Comparing Courtship Centric And Attraction Centric

CourtshipCentric is using the make friends model, and super-sizing it. It's being as nice as possible in order to make someone else like you AttractionCentric is not concerned with liking, it's only concerned with ATTRACTION. A woman doesn't need to like you in order to feel attracted to you CourtshipCentric is based in a scarcity mentality AttractionCentric is based on an abundance mentality CourtshipCentric is facing the challenge AttractionCentric is being the challenge CourtshipCentric is...

Flirting

First I want to talk about the concept of flirting, and why it's SO Important that you understand exactly what It )s and how to do it with women. To begin with, women know what flirting Is, and they respond VERY differently to flirting communication than they do to typical social communication. Again, If you understand flirting and sexual tension, you can begin conversations with women and have them INSTANTLY feeling ATTRACTION for you. If you DONT understand how flirting and sexual tension...

Day One

Focusing On The Level That Will Give You The Most Results Most people are Interested In getting instant results - we humans are wired to value results right now - not later This leads most people to focus on the very lowest levels most of the time Most men focus on situations then techniques It's very rare to find a guy who's even Interested In skills and understanding never mind higher levels like Reality, Identity, Beliefs If you only focus on situations and techniques, but you keep the self...

The Secret Formula For Devaluing Yourself Instantly

Humans have a hard-wired system for assigning value in our heads that goes like this Easy To Get Not Valuable On the other side of the coin, (here's another hard-wired formula Rare And Hard To Get Very Valuable If you went to drop your value to zero instantly, all you have to do is make yourself cissy to get a hold of, readily available, and obviously very interested On the other hand, if you want to INCREASE your value EXPONENTIALLY, do the opposite , Make yourself BUSY so you're DIFFICULT to...

Four Levels Of Communication

Content is the specific message Communication is the underlying meaning of the message Meta-Communication is the set of assumptions, status hierarchy, beliefs, values that one must make to accept the content and the communication Context or Frame is the reality or paradigm that is being allowed to control the situation and the meaning of the rest of these levels

Always Be Mentally Prepared To Meet Women

After you've created a life that automatically puts many attractive women In your path, you need to actually go and talk to these women Most guys don't walk out the door of their house and think I wonder what kind of beautiful women I'm going to meet today -so they don't walk out the door READY to meet a beautiful woman It's a convenient self-sabotage story - I didn't look good, so I didn't talk to her or I wasn't really prepared to start a conversation Take the extra few minutes a day it...

You Create Your Own Resistance With Ignorance

Most men approach sex with women in a way that makes women resist, protest, and often ultimately decide against ANY kind of future physical relationship with the man. This Is characterized by trying to touch her before she's ready, Immediately groping a woman after kissing her, and generally not understanding at allthe process by which a woman gets sexually aroused. The answer Is to approach physical advances with a woman from a different perspective. In sales, it's best to always focus on the...

Communication And Meta Communication

Two Steps Forward, One Step Back Master The Simple Levels Before Moving To The Complex Levels Becoming a master of Meta-Communication requires a level of Mastery over the simple communication channels. You don't luck into creating Sexual Tension, and hope you just happened to use the correct eye contact It's as obvious as a man who's trying to look cool by wearing a belt, but he doesn't realize that the belt doesn't match his shoes > If you want to become a master of creating attraction, you...

The Timeless Common Themes Of Male Frustration

You're with a desirable girl - everything Is going well (she's Into you) - you see her getting attention from other men, calls, etc. -you become Insecure - you start acting Jealous, depressed, sad, Insecure - she finds you uninteresting to be with - she leaves - you think It was her fault. (Self Deception) She's fun to be with, but her life Is a disaster, disorganized, etc. You wake up one day totally fucked up, and needing to leave because you can't take it. (Liking) Relationship by accident....

Day

Carl Jung coined the term The Shadow* to describe a particular aspect of ourselves that Is almost entirely unconscious As the name suggests, this part of our Inner selves can be a dark, elusive, frightening thing As we grow up, we are confronted by parents and other authority figures who tell us that certain things are bad or 'wrong* and that WE are bad or wrong for even THINKING those things As we develop, we repress these important aspects of ourselves and put them into the shadow We can...

The Four Pairs Of Preferences

No person is 100 to one side of the other (although some seem like it) As people become more mature, better educated, and more evolved their type often becomes more difficult to determine (because they become more balanced) Relationships tend to be most compatible when two or three preferences are matched, and tend to be most incompatible when one or four preferences are matched There Are Four Temperaments And Then Four Variations Of Each Temperament SJ (Sensing Judgers) - The Traditionalists...

Cocky Comedy Standards

As soon as you hear a woman complain about something or being dramatic, make b reference to a stereotypical drama icon, such as a TV show, famous person, or character. Jf she says I'm so upset I just found out that one of my friends is talking to my ex boyfriend ' say Wow, have you ever thought of going on Rickl Lake with that . If she says I'm sorry I'm late my best friend called and I had to talk to her because she was really upset she lost her job and then broke up with her boyfriend* say...

