Dating Tactics

Approaching and making them interested

Where to meet girls - the most popular places for a pick-up. If she seems unapproachable - then maybe everyone thinks so and she's all alone. General guidelines on approaching - a few pointers and examples to get you started. Demonstrate value and personality - the basic premise of seduction. The importance of a first impression - or relative unimportance, depending on whether you're an AFC or a PUA ) Pace and lead - and demonstrate understanding to increase rapport. Simple approaches -...

Speed Seduction Article from Playboy July

The paradigm shift the journalist experiences is a good indicator of what to expect should you consider trying out for the first time either patterning or any other seduction technique described in this guide The article is also good example of how starting with patterns right at the outset is a doomed approach, they just sound too lame and embarrassing. But the one time the journalist does it right, starts with some fluff talk, has the actually we know each other attitude, comments on...

Understanding 4 Feelings Before Words

So many students have told me Ross, the patterns seem so foreign to me. They just don't seem like they are me. What's usually going on for these beginners is that the patterns are descriptions of experiences they themselves have never imagined or had. So naturally, they just seem like they are reciting empty words with NO meaning. These poor guys are so focused on memorizing the words, they haven't put any focus into getting some of the feelings. You see, if you have never had a peak experience...

Rolling Stone article about Speed Seduction

By Eric Hedegaad in the 3 5 98 Rolling Stone .Meanwhile, a few blocks away, on University Avenue, a group of guys spread themselves out and slipped into coffee bars, restaurants, bookstores, furniture shops and fancy fragrance emporiums. They called one another brother and went by names like Brother Kamal, Brother ESR, Brother Orion, Brother Vijay and Brother 007. They were laughing, whispering and taking long, appraising looks at all the pretty young Stanford girls. Around midnight, Brother...

Sales techniques applied to seduction And vice versa Jake Thomson ASF

At one point in my life I worked in sales, and yes, I used the principles discussed in speed seduction to make sales. It works quite nicely as it's simply basic persuasion. This is the process for making ecological sales and or seductions. 1. Qualify your prospect. Are they good enough for your product IOW, do they have the means and the ability to pay for it Are they the decision maker If yes, proceed. Else, eject and find another prospect. 2. Further qualify your prospect. Take the time to...

Pace and lead

An example of verbal pacing and demonstrating understanding to increase rapport (see Mirroring for an explanation and examples of physical pacing). Speed Seduction newsletter, Ross Jeffries VERBALLY PACE THE ONGOING SITUATION - I cannot emphasize enough the power of this VERY important rule. Basically, what it means is to verbally describe and therefore ACKNOWLEDGE the situation and reality that she finds herself in with you. Let's say you're a lucky s.o.b., and, like me, you live right by a...

Understanding 8 Do NOT Lust For Results

Speed Seduction is not just about how you speak it is a different way of perceiving the world. As such, it takes time to approach mastery. That means the key is to immerse yourself in these learnings. Practice all the time, every day, on as many people as you can. If you reserve your practice ONLY for beautiful women, you make beautiful women the cause of your skill, and THAT is a fatal error No, I'm not suggestion you get some disgusting ugly monster hot and horny. I am suggesting that using...

Micellaneous

Fun and games - you'll love these The kissing bet, Osama, A-Hole truth or dare. Bad jokes - careful Pants in the air, Telepathic watch, Spermogram, Doctor's appointment, Voodoo dildo etc. A game of Crash and Burn - guess it depends on your definition of fun But a great experience and confidence builder. More things to do for fun - useless, but fun Top colognes - for getting the girls, of course. Miscellaneous suggestions and observations about seduction - a recap. Articles The Iranian from hell...

Jargons rules ASF

Don't waste your time. Use it effectively. (3 of 5) 8 3 2002 9 31 15 PM - Go play. Get girls into bed. That is *IT*. That's the goal. - Everything is an opportunity. - There is no failure. You either learn or you succeed. - It's up to you to approach. Don't wait longer that 3 seconds. - Learn how to hold a conversation. Engage your listeners. Listen well when others speak. - Avoid typical pick-up spots. Women are on guard. - Be conversational and friendly in your...

