You: "Why don't we continue this somewhere else and see how much we can enjoy each other's company?"
In response she might offer a change of venue (if she mumbles "your place or mine?", then boy! either she's real easy or you're real good:), but more probably she's gonna offer a phone number so the two of you can set up a meeting later over the phone. Notice, that you didn't ASK for her phone number, it was her idea to give it to you, thus framing you in her mind very differently from when you would have asked for the number. The first instance creates in her mind a picture of "I gave him my number... which must mean I like him" while the second creates an opposite picture of "He asked for my number.. which must mean he likes me. yawn, yeah he's nice, next!":)
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