You Walked Away

In effect, you busted on her, then PROVED BEYOND THE SHADOW OF A DOUBT THAT YOU COULD TAKE HER OR LEAVE HER. Actions really do speak louder than words... most guys would have messed up that situation by standing around waiting for her to say something. You did the right thing by walking away.

When you combine all of these factors together, you get a totally illogical outcome: ATTRACTION.

She realized that you weren't just some other loser who hoped to maybe get a date by kissing up to her... you turned out to be on of the EXCEPTIONAL men in the world who have more personal power than her, and one of the even MORE exceptional men who also know how to create ATTRACTION.

This combination made her feel a feeling that you can't create by DECIDING that you want it. It can only be created by TRIGGERING IT.

Finally, I'd like to comment on the fact that SHE asked YOU for YOUR number. You realize that it's not typical for a woman to approach a man, apologize, then ask for his number.

Women will often ask a man for his number just to get rid of him. But not in a situation like this one. This was different. She apologized, then told you that she's tired of being picked up by losers... then asked for your number. This was, in effect, her telling you that she sees you DIFFERENTLY.

All because of your eye contact, followed by a perfect execution of the Cocky and Funny attitude, followed by an excellent physical demonstration of indifference.

Again, to most men this would make no sense at all. If you consulted most relationship books, they would argue that this type of approach would NEVER work. I mean, men are supposed to "court" women, compliment them... pursue them with gifts and favors, right?

Yea, right.

The problem is that the mainstream relationship books forgot to title the chapter that suggests this kind of behavior "HOW TO BE THE WUSS WOMEN RUN FROM" or "HOW TO CONVINCE THE WOMAN YOU DESIRE THAT YOU HAVE NO BACKBONE AND WOULD PAY ANY PRICE FOR HER ATTENTION" or "SIMPLE TECHNIQUES FOR GIVING A WOMAN YOUR REPRODUCTIVE EQUIPMENT ON A PLATTER".

The question I have for you is...

CAN YOU PUT ASIDE YOUR PRE-CONCEIVED NOTIONS ABOUT WHY MEN AND WOMEN "SHOULD" BE ATTRACTED TO EACH OTHER LONG ENOUGH TO SEE WHY THEY ACTUALLY ARE ATTRACTED TO EACH OTHER?

And can you do what it takes to get yourself from where you are to where you actually need to be in order to attract the kinds of women that you would like to meet and date?

It can be done, but you're going to have to do it.

As I mentioned above, the first step is to read my book "Double Your Dating". That's the best head start I can give you. Just go to:

http://www.doubleyourdating.com/ebook/

And I'll talk to you again soon. Your Friend, David D.

DATING TIP: DIFFERENCE BETWEEN ATTRACTION AND AFFECTION

If you've been reading my newsletters, and you've read my book "Double Your Dating", then there's a good chance that somewhere along the way you've said to yourself "Does this guy think that long-term relationships are healthy?"

To set the record books straight, I want to say:

Yes, I think that long-term relationships are wonderful, healthy, and can be a great source of joy and happiness.

In fact, I've had many of them myself, and have enjoyed some great times as a result.

But here's the distinction: If you don't learn how to a woman feel ATTRACTED to you at the VERY BEGINNING, then you are taking a HUGE risk. Namely, that you're going to invest all of your time, effort, energy, emotions, gifts, money, and life pursuing someone who may or may not ever feel the same way about you.

If, on the other hand, you master the art of making women feel that GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION using only your personality, then you won't be GAMBLING as much when it comes to women and relationships.

NOTE: My experience is that many of the things that us guys do to try to attract a woman, i.e. buying gifts, doing favors, etc. actually lead to the woman finding us UN-attractive, because she sees these as needy behaviors performed by a weak man that hide ulterior motives.

I think that long-term relationships are great. I just don't like the idea of investing a lot of time, energy, and money if I have no idea whether a girl even likes me! No thanks.

How much better it is to know how to make a woman feel that excitement, tension, and attraction at the VERY BEGINNING. This way you're not out-of-control, wondering where you stand. Then, if you decide that this is someone that you'd like to spend more time with in the future, you can start doing more traditional "relationship" things (if YOU choose).

A relationship based on two people enjoying each other's company and personalities is FAR stronger, in my opinion, than one based on gifts, money and favors.

Take a moment right now, and think about the difference between ATTRACTION and AFFECTION. Think about the things that make you feel ATTRACTED to a woman, and then think about the things that make you feel AFFECTION for a woman.

Big difference, isn't it?

Here's one for you. Do nice women stay with jerks because they feel affection for them? In most cases I'd doubt it. It's because the jerk is ATTRACTIVE in one way or another.

What I've done is take the parts of the 'jerk' personality... the parts that are ATTRACTIVE to women, and use just those without the ABUSIVE components.

Teasing, busting her balls, creating tension, playing hard to get, not giving her what she wants, being unpredictable, being cocky and funny are all ways to push the "attraction buttons" without being abusive or mean.

Then, it's up to YOU whether you'd like to buy gifts, pay for dinners, and do favors. When gifts and favors are presented in the context of being an already attractive, cocky and funny man, then they take on a whole new meaning. They lead to a stronger feeling of affection, devotion and commitment...

WARNING: Don't turn into a wuss just because you decide that you really like a girl. Don't start calling her 47 times a day and saying "Ohh, baby I really miss you." Use gifts, favors, and romance like a spice... not the main dish.

OK, here's the plug: If you haven't downloaded your copy of my book "Double Your Dating", then get to it! Go to:

http://www.doubleyourdating.com/ebook/

...right now and get it. I promise that EVERYTHING in these newsletters will make more sense to you after you've read it. You'll learn all about how to make women feel that illogical, mystical, GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION with your communication and personality.

I'll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend, David D.

MAILBAG: ALL ABOUT APPