On Getting Women To Come Home With

My focus isn't on "getting laid" alone, but I have a few ideas that can help you.

A good friend once told me that a woman won't really want to come DIRECTLY home with you. Women like to feel like they've "been out" with you first.

So, to answer this concern, he goes out with women on "mini dates" as soon as he meets them.

So, for instance, he might meet a woman at a bar or a nightclub. Maybe they've had a few drinks together and danced a few times... and things are going well.

He might suggest that they go to ANOTHER bar that's close by...

When they leave TOGETHER and arrive at the other bar TOGETHER they are now "TOGETHER". It creates a completely different psychological setting and comfort level.

When they first met, they were just two people that happened to be at the same bar. When they got to the next bar, they were kind of "out on a date".

To a woman, this is a HUGE difference.

Then, after spending some time at the next bar (it's late by this point), he'll ask her for a ride home, or maybe suggest that she come over for a drink.

Because they've now "been out together" she tends to feel a lot more comfortable coming over.

I usually recommend that guys approach women, get their email and number, and move on. You can get 5 or 10 emails and numbers in an evening, and then have dates during the week (where you don't have to deal with distractions, competition, etc.).

But if you're at the point where you're confident in your skills, and this is what you want, then try the technique I just explained. I know more than one guy that uses it, and it seems to be a big winner.

And, if you're NOT at the point where you are confident in your skills, then you need to get my online eBook "Double Your Dating", and read every single page. It will teach you all the secrets your mom and dad never told you about... and show you how to have success with women that you only dreamed possible.

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DATING TIP: REVERSE PSYCHOLOGY ATTRACTS WOMEN We all know what Reverse Psychology is, right? Try this one on...

I once read that the surgeon general's warning on cigarette packages may be one of the reasons why cigarettes are so POPULAR.

Here's the logic: When a person sees that warning that is telling them that it's dangerous to smoke, they think to themselves "Hey, I'm living in the fast lane and I can handle the danger... I'll show everyone how cool I am by smoking these dangerous cigarettes..."

Interesting idea, isn't it?

Well, it doesn't really matter if you believe that particular example. What does matter is that you learn how to use the idea of Reverse Psychology to your advantage when it comes to your success with women.

Reverse Psychology is powerful because it GOES AGAINST COMMON LOGIC AND REASONING. Because of this, it's not usually obvious (unless you make it obvious).

One of my favorite ways to use Reverse Psychology is in situations with attractive women.

Most guys don't really think about the fact that most attractive women are being told ALL THE TIME that they are beautiful, attractive, stunning, etc.

And they don't realize that when they give an attractive woman a compliment, it often backfires on them because they are INSTANTLY seen as being the SAME as all the other guys out there.

We humans like unique, interesting things... we don't like the same old same old.

Let me ask you: Would you like to eat the same thing every day for breakfast, lunch, and dinner? I mean, even if you got to have your very favorite food for all three meals it would get old very fast.

The same goes here. Let me explain...

Let's say you're standing in line at the bank next to a stunning woman. What would be the best approach to use to open a conversation and get an email address, phone number or a date?

Well, what most guys do is either:

1) Do nothing because they don't know what to do.

2) Say "You're beautiful" just like all the other guys.

3) Say "I'll bet you have a boyfriend, huh?"

It would be MUCH better to say "Your shoe is untied" or even "What time is it?" than any of these common, lame, predictable comments or questions.

You probably realize that most of your communication is not the words you use, but the body language and voice tone that you use.

Well, it's important when you're meeting a woman for the first time to stay cool, calm, and collected... and to


This will make her say "Hey, this guy isn't trying to horn in on me... he seems DIFFERENT."

You can then continue to do one of my favorite things of all time, and say "Hey, you seem nice... like you might make a nice FRIEND. Give me your number and I'll call you next week and maybe we can be FRIENDS."

I hope you understand what I'm saying here. By being unusual and challenging, you immediately separate yourself from the 'average' guy who just acts all starstruck.

Now, this is just one example, and there are many exceptions to this idea. If you look like Brad Pitt you can say anything you want. And this type of approach works best on VERY ATTRACTIVE women.

Now that you have the idea, how can you adapt it to your particular situation? Take some time to think about it, and I think that you'll realize that you can use reverse psychology in many different situations to separate yourself from the crowd.

In my book "Double Your Dating" I dedicate an entire section describing the exact character traits and techniques that help to separate you from all the other guys in the world. Just go to:


I'll talk to you soon.

Your friend,

David D.


P.S. When you come to my website, make sure to read the sample section about teasing to learn more about how to use Reverse Psychology.


I started to talk to this girl that i met when i went out with one of my friends' brother. we went down town and hung out. everything was going good and i got her # by the end of the night. We hung out the next weekend and went to a club. we got in the club and she asked for 6 dollars to by her a drink. I asked her "what do i get out of it?" and there was the laugh and then i decided to give her the money. after the club i took her home with my friend and her friend. I asked her for a Kiss goodbye she gave it to me. Then i told her that i was goin to call her the next week because i knew of a party the following week. After calling her next week i had trouble getting ahold of her and she didn't pick up her cell phone. It has been about 2 weeks since i have talked to her. And the weekend that she was suppose to hang out has just passed. Do u see a problem in this or if i messed up some where?

thank you

Yea, as a matter of fact, I do see a problem.

What are you doing giving a woman six bucks for a drink?

You were SOOO right no target when you answered with "What do I get out of it?" SHE LOVED IT!

But then you had to go and SCREW IT ALL UP by giving her the money... ouch.

When she laughed you should have said "Well?"

And WHATEVER she answered with, you should have said:

"SORRY, not good enough... buy your own drink."

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