You Spent Too Much Time Talking To Her At The Beginning

As a rule of thumb, when you first meet a girl, DON'T talk to her more than once or twice a week, and don't SEE her more than once or twice a week. If you're chatting online, don't chat more than a couple of times a week. And DON'T talk for hours and hours and hours in ANY of these situations Because when you talk for hours, you start talking about all kinds of WUSSY things. After a woman comes over to your house and gets physical with you, LEAN BACK. Don't call the next day and talk hot and...

Kg Dc

Your email is asking all the right questions. I think you're going to be surprised at some of the answers that I provide. Let's break this down into the different questions that I hear you asking 1. What is the best way to train myself to talk to women at work, bars, and other places 2. How do I prepare myself so I'm ready to start a conversation as soon as I see a woman rather than 3. How do I use Cocky and Funny in these situations Now, I realize that I've paraphrased your questions, but I've...

Putting Too Much Importance On What The Woman Thinks Of You And What Happens In That Particular Situation

To put it in different words, most guys don't take action because they're afraid that they'll screw up or that the woman (or others around them) will judge them to be stupid. The REAL problem, though, is that this whole process has become AUTOMATIC, and it happens INSTANTLY the moment most guys see a woman that they'd like to meet. Before they even have a chance to think about the situation rationally, they've become nervous, insecure, and upset. I'm sure you know exactly what I'm talking...

Hxt

You didn't want to make an obvious come on with other people around What, did you want to become her friend and shopping buddy, then two years later spring an I love you on her in the middle of the girdle aisle at Macy's Or did you miss the part where I said in Double Your Dating not to hide the fact that you're interested You really need to get over this idea that making it obvious that you're not just interested in friendship isn't considered bad by women and that if you try to hide it,...

Cd

Pittsburgh, Pa > > > MY COMMENTS You are the man. Since most guys probably missed the KEY part of your story, I'll recap and explain. Most men hesitate when they see a woman that they're attracted to. This is mistake number 1. Next, most guys don't like the idea of letting a woman know that they're INTERESTED in a woman romantically. So they try to come up with nice, friendly, wussish things to say so they don't come across like they're attracted. This is mistake number 2. Now, of course...

La

You owe me a full report when you get back. I'll be expecting a detailed email that about wraps it up. Wasn't that a killer story, and a killer Mailbag Oh, and if you haven't read my book Double Your Dating, then you might just want to go and download a copy for yourself. It's taken me literally YEARS to figure out all of the ideas and techniques that I share inside, and I even include three bonus books that show you everything from how to take things from one step to the next...

Xtz

I've been using your techniques with some success. I've gone from getting a phone number every month or so to getting one or more every time I go out almost. But, now I have a question. What venues are game for macking on girls I mean, we all know that bars and clubs are practically designed for such, and an attractive girl should *expect* to be macked on at such a venue. But what about work Or a train station Or just out on the street downtown There are...

You Walked Away

In effect, you busted on her, then PROVED BEYOND THE SHADOW OF A DOUBT THAT YOU COULD TAKE HER OR LEAVE HER. Actions really do speak louder than words most guys would have messed up that situation by standing around waiting for her to say something. You did the right thing by walking away. When you combine all of these factors together, you get a totally illogical outcome ATTRACTION. She realized that you weren't just some other loser who hoped to maybe get a date by kissing up to her you...

Attraction Attraction Attraction

OK, so what are some of the things that make women FEEL that GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION More importantly, how can us guys do some of these things to make women feel attracted to US without having to be abusive jerks My answer is to learn about how the Attractive Jerk personality acts, but leave out the ABUSIVE aspects and mix in a few other surprises to make an irresistible combination. Women are attracted to men who aren't easy to pin down, who are busy with their lives, and who they have to work to...

Be Attracted To

Remember, ATTRACTION isn't a logical process. It really doesn't make very much sense (until you understand how it works, that is). Just because a woman SAYS that she doesn't like a certain type of guy doesn't mean that she can't feel a POWERFUL ATTRACTION for a guy of this type. They are TWO TOTALLY DIFFERENT THINGS. Here's a good example Women are universally more interested in taller men. If you ask a woman what type of height ISN'T her type, she'll say something like short guys or guys who...

Anticipation

Women respond VERY powerfully to anticipation, and you've used it masterfully. You kept on teasing her with ideas, then leaning back and not letting her know when things were going to progress. Your short paragraph is an amazing example of what TO do. You are the man I am an 18 year old who just graduated from high school, I downloaded your book about 2 months ago. In that time I have gotten with 3 hot chicks and made the 2 most gorgeous girls at my high school to dump their boyfriends and come...

No No No No No

But first, let's address the every time we go out and it's just her and me in the car it's quiet thing. The reason that it's quiet is because YOU LIKE HER, SHE KNOWS THAT YOU DO, YOU CAN'T THINK OF ANYTHING TO SAY TO HER, AND YOU JUST ACT LIKE A WUSS WHICH ONLY MAKES THINGS WORSE. I'd be quiet if I were in a car with you myself (but, unlike her, I think you're pretty cute). Do yourself a huge favor, and date a few other women for awhile. Don't call her for a week or two. Then, when you do talk...

Stop Trying To Buy Attention From Women

It makes you look like a WUSSY SCHMUCK BOY. Oh, and will someone remind me to practice being more honest and direct with people I sometimes feel that I'm too shy and don't want to hurt their feelings I have been trying your cocky and funny stuff it works like a charm But theres a problem with this one chick that i like she is a flirt. whenever im around her she always be flirting with me but the only problem is that i dont know how to take the next step. if i take the next step im afraid that...

Being A Wussy

And as you've probably heard me say a million times So what are some things you can do to show that you have that INTERNALLY CREATED status that causes women to feel an UNCONTROLLABLE ATTRACTION for you Well, one of them is to use the technique I call being Cocky and Funny. This is where you tease, flirt, bust on, and generally give a woman a hard time. Of course, you can also be Cocky and Funny about things other than her But the point is that when you make funny, arrogant comments while at...

Never Let The Line Go Slack

Once you start to get how this process of women getting turned on works, you're going to need a way to gauge how fast or slow to go and to keep a woman interested without turning into a wussy-boy who calls her 10 times a day. I call this concept Never let the line go slack. Imagine that you are holding one end of a rope, and the woman is holding the other end. Both of you are pulling gently enough to keep TENSION in the line. If she starts pulling, you need to give her a little bit of slack but...

D

gt gt gt MY COMMENTS lol thanks Yes, women really love it when you show some interest, but then don't hang on them. Women, and especially attractive women, LOVE a good challenge. It's fun for them. And yes, I do enjoy emails from women both positive and negative. I just wish more women would write me And I wish that when they did write that they'd send PICTURES I have gotten a few, but cummon I used your technique to bed a very cute girl in four dates, three of them 2 coffee dates That was...