Approaching and making them interested
Where to meet girls - the most popular places for a pick-up.
If she seems unapproachable - then maybe everyone thinks so... and she's all alone. General guidelines on approaching - a few pointers and examples to get you started. Demonstrate value and personality - the basic premise of seduction.
The importance of a first impression - or relative unimportance, depending on whether you're an AFC or a PUA:) Pace and lead - and demonstrate understanding to increase rapport.
Simple approaches - examples of various conversational approaches.
The cold approach - not a good approach, unless you combine this with the GM style.
The collision approach - either let her walk by... or "bump" into her:)
The available chair approach - that empty chair next to a HB looks inviting...:)
The crappy sketch-artist approach - because women like artists right?:)
The dramatic approach - catch everyone's attention... including her's:)
The cellular approach - to choose any topic of discussion.
The familiar approach - act like you already know her, or fool her into thinking she knows you:) Pez opener - a really "sweet" opener by Mystery:)
You look stunning approach - Ross Jeffries' classic, careful though, not intended for use with the 9s and 10s:) Pacing the ongoing reality - a simple way to get instant rapport. Should I buy her a drink? - read why you'd better avoid it.
Should I ask for her name? - so that you'd know what name to yell when you're sleeping with your hand?:)
Leech off someone else's crash and burn - anything is fair in love and war:)
If she is working - a waitress, a nurse, a girl at the cashier - this one is universal.
If you just have to use a pick-up line - they suck, unless you show you know they suck.
"I like..." game as an opener - you can use this one anywhere.
Mr Smooth technique - the game-show host style technique of a Japanese PUA explained step by step. The questions game - a shortcut to sex-talk and kissing.
Gimmicks - palm-reading
Use a gimmick to get going - handwriting analysis, tarot cards, palmistry - "crap" you say?:) Palm-reading - why should you use it? -
Reading the lines in general - a do-it-yourself guide to becoming a gypsy:) Reading the line of Fate - yes please:)
Reading her love-life - uuuhh... sounds interesting:)
Reading the line of Heart - good, good:)
Reading the mount of Venus - oh no... where is that?!:)
A sample reading routine - a few examples to give you the general idea.
Night-clubs and dancing
Night-clubs vs other places to meet girls - a few words of warning.
How to switch to the right mindset - set yourself apart from "death row".
Asking for a dance - just honour the traditions. If you want to get nowhere:).
About dancing - unless you have the skills of a back-up dancer, don't waste your energy.
Slow dancing - an exception to the "don't waste your energy rule" above:)
Fast dance to slow dance - a superiour technique of transitioning to a slow-dance no matter the music:) After the dance - now that you've got her, don't let her slip away.
If she is with a friend - or even worse, a group of friends? How do you approach? Approaching a group of many girls - a simpler strategy for approaching groups. How to have her leave the group - a passive strategy... but still pretty good:)
Eliciting values explained - become the man of her dreams, just by talking to her:) Trance words explained - say it in her own words (also relates to Patterning). Calibrate the girl - and you can read her like an open book.
Eliciting values - introducing the questions - how to ask the questions without sounding obtrusive. Eliciting values - the questions - so what questions should you ask?
Eliciting values - the answers - now that you know her values, it is time to talk about "yourself":) The perfect relationship - a simple value-eliciting scheme.
GM style explained - I bet you won't believe that this actually works:) Well, it does:) GM style lines - completely outrageous!:)
GM style expansion pack - a continuation of the GM style, links to appropriate articles. Sexual talk
Talking about sex - a few words of warning.
Use sexual stories to get her horny - can you get away with it? Or, can she get away... without a wet spot in her pants:) The Ideal Guy routine - no matter her interest for you, use this to get her horny (and be around when that happens:).
Patterning explained - the essence of Ross Jeffries' Speed Seduction. Delivering patterns - general rules - the most important aspects. Delivering patterns - tonality - the right way to do it.
Additional patterning skills
Trance words explained - say it in her own words (also relates to Eliciting values). Anchoring explained - the Pavlov's reflex of seduction:)
Quoting and stacking realities - you can get away with anything using this (also relates to "Sexual talk":)
Time distortion - how to make a girl you just met feel like you've been friends forever:)
Bullshit fantasies - a powerful application of time distortion (relates to Time distortion).
Thought binding - an excellent article by Ross Jeffries.
Submodalities - an explanation plus an excercise in removing hesitation.
Read romance novels to enrich your patterning language - the cause justifies the means:)
Common misconceptions and problems with patterning - and how to overcome them.
Introducing patterns into a discussion - without sounding unnatural. Also how to approach.
Discovery Channel pattern - "the ride goes up and down and once you get off, you want to come again and again":)
Stone Necklace pattern - tell her a breathless/speechless-making story:)
The Trust pattern - alleviate her most common fears.
The Rose patterns - and she'll be obsessed with you:) 3 patterns.
Believing the Supernatural patterns - "destinies", "higher beings", "chi energies"; feed her with her favourite food:)
Passion to Passion pattern - shift her passion from "something" to "someone".
Mental Screen pattern - "close eyes, imagine great feelings, open eyes, see... me?:)"
Peak Experience pattern - exchange peak experiences with her.
Natural Woman pattern - show her you know the secret and natural side of her.
Meeting the Perfect Man pattern - and she'll feel what its like... in your presence:)
Feeling Drawn patterns - descriptions of initial attraction plus examples of using vague language. 4 patterns.
Incredible Connection patterns - the classic and its various derivatives. 12 patterns.
Falling in Love patterns - make her feel the feeling of falling in love:) 7 patterns.
The Dream pattern - help a girl have dreams about you.
Being Similar pattern - and she'll feel what you feel (a growing boner?:).
"Too bad we don't... but if we could..." pattern - you can describe almost any state you want to her with this one:)
Find Your Desire pattern - and turn good girls into "naughty":).
Sex is Natural pattern - you're adults, you can talk intelligently about sex... right:)?
"The more... the more.." pattern - a simple yet powerful application of thought binding.
Reading the Poem pattern - transition from patterning to reciting poetry.
The Eyes patterns - what better topic to talk about than her eyes. 2 patterns.
I Want You pattern - transition from patterning to kissing:)
At Least We Can Be Friends pattern - LJBF her into tearing your clothes off on the spot:) Indifference to Attraction patterns - convert her from friend to lover:) 3 patterns. Find That Girl pattern - reinstate her faith in men.
Blow Job patterns - these are supposed to make her want to... well, you figure it out:) 2 patterns. Backdoor Pleasure patterns - the funniest patterns ever:) Read and you'll know why:) 3 patterns. The Void pattern - the contrast of feeling empty versus feeling happy and fulfilled.. The Door pattern - a pattern so evil, that even Ross Jeffries has denounced this one. Presuppositions and other "mind-tricks" - don't leave her any choice:)
Become your own "friend" - to put in a good word with her:) Patterning over the phone - sounds lucrative... but is it worth it? Nick-name tease - isn't a woman's curiosity a wonderful thing:)?
Continue reading here: Now that shes interested
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