Pay attention to the small clues that tell you what sort of mood she is in, what kind of a day she has had, how she is feeling. This is all valuable information that gives you vital clues as to how to safely approach her.
If you can get good quality rapport with her even before you open your mouth, you will be in control of the situation.
You can rapport (read 'tune into') a woman:
- physically (by subtly mirroring posture, movements, facial expression, breathing)
- tonally (by subtly adjusting your voice)
- linguistically (by adjusting your vocabulary)
All of which, if done well, lead to emotional rapport - which gives her the feeling that you understand her.
In my book, I give you the equivalent of a big chunk of expensive NLP training on this subject - at no extra cost!
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