Back to the Table of Contents o Use negs with 9s and preferably 10s only. Don't use a neg on a 7 or 8. The 7s and 8s know what they are - cute, sweet, pretty etc - but not drop-dead beautiful. Their confidence in their own beauty is only fairly high and it could easily be destroyed by a neg. Shaking their confidence too much and making them self-conscious could quite easily make them hate you instead of wanting to be down with you - and that's not what you want:) The 9s and 10s however KNOW they are beautiful - they've been told so all their lives; and then there's always the mirror to confirm that:) So your neg will confuse and intrigue them and maybe even shake their confidence a little bit, but only enough for them to fall from the clouds (which is where many 9s and 10s spend much of their time:) to the ground (which is where you are waiting for them:) Compare that to falling from the ground into a deep hole, which could easily happen to a 7 or 8 should you happen to neg her, and you'll see, why you should be very discriminative in your use of the neg. o The neg hit might backfire with a 9 or even a 10, if you use it when she's really down - in a self-defeating, self-conscious, "I'm probably just a 7 or a even 6" mood:) Be sensitive to her mood and if, for whatever reason, she seems to be really suffering, forget the neg. Be the one to bring her out of her darkness, treat her like a 6 or a 7 that she feels she is at the moment, meaning cheer her up and compliment her _without_ any embedded negs, but be careful - the 9 or 10 in her is only in suspended mode and once you re-activate it, unless you change to humorous negging right away, you'll end up being another supplicating chump - you get a hug and then she walks away to find herself a MAN. o When you neg, ALWAYS present it as a compliment - be charming, friendly, positive, earnest and sincere in your "compliment":) If you present your neg as a deliberate insult you come off as a jerk (which however is a good excuse to "apologise" by giving her a hug and a kiss to "make up" for your insult:). Being a jerk of course could be a turn-on for some girls, but more often than not, it is a turn-off. Which doesn't mean that being a nice guy is your goal, in fact that's usually an even bigger turn-off. When you fall into the "nice" and eventually the "Let's Just Be Friends" zone, you'll wish you would have fallen into the "jerk" zone, that way you would at least have had some sort of a chance of doing a comeback. So avoid being a "jerk" or a "nice guy" - just take the best of both worlds and neg her with a "compliment":)
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