Conversations with Strangers

Article 4 The best of Flowers started by yortex23

Okay, we all pretty much know that you never give flowers or chocolates to girls on first dates. But just in case you have any doubts, read this thread. Source Source Right 1 know this may sound a bit desperate or something but there is this girl 1 really like and 1 only met her once due to work, there is no way 1 can meet her again for work purposes, but she is really hot and 1 really like her and we had a good click when we talked. 1 also got to know she is single. 1 thought of sending her...

Article 1 The Mother of all Theory Posts by Vatican

One of the best posts I've ever read for seducing a chick. The entire seduction process is broken into a step-by-step framework to allow you to acquire your target Source All right, this is one long mother, but I've wanted to write it for quite some time. This is not a step-by-step guide it's more like a framework for getting women to sleep with you. On with the show. Now what the hell is that, you ask It's the chart of how to get a woman in bed. I'll explain in detail. Let's start at the top....

Article 5 Examples of cocky and funny by indy

Here is another powerful tool for you to add to your DJ arsenal. The cocky funny is approach is a proven effective method for increasing a chick's interest level in you. Well, here you'll find an excellent discussion on the subject, along with plenty of examples Cocky Funny Simple approach to dealing with girls, a term coined by David DeAngelo, a seller for the book he wrote entitled Double Your Dating - www.doubleyourdating.com - that discusses using C F as the main concept. Source Now we all...

Article 9 Seduction without Speed by Adonis

Speed Seduction, or SS, is an advanced collection of methods to quickly cause the woman to feel for you the things she wants to feel when in the presence of a real man. There are lots of resources on Speed Seduction both on SoSuave's Discussion Forum www.sosuave.net and on the site dedicated to the practice - www.fastseduction.com You're starting to date the girl, but you are not exactly sure how to operate. Do you show her that you're interested, and that you want her Or do you treat her like...

Another Pook classic You want to be a DJ then you must acquire the mentality of the DJ Become the Great Catch

Source Being a Don Juan is not a net sum of smooth manoeuvres and methods but of your own outlook on the world and on women. Anyone can memorise 'techniques', but few can change how they think. Women will be able to sniff out the former. But with the latter, women will be clawing each other for you. A Don Juan is a state of mind, not a list of methods and tricks. This must be stated because it brings us to the subject of 'desperation'. In the end, we are all desperate with desire. We wouldn't...

Article 12 womanese by Pook

Okay, now that we're starting to go out on dates, we're going to be running into plenty of womanese you know, that language that chicks use that makes absolutely no sense. Well, here's an easy to use dictionary. Source It's no surprise that woman speak in another language. They are subtle creatures, sneaky, devious, and say things in code. It's time for men to break the code of womanese For your reading pleasure, bold will be the woman. Normal text will be the explanation. Italics will be what...

The article below is very descriptive and explicit

Source Ever since the Sir_Chancealot's Definitive Neg-Hit postwas published, the public has been clamouring for Sir_Chancealot's Advanced Sexual Techniques. (Well, maybe I am exaggerating a LITTLE ) These posts will not be your usual how to manual. In other words, if you aren't already familiar with what goes where, this isn't going to do you any good. These posts are for those that want to take their sexual abilities to the next level. I will assume that you can CORRECTLY identify the signs of...

Reading Material

The Conversation,- Part, V (by Pjmpplpgist) All right, you've got the phone number, waited a few days, and you're ready to make the phone call. Now, what the heck do you do Just read this post Source The Conversation - Part V The Pre-Calling Procedure Before making the call, you must follow what is known as a pre-calling procedure . It not only will guide you through the timing of each call but will also point out ways to manage and prevent common problems...

A few quick tips on initiating and maintaining a conversation Geared more towards a girl you are interested in but can

Source Have a real curiosity to find out about the person in front of you, that's 1. The mind is full of thoughts and dreams, how can you not find things to talk about This perplexes me to no end when people say they can't think of things to talk about with chicks. The funniest part is to get into their little heads and open up all those closed drawers and just let the thoughts come tumbling out like so many clothes that she has not tried on in ages. Yes, they still fit & it feels good to get...

Heres a basic outline for approaching someone initiating conversation and establishing rapport

Source The Conversation - Part J The introduction The introduction of the conversation is very important in creating a good first impression opening up the conversation strong is key. Delivering an introduction breaks the ice and puts you into a position to start asking questions and increasing the rapport. I recommend using these 3 introductions approaches Her saying her name is your cue to extend your hand, once you make hand contact say It's nice to meet you my name is . If anything stands...

The second part from Pimpologist

Source The Conversation - Part II Creating Rapport This is when you start to run serious game on her. The easiest way to create rapport is to start asking about her background. It should be done in a stylish way that makes you seem similar to her. To make her as interested in you as possible you need to make things up when you need to this requires quick thinking, preparation, and good listening skills. I recommend starting your rap with this question Where are you from There are 3 possible...

Article 8 Kino makes all the difference by trickynick

Yup, kino DOES make all the difference. This one tool can easily separate you from success and falling into the LJBF zone. However, it is much simpler than some make it out to be. Take a look at this post for some quick ideas, and start using Kino are your dates. Source I have made what I consider to be a remarkable breakthrough in my development as a DJ. For the longest time I underestimated the importance of what we call kino. I made some attempts at it, but didn't make it much of a priority....

