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You: "You must get awfully tired by the end of the night," Her: (nodding)

You: "Do you ever get a chance to go on vacation?" Her: (something)

You: "If you were to take a real vacation in your ideal spot, what would it be like?"

Her: (describing her ideal vacation spot) (Play along with her fantasy, offer her some more descriptions in the same line. If she asks you the same, answer with "Before I answer that,")

You: "Let me ask you something else. You know that feeling you have when you get home after a hard day of work and all you can think about is stripping off your clothes and sliding into a hot bath or taking a shower? Which do you prefer? A Bath or a shower?"

Her: "Bath"

You: "You know how sometimes, before you even get in, you imagine the heat just working its way through every part of your body and then you actually slide in, and that warmth just takes you and you surrender to it? (have something is store for a shower as well:)"

Her: (something)

You: "What's your name?"

Her: "Myname"

You: "Well, Myname, it's really been fun talking to you. It's too bad that we won't get the chance to do it again without all these distractions and interruptions."

Her: (If she doesn't catch the hint, then before you leave.)

You: "You know, I meant what I said about it being fun talking to you. Maybe we could meet for coffee sometime. Like tomorrow?"

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If she says "Why do you ask?"

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If she says "Why do you ask?"

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Asking all those questions needed to evoke emotions and elicit values can sometimes result in her asking you a "Why do you ask?" in return. Be prepared to answer her honestly. Not that you are trying to seduce her using patterns and NLP etc, dumbass:)! Because what you are "really" doing, is trying to get to know to her better or rather, give her a chance to show you whether she is the kind of person you should get to know better. And the questions are there only to help and guide her along the way. En example of a conversation preceding that nevertheless ominous question (ASF):

You: .. .remember the things you wanted to say to that person, and the daydreams and thoughts that kept coming in and out of your head about the two of you? Privately, deep inside you - do you remember how you felt?

Her: Why do you ask?

You: Well. as we are sitting here talking. over coffee. I thought it would be nice ... to get to know you. as a person. I remember one girl (doesn't matter if you do or not:). I was in college. it was like there was an almost magical bond connecting us. we would even finish each others sentences. I wonder did you ever. feel that way. With me. it is so wonderful. to have that sort of connection. don't you think?

Her: Yeah! (or whatever)

And if you get busted while doing an If she is working:

You: Well, you're working now and I could see you seemed a little tired, so I just wanted to take your mind off your job for a moment and have you imagine something relaxing and soothing right here:)"

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Dealing with rejection

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Ideally, that should never happen. Whatever you did to get rejected (a serious dumb-ass pick-up line, asking for a dance out of the blue, offering to buy a girl a drink, trying a close when all her signs were screaming "I'm not interested!" etc), you should seriously reconsider you approaches. You are there to make the woman feel good, better than she's ever felt before in her life. Remember, the attitude to have when is "Hmm, let's find out how much incredible and ticklish fun this woman can stand:)". If however you come to a point of being rejected, you have twice failed - for some reason, neither did you make her feel good nor did you notice this fact, which in itself constitutes a second failure.

Nevertheless, getting rejected happens to the best of em:) In many cases, they get rejected because they don't really care too much, they see the signs of the girl not being interested, but they push on nevertheless, call that lazyness if you wish:) They know they can get any girl anyway, even this one, if they tried a little more / a little less / a different approach etc. But they just don't care, maybe she'll turn around eventually anyway, and if not, who cares. From time to time however, rejection gets even them by surprise:) This is how some of them deal with it.

ASF:

Say "It's been a pleasure meeting you:)". Say it like you really really mean it - in a friendly, respectful yet empathic manner. This way:

• you'll make her see that her behaviour didn't get to you one bit, you don't NEED her company, you just offered her a chance to be in your company

• you'll set yourself apart from all the losers who leave mumbling "bitches, they're all the same." after having striked out

• you'll remain cool, confident, a gentleman in good humour. And she'll feel crappy after realising SHE just lost YOU!:)

Or if she has simply ignored you, add "...didn't realise you were deaf:)"

Ross Jeffries: "I never attach excess meaning to winning or losing with women. What I basically I mean is to realise that if a woman accepts you, it doesn't mean that the next one will, so stay on your toes, and don't get lazy or sloppy. And if she rejects you, it just means that the approach you tried, at this particular time, with this particular woman, hasn't worked... yet. It might work at another time with her, or you may just need another approach. Even if it doesn't, as I once told a friend of mine who only thought he saw me get rejected... I never get rejected. I only discover if a woman has good taste!!"

The good thing about using patterns if they're new to you, from the article in Playboy: "Parroting someone else's words, it didn't feel like my ego was on the line the way it normally is. Maybe that's the key. If I don't get over with her, it won't be a personal rejection of me. She just didn't go for the material. In the language of Jeffries, I'm on a fishing trip, and I want to see if I can land something quickly. I'm not going to get hung up on any one fish."

More about dealing with rejection from the same article: "Truth is, most successful seducers I've known don't hit for a high average. James Toback, the writer and director of The Pickup Artist, whom I met in Los Angeles in 1980, was as compulsive and tireless in his pursuit of women as anyone I've ever seen, and a lot said no. But Toback told me he never took rejections personally: "If someone didn't respond to me, the only effect was to make me think I was wrong about her, that I had made a mistake. As Jeffries says, "The difference between losers and winners is that losers don't fail enough." And he's right. You have to step up to the plate. If it's not your natural inclination, then having a strategy is helpful and using suggestive language is good. Even if the NLP stuff is a gimmick, a lot of late-night hooey, you'd be better off out there using it than you would be at home in front of the television, watching the infomercial."