Field reports

The rich and famous setup - but even more accurately the tired of female attention setup ) The effectiveness of persistence with a smile - true seduction (choose and seduce ), not a numbers game or easy girls. Svengali's street pick-up - a classic street pick-up using humour, romance, sex-talk and kino with confidence. Svengali's friend's street pick-up - a neg of sorts gets the ball rolling ) The original Mr Smooth posts - Maniac High describes the technique of a Japanese PUA. NightShadow's...

Cook for her and date at home

Back to the Table of Contents (Adapted from Don Diebel) I have heard over and over again from women how their ideal date involves the man cooking them dinner. The best places to pick up women are those where they go to eat. Women are truly slaves to the sensuality of food. If you make a dinner, you are providing them with sensual pleasure that they will associate with you. Moreover, there is an air of competence and self-assurance that this automatically gives a man in their eyes. Women LOVE...

Voodoo dildo

(Here's a great joke to tell a woman you ALREADY have good rapport with or already know well. Notice how it uses embedded commands to get her all hot and horny) This guy is leaving town on business for a week and he's starting to get a little worried. You see, his wife is a nymphomaniac, and he knows that as soon as he leaves, she'll start to GET VERY HORNY and think to herself, YOU'VE GOT TO GET SOME . So he goes to the adult toy shop to check out what they've got. And he notices there's an...

Neghits explained

Back to the Table of Contents Mystery, ASF (adapted) A 10 is there surrounded by friends. She has put on this BITCH act. Is she REALLY a bitch Unlikely. All my girlfriends were wonderful human beings - beautiful people have it easier because they are beautiful and often times have better upbringings because of it. BUT - they need to have a standard with which to uphold when all these NOBODY guys approach her. So her values are very honed and understood. When a man walks up and says, can I buy...

Use sexual stories to get her horny

Use personal experience or fantasy stories to get her horny. ASF Never use stories DIRECTLY INVOLVING the girl you're with. QUOTE about what you did to other chicks or what you want to do to other chicks or ask her about what she has done or would like to do with other guys. You can use this even in every-day discussions by elaborating at the right time and in the right direction ) A variation get her in a private place, and feed her with fantasies, increasingly sexual, in a hypnotic way, until...

Reading the lines in general

Whenever you look at the lines in the palm the quality of the line tells you very much about the person. Check to see if the lines 1 of 3 8 3 2002 9 33 20 PM are clear, deep and unbroken which means the line has good quality. If the lines are criss-crossed, chained, broken, has islands or is faintly traced it is considered to have poor quality. A poor quality line tells you that the person lacks good flow of well-being in the area that is weakened. It can represent a period of time in life when...

Kinaesthetics aka kino have kino with your female friendsacquaintances

Psychological studies show that casual touching during a friendly conversation causes people to remember the conversation more fondly after the fact. The combination of kino with social proof is dynamite. Touch one girl and the other girls seeing this think its normal or even good to be touchy-feely with you ). Now you can quite naturally move on to touching those other girls and so forth ). ASF It's quite simple - hug them, touch their hand sporadically and in A NON THREATENING WAY, that is,...

Eliciting values introducing the questions

Back to the Table of Contents Partial Estonian translation In order to accomplish eliciting values properly, you need her to provide you with her core values and in order for her to be able to do that, you need to ask the right questions. For example, you could start with I think its an absolutely fantastic feeling to get to know another human being. And what's really stimulating, is to learn what someone else thinks of major issues revolving around us in this world. and discovering what's...

Bullshit fantasies

So dream with them ) First - they'll identify with you more strongly (wow, a guy that likes to dream as well ). But more importantly - dream a dream that is to her liking, and that liking will quickly translate into liking YOU ) Apart from being an application of time distortion to make her feel like she's known you for a long time, bullshit fantasies is also a powerful rapport and intense emotions creater, with all of those feelings quite naturally being linked to you. As...

Good traits to havedevelop to be a successful player

According to some PUAs, women obviously want a man with these most important traits o ability to create an emotional connection a feeling of romance In addition to that, being a successful player includes o being comfortable just going up and talking to a new woman o finding opportunities in situations where you before did not believe there would be o being sensitive to how she feels responds and modifying your approach accordingly o knowing how to talk to a woman to build more rapport with her...

Women want good sex and romance

Don Diebel Women don't want just sex - they want good sex and romance. Women's desires are much greater than most men realise. But, unlike men, who are mostly just after sex, women are looking for great sexual experiences. Women are very discriminating and choosy in picking sexual partners. They are only interested in having a sexual encounter with a partner that sexually arouses them and or promises, by his manner or image or personality, to be good in bed. Women want exciting, provocative,...

