If you are going to start with talking to Russian women via Internet, don't just jump in and send letters to every pretty face.
This will definitely fail and you may decide the whole idea does not work for you. The idea is flawless and it will work for anyone.
The key to success is to do the right thing.
You need to be prepared and do exactly what will score you with women and avoid doing wrong things.
It is easier to say than to do - but hang on; I am here to help you out!
Of course I won't be able to tell you every little thing here; it is beyond the scope of this book; but I will tell you the most important things.
(If you want a more detailed tutorial on writing letters, you will find it in my book "How To Find And Marry A Girl Like Me")
First thing is to prepare your own information. You will need to do it before you send your first "Hello", as it takes time and you don't want to look sloppy - you might never get the second chance.
This is where you must ensure none of "mail order bride" nonsense blurs your vision.
Yes, these beautiful women that you see on Russian dating sites, they are real and available and they are indeed seeking western men for partners.
You can contact them, and if you say and do the right things, you can marry one of them.
BUT. If you contact them and say and do wrong things, they will reject you because they are NOT desperate and NOT just looking for a way out of Russia.
They are looking for love, respect, security, and most of all, their Destiny and Husband. They are looking for a Gentleman.
If you are arrogant and think you can buy yourself a wife, and that you are doing her a favor by writing to her, you will only attract gold diggers: honest women will avoid you. If you treat them like trash, you will attract only trash.
This is why the way you present your information is so important.
Think about this process as finding a good job: you need to prepare a quality CV, do your homework and find out about the company you are applying to, adapt your CV to the needs of this company and position you are applying for, and present yourself well at the interview. If you skip or fail one of those steps, you are out. So do everything to the best of your ability. For finding a wife will have a much bigger impact on your life than finding a job.
I have seen men sending letters such as "Hi, I am Jim, you've got lovely legs!
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