Meta Programs

Meta Programs are the systems that we use to perceive, analyze, decide upon, communicate in response to, and act upon incoming information with An example of a Meta Program is the Sameness Difference Meta Program Sameness people first see how things are similar Difference people first see how things are different You can put a bar stool next to a high-chair and a Sameness person will say Oh, two chairs while the Difference person doesn't even THINK of them both as chairs To the Sameness person...

Never Backpedal Or Explain Yourself

If you say or do something that seems to upset her, don't try to explain your way out of It, or do something to make her feel better. Dont act like you screwed up, or show her that you're nervous because she's acting upset. Just move on, as if nothing happened. Get right on to the next topic or story. If she stays on it, whines, or complains. Just say get over It, it was a Joke quit being a pain and then get on to the next topic again. If you try to backpedal or explain yourself, or In any way...

Path Or Purpose

The concept of having a Life Purpose or a Life Path is a bit abstract for most men These concepts carry connotations of canned, new-agey, pseudo-spiritual self help, which isn't exactly an attractive Idea I personally believe that you can get In touch with or choose or some combination of the two a purpose or path that suits you I believe that once you get in touch with this path or purpose that many other elements of your life will come together, including your dating life Women are VERY...

Mastery With Women And Dating

Disaster Honest Signals Tell Tale Givaways Ineffective Approaches Looking Prevents Seeing Bad Logic Evolutionary Psychology Meta - Communication Content Your Qualities Mindsets Questions Amber One Big Organism Fallacy Risk, Probability, Expectancy Crunching Numbers Sexual Communications Mystery A Fun Game Questions and Tea New Stories Marie Advise for Women Strong Sense of Self Approaching the Bartender Eliminating Barriers On the Phone No Good Deed Goes Unpunished Comedy Magic Think Ahead The...

Women Arenft The Center Of The Universe

In modern times, men carry around a view that is hauntingly similar to the Center Of The Universe Misconception Most men have a program that is part genetic and part learned that goes something like this An attractive woman is a rare and valuable thing. It's worth putting aside my self respect, honesty, and personal needs and wants, and gambling my time, money, effort, and energy for even a CHANCE at getting love, approval, affection and sex from her. Most men walk around as if attractive...

Real

He doesn't look away instantly out of nervous self-consciousness Instead he keeps looking, as If to say I see somethfng that might Interest me,,, let me take a moment to consider It. He Is cool and calm at all times, and his movements are Just a little slower than those of other men. Everything about him suggests that he doesn't need to hurry, because things are going to work out the way he wants In the end anyway. A REAL MAN communicates with attractive women In a way that confuses and excites...

Day Four

Puppies, and get nervous Just being In the same room. If you meet an attractive women, and IMMEDIATELY start giving her a hard time about something, busting on her, and have fun, it basically says You are Interesting enough to talk to, but you're going to have to do a lot more than just look good to impress me. Your beauty doesn't make me nervous in the slightest, I'm perfectly calm, and in fact, I'm so comfortable that I just noticed something about you that I'm going to make fun of There Is...

Attraction And Honest Signals

Evolutionary psychologists and biologists have theorized that certain traits have evolved in various species as signaling mechanisms To be RELIABLE, a trait must be both easy to see, but difficult to have or demonstrate For instance, the gigantic feathers on a male peacock's tail require not only physical health, lack of disease, and good genes but they also require strength and cunning to escape from predators - those tail feathers are a HUGE disadvantage when trying to get away Another...

Reverse Rapport

Reverse Rapport is when you literally say and do the opposite of what someone might do who's trying to make someone like them but all in a sarcastic, overly-serious way that actually assumes deep rapport I use the term Reverse Rapport because it's important to remember that the objective here is NOT to try to be sweet and wonderful and nice in order to win her approval Using a sarcastic comment that's the opposite of what a woman wants to hear to create a deep, polarity-charged connection with...

The Prime Directive

Grosse Femme Noire

The Prime Directive Never Communicate Lower Status Don't violate The Prime Directive Most mistakes men make with women somehow relate to violating The Prime Directive There is always a way to do something without violating the Prime Directive Just like magnets have opposite polarities that attract or repel, masculine and feminine energy can be thought of within a similar conceptual framework Strong masculine energy attracts strong feminine energy, and vice-versa Women who are very feminine are...

Objectify Your Demons

Michael Hall has developed an that he calls Meta States Hall has realized that we humans often wrap one emotional state around another, and then another until they're so tangled up that it's almost impossible to fix For instance If you begin to feel jealous of another man who's with the girl you like, then get angry at yourself for feeling jealous because it's immature, then become depressed because you're getting angry at yourself because it's not helping the situation , then you have...

Double Your Dating

12004 All Rights Reserved, - Double Your Dating MASTERY With Women Vrd Dating Wilh David DcAngelo Day Day Day Day Suggested Reading List 161 J2C04 All Rights Reserved. - Double Your Dating MASTERY With Women And Dating With David DeAngelo I think you're here because you have a problem, a pain, a frustration that you'd like to get handled. I think that the problem of not having success with women Is like a virus running on your mental computer system In the background.,, everything runs through...