Music Picks

So Much to Say - Dave Matthews Band Fascinating New Things - Semisonic She Talk to Angels - Black Crowes What Would You Say - Dave Matthews Band Standing Outside the Fire - Garth Brooks Hey Baby - No Doubt I Believe In Miracles - Hot Chocolate Exercises All right, so you've read the posts above, and you know have an understanding of how to approach people and start a conversation. Now, it's time to do it Your mission is to go out and have short conversations (2 - 10 minute each in length) with...

Article iiThe best ofHowto hiss a girlfor the first time started by JCKey618

So you're wondering when is the best time to go for a kiss. Well, here some DJs share their experience with the rest of us. (A replacement thread posted by a highschooler to take the place of a nonexistent thread originally included by MotU, but I thought it was good. Most of you are older than this person, but the responses should mean something to all of you. Too many of you guys think you're older than this, but we all secretly know that being young and playful is the key to a woman's heart...

Article 5 The ultimate club guide by pootwo

This is the final article for the Boot Camp. It is a good description for what to do in a club environment. Source That's right The DJ's worst enemy The club. Many people have said that picking up women in a club is very difficult and that all your DJ skills count for nothing. But, whether you like it or not, we are the clubbing generation, and so, I think it's very important that handling a club environment should become part of your DJ skills. Just go with your best mates. Simple as that....

What can I say about this post that hasnt been said before Simply put its a work of art This is the post that probably

Source There is a prize to the person who correctly answers this question, What is a Man . When asked what they want in a guy, women say simply, a man But, alas Real men are becoming more and more sparse these days. Women are tired of the sensitive wimps who have no backbones. One woman even wrote a song about the subject, Where have all the cowboys gone So what is a Man How should he act Decades and centuries ago, the question was nonsense. But today in our feminised culture (this may be more...

The title says it all Heres a simple guide for approaching a girl Even includes an excellent tip for approaching a girl

Source In a society such as ours it's assumed that a man has to be the one to approach women. Unfortunately, even though there are more women in this planet than there are men, women always have more chance with a man than the other way around. It's to women's advantage because it was given to them by our society, they get to pick and we constantly line ourselves out in the firing range ready to get shot down. Those hapless guys are blessed with long lonely nights with nothing else to entertain...

DJ Boot Camp Procedures

During each of these eight weeks, a new lesson will be posted once each Saturday or Sunday, to it's own separate thread (the first one will be posted this weekend). The DJ boot camp originally took place on a forum. We recommend you start each lesson on a Thursday night and work until the following Thursday, then continue. The reason for starting on Thursday is so that you can gear yourself up for a Friday night if you wish, as well as the weekend. You would not immediately be forced into...

Stages of DJ development

As bad as you can get) BAFC (Below average. Normally, WBs become Bs before becoming even average) AFC (Average Frustrated Chump) RAFC (Recovering AFC, a person who realises he has a problem and is taking steps to remedy the situation) DJ (Person who can switch on his confidence and talk to girls in most contexts and gets what he wants as a man. MDJ (Master Don Juan. Someone who is really good at it.) Normally, this is a process that can take months or even years,...

The number one rule of a conversation is to talk about the other person the person youre talking to By doing this and

Source The story goes like this I went out tonight with a few of my female friends (it's great to have female friends, by the way) and they brought along a friend of theirs who I had only met one time before. I didn't have a great amount of interest in this girl, but I decided that she would be great for practicing my DJ skills on. I didn't realise how powerful this material can be. On the way back home, I started talking to her with the serious intent of refining my skills. As is advised on...

An excellent post on having a fun and interesting conversation with anyone a conversation that the person will really

Source Connecting Through Understanding and Relating - Part I Women want to know that you are both able to listen to and understand them. Asking follow up questions, questions that stem from their answers and the current subject of conversation, mostly demonstrates that you've been listening to them but does not show that you fully understand and relate to what they've said. A strong personal connection cannot be established by simply asking questions, you need to also utilise tactics that make...

Additiona readings

Go through the reading material from the second week, as they will apply to this lesson. Music Picks Tush - ZZTop Sharp Dressed Man - ZZTop Pretty Woman - Roy Orbison Girls, Girls, Girls - Motley Crue The Rock Show - Blink 182 Julianne - Ben Folds Five Hollywood Nights - Bob Seger You'll Accomp'ny Me - Bob Seger Bad Medicine - Bon Jovi TNT - AC DC Same Ol' Situation - Motley Crue Exercises While last week we went out and spoke with ten strangers, male or female, young or old, this time our...

Heres the stepbystep procedure for getting a girls phone number Basically always assume that the girl will go out with

Source Alright DJs, Master DJs, and DJs in training Today I'm going to share with you the most successful and effective method I've found for closing the sale and getting that gorgeous girl to go out with you. What I'm going to share with you is the How To, not just the philosophy behind it. I kid you not, what I'm going to share with you is so powerful, that it has only failed me twice in the last 6 years First though, here is the true story in how I discovered this secret All of my life, I...

Article 3 It hasnt been t hat bad by Big Bill

Take a look at how this guy started from nothing, to slowly building himself up, to the point where he got six phone numbers in one class setting (Make sure you read through this guy's second posting on the thread) Source No guys this isn't another 'Look at me, I'm so hot I bag all kinds of ass why are you all such pussies' post. I think there are already more of those here than needed but that's just me. I'm more like most of you reading the tips section. I'm just taking my first steps into...