Ross Jeffries's attitude: "The worst that can happen, is that you find out some girl doesn't want to play with you". Remember - you were about to give her a fantastic gift (be it through patterns or an orgasm of a lifetime:). If she turns you down - poor girl, she doesn't know what she just lost:)

Update. Mr Happy, ASF: "Rejection is a good thing, not a bad thing. The more I get rejected, the more I will get laid. I learn something every time. If a woman rejects me it just shows how stupid she is. My gain, her loss."

Update. The reasons for a girl to reject you according to Johnny Shack (http://showgirls.com.au). Keep in mind though, that Mr Shack seems to prefer the numbers game without wanting to do much individual groundwork of making the girls like him beforehand. He just presents himself as best he can, makes his offer as sincere and compelling as he can, and if rejected, turns to these reasons in his mind:

"There are only three reasons that will cause a rejection. Believe in them and you will be unbeatable!

1. She has a boyfriend.

2. She already wants a friend of your's.

3. She doesn't have the confidence to say yes. You need to work out whether you want to chase this woman or not. Many women really do not feel they are good enough to be asked on a date and therefore automatically say no. She may also have been burn't by some guy recently or in the past and this attributes to her lack of confidence. The problem the woman faces is that the longer she goes on with this and doesn't face her fears then the more like vinegar she becomes. Also many women for various reasons have this idea that by not going out with anyone it makes them more desirable. I think it just grows cobwebbs!

So guys you really don't know what is going on in their minds. If they say "No" then the logical way is to remember these three points. It stops you losing confidence. Remember that your state of mind is determined by the information you feed it with."

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You can use this as either a continuation of a conversation or as an opener. It has the two of you say what you like in turn with you directing the "conversation" from things and known concepts (movies, music, food) to situations which create different feelings and states (standing in a warm summer rain, experiencing the thrills in an amusement park) to actual descriptions of states and feelings (feeling the excitement yet safety of a joy-ride:).

For example, seeing a girl in a record store in the dance music department, idly looking at records, you can start with "I like Prodigy". She'll look at you in confusion, as if trying to ask ".what?" or ".were you talking to me?". Never mind that, continue. "I like Prodigy, but I also like The Orb. Your turn:)". By now she has understood the point and will answer something like "Ok, well, I like The Chemical Brothers". Now you continue with another band, or switch to food or movies. If you say "I like The Matrix" after she said she liked the Chemical Brothers, this is obviously going to sound a little strange, so make it known to her by using a humorous tone that you know very well the switch was a little weird, but hey, you're just having fun and you're only inviting her to join:) She in turn might switch to food, follow her:)

But remember - you want to end up with describing feelings and states. With the "I like" game that is, not with the girl in general:) The "I like" game is not a means to an end, what you really want to end up with is getting her excited about you, getting her phone number, having a cup of coffee, doing a *close, showing her the heaven of complete sexual satisfaction - just take your pick:)

Update

More things to contribute to an "I like" game. Yianni, ASF:

• Laughing so hard your face hurts.

• No lines at the Super Walmart.

• Hearing your favourite song on the radio.

• Lying in bed listening to the rain outside.

• Walking out of your last final.

• Finding the sweater you want is on sale for half price.

• Chocolate milkshake.

• A long distance phone call.

• Getting invited to a dance.

• A good conversation.

• Finding a $20 bill in your coat from last winter.

• Midnight phone calls that last for hours.

• Running through sprinklers.

• Laughing for absolutely no reason at all.

• Having someone tell you that you're beautiful.

• Laughing at an inside joke.

• Falling in love for the first time.

• Accidentally overhearing someone say something nice about you.

• Waking up and realising you still have a few hours left to sleep.

• Making new friends or spending time with old ones.

• Late night talks with your roommate that keep you from sleeping.

• Having someone play with your hair.

• Road trips with friends.

• Watching a good movie cuddled up on a couch with someone you love.

• Wrapping presents under the Christmas tree while eating cookies and drinking eggnog.

• Song lyrics printed inside your new CD so you can sing along without feeling stupid.

• Going to a really good concert.

• Getting butterflies in your stomach every time you see that one person.

• Making eye contact with a cute stranger.

• Winning a really competitive game.

• Making chocolate chip cookies.

• Having your friends send you homemade cookies.

• Spending time with close friends.

• Running through the fountains with your friends.

• Riding a bike downhill.

• The feeling of accomplishment after running a few miles.

• The feeling you get the first time you step on stage.

• Seeing smiles and hearing laughter from your friends...

• Holding hands with someone you care about.

• Wearing your boy/girlfriend's shirt that still smells like his/her cologne.

• Running into an old friend and realising that some things (good or bad) never change.

• Discovering that love is unconditional and stronger than time.

• Riding the best roller coasters over and over.

• Hugging the person you love.

• Watching the expression on someone's face as they open a much-desired present from you.

• Kisses on your forehead from the first and only boy/girl you have ever loved.

• Watching the sunrise.

• Getting out of bed in the morning and giving thanks for another beautiful day.

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