Alienating the boyfriend in her mind

Taken from Sweep women off their feet We all know that not one person in this world is perfect. If you begin talking about relationships, feel free to discuss the little things that bother people in a relationship in general and later get her to give you examples of some of the things that bug her about her boyfriend or husband. At first she may not say much, but if she can relate to the day to day problems in a relationship that you describe in general the more likely it is for her to agree...

Passion to Passion pattern

This pattern will actually be constructed by her. All you have to do is to carry her description of a passion for something over to a passion for someone (and not forgetting to self-point while doing that ) and ask her, how would that feel. It works well because you'll be seducing her from her own side of the fence, using feelings that she already feels about something she's passionate about, as opposed to trying to install feelings from the outside. I have field tested this and have come to...

Blow Job pattern

Back to the Table of Contents Pattern I Kevin Kupal, mindlist Basically, it's a 3-step procedure. 1. Ask her about anything she really really loves to eat 2. Describe the sensation of eating that food and amplify with gustatory gusto 3. Link it to your dick using a dick point . Me Hey Alicia. What do you love to eat Something that really makes you salivate just by thinking of it Alicia Oh I love fresh ripe mangoes from Hawaii strawberries from Ohio oh yes Me Ripe mangoes huh Mmmm that's yummy....

Mr Smooth technique

Back to the Table of Contents Estonian translation This description is fitted for use with a wingman. General rules o Wherever you are, don't wait for more then three seconds to begin. o All the time have a game-show host mentality - act jolly, happy, goofy, take it easy, be very open about what you are doing and very open about each consecutive action you have in mind, for every little success (holding hand, hand around her waist, a kiss) show explicit joy and do a high 5 with your wingman. o...

An exercise of removing doubts and hesitation via the use of submodalities

Ross Jeffries So here's the exercise that we're going to do. Close your eyes, this means eyes close. Close your eyes. What I want you to do is, I want you to think about something that you use to want to be when you were a little kid. But then as you grew up you just forgot all about it. So think of that thing that you used to want to be when you were a little kid and then maybe you just forgot all about it. If some of you haven't done that, then think of something you use to do when you were a...

Patterning over the phone

Ross Jeffries The phone is an incredible way to do patterns because women feel they aren't being observed and therefore can be a lot stronger in their responses. The consensus of using the phone as a seduction device is divided. Most agree, that if you lack any patterning skills, the phone is the kiss of death. Agree on a meeting, agree on her enthusiastic greeting of you once the two of you meet (see Closing ), if she seems to want to have a chit-chat with you, talk to her a little using a...

The Orgasmotron planting a posthypnotic suggestion

Here's an interesting piece for your enjoyment - planting a post-hypnotic suggeston to orgasm Well, sounds pretty unbelieveable, but then again, I've never tried it myself, so what do I know. Still, I would rather categorize this as interesting as opposed to useful for unless it is someone really-really special, I can't imagine taking the time to go through with the hassle of hypnotizing someone over the internet and even if I pull it off successfully, I can't help but wonder - now did I seduce...

Attract girls by being busy

Let the girls know that you are a busy and important person. Don Diebel o When a girl asks you what you did yesterday, never say, Oh, I just sat around and was bored. Better to say, I was up early to run errands and take care of business, then played tennis, met a friend for lunch, and worked in the afternoon. Lie if you have to. And don't worry, you'll get used to it ) o If a girl calls and asks what you are doing, reply with, I just walked in the door or I'm just on my way out to take care of...

Proceeding instead of closing

A very viable alternative to closing is simply proceeding. If both you and her seem to have some time to spare and things are going well, why would you literally want to close a wonderful thing To leave her wanting for more To work some more magic over the phone and build up anticipation, incredible connection and attraction Sure, but none of this compares to being able to make things happen right now. And if there seem to be no unsurmountable obstacles, then that is exactly what you should be...

General rules

The 3 seconds rule - the most important rule you'll ever learn, say bye-bye to hesitation. Look and feel your best - all the time Be the Alpha Dominant male - be in charge of your surroundings. Including the girls ) Do my looks matter - yes they do, but not nearly as much as you think. Nice guys vs jerks - the key difference between the two explained. Good traits to have - or develop, to be a successful player. It all comes down to satisfaction - read why you actually have the upper hand with...

The questions game

I bet you always have a lot of interesting questions you'd like to ask a lady when you first meet her. Like What was your first kiss like , When did you have sex for the first time , How did you have your first orgasm , What makes you horny , Have you ever been caught masturbating etc, you get the idea (see Eliciting values - the questions for a list of some slightly more normal questions to ask). But you can't just go ahead and ask them - you'll come off as a complete insensitive jerk if you...

David Shades reallife seduction

You have not heard from me in over 2 months. I have been very busy with my new found confidence to approach any woman anywhere with openers that actually work, since finishing Ross' basic home study course. I have also been spending most of my online time reading the SS list. There are some fantastic success stories there, especially from guys like Bishop. I have learned almost as much from the SS list as from the course. Here is my report for last week. As you will...

The pivot theory

Pivot a chick that you take to a bar to in order to pick up other chicks. Use chicks who won't lay you but still want to see you, for this purpose. Basically, this works most chicks will find you more attractive and jealous when you are already with a chick than when are not. -- Maniac High > Hey, NYC, I was just wondering - how often when you spin this line do > you suddenly get the chick changing her mind and deciding to get happy > with you it's not to the point of sex thought it's...

Boyfriendsmashing techniques

Back to the Table of Contents by NYC Whether she has a boyfriend or not is IRRELEVANT UNTIL you decide you are going to fuck her. Then you either need to bring him up and press her for the information where her relationship is lacking OR make her recall her boyfriend and how good he makes her feel and usurp the feelings for yourself. If she injects the boyfriend into the conversation unsolicited, a simple diversion to whether or not she plans to marry him might be in order. I always use it if I...

GM style explained

Contributed to ASF by Nathan Szilard, this is the description of the technique used by a PUA acquaintance of his nick-named Grand Master Flash's. Hence the name GM technique. The key here is smutty sex jokes and continuous humorous sex-talk with keen attention to how the girl reacts, so as to forestall any negative reactions (and you can be sure, there will be plenty in the beginning ) by saying just kidding , giving an apologetic hug to the girl etc. The reasoning here is this, that if the...

Nice guys vs jerks

The debate of nice guys vs jerks is one of the oldest of relationships and seduction issues. The essence of being a nice guy however is widely misunderstood. It is believed, that being polite, considerate, friendly, tender, romantic etc is what being a nice guy is all about and thus should be avoided, as it is the jerk, the rude, the inconsiderate, he impolite, the rough guy who always gets to shag the girl while the nice guy is waiting outside in the pouring rain with flowers in his hand and...

Eliciting values the answers

NYC, ASF Do all this asking questions, eliciting values BEFORE telling her about yourself. Then selectively edit or FABRICATE your existence to always fit the things that she told you HERSELF are positive things and AVOID what she told you HERSELF are negative things. Some chicks like aggressive men and some like passive men that they can cuddle with and EVENTUALLY have sex with. Find out FIRST which one she wants and THEN project that image to her. What happens is that she notices that you are...

Night Shadows IRC seduction

A log of NightShadow's IRC seduction, or rather a seduction attempt - the girl responds fairly well but nothing overwhelming. The image of placing all the good feelings he has made her feel on her palm and eventually linking them to him is pretty good though. Have you ever been in love before (Lannetta) yes i was married You remember the feeling of love (Lannetta) vagely (Lannetta) i am not sure if it was love oh, so you know about that ultimate connection two people can make You get that...

Eye contact experiment

Back to the Table of Contents by David Shade I asked one woman friend of mine why did you go out with him and she replied because when I looked at him he kept eye contact with me. When I recall the very successful people I have had the pleasure of working for in the corporate world, I remember that they all maintained eye contact while speaking to me. When you watch somebody successful being interviewed on TV, like Scott McNealy of Sun, you notice that they never look away from their...

If she compliments you

Back to the Table of Contents Estonian translation Don't be an ignorant bum, thank her How nice of you to say that, you are a very sweet person ). Makes her feel good to have complimented you ) Don't start playing modest and fending it off oh no, I'm not, no-no-no. But neither should you ungratefully and self-servingly declare That's right, you noticed, finally, good . No. Just make her feel good having complimented you ) See David Shade's online seduction for an example of putting it to good...