Tip 12 Do not try to be a bad boy if you are not
Let me explain.
Everyone has heard the saying "nice guys finish last".
To a point I agree wholeheartedly with this.
There are all types of people out there and not everyone wants a "bad boy". I have read many books on dating and seduction and how to get the girls. The ones that really make me laugh are the ones that try and teach "Naughty Boy 101".
Lets face it, if you are not naughty by nature then the chances of you becoming that way from reading a book are slim.
In the defense of those books I will say that the majority of women do seem to enjoy a man with a little naughty streak in them. They do not want a man to coddle over them every waking hour and they do like their space.
The worst thing that a man can do is to try and act "bad" if by nature he isn't. It shows very quickly and they generally make large fools of themselves.
If you want to promote a different you, then you need to change for real, in many different aspects of your life.
What happens if you pull off a night of bad boy, get the girl and take her home, then the next day you are a complete opposite person?
All I can say is that if you are just out for a one nighter then ok. If you are after something more lasting just be yourself and find the one that finds the real you attractive.
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