If she is disinterested, she will show poor eye contact, be looking away or at other people, and in essence, will be doing her own thing. Her dance moves will be independent of yours and won't occur in synchron

It has been shown by researchers that long time friends can tune into even the smallest expressions, twitches or nods. It's not unlike what happens with twins, although they have a particularly strong bond. Because they have so much in common, they are able to read each other, and in effect, dance their way through life as if it was choreographed. When full synchrony occurs, metabolic rate and blood

Overall, any motion a woman makes toward a man, such as an extended hand or foot, can be taken in some small way to mean interest. Generally if a woman breaks the barrier that exists between the two of you she is most likely interested. The barrier between two people is defined as the halfway mark. If she is really shy she will only send her eyes with fleeting gazes though. The more extroverted she is, the more obvious she will be with her body language. Gesticulations (using hands in conversation) often increase as the interest of a woman increases as well and the hands will most prominently be moving toward you. Thus, you can expect an interested woman to move her arms more and quicker, as well as in your direction.

might also look at how far apart her legs are, as leg spread is also an indicator of interest. Another sign that she likes you and is comfortable around you is the dangling of a shoe on the toes. Want to test this out? Do something that will frighten her, like yell loudly at her or move toward her quickly. Then sit back and notice how quickly she puts her shoe back on!

While sitting, women often cross their legs to display them and to appear more ladylike. The higher she crosses her leg over her thigh, the stronger her interest. She might also add in extra signals such as smiling, playing with her hair or grooming you. Be sure to watch for the leg cross/re-cross. If she crosses and uncrosses her legs rather slowly she is adding more to her display. This is especially the case if she uncrosses and recrosses her legs more frequently in front of you. This has a strong effect because she is allowing the inside of her thigh to be exposed (Sharon Stone, anyone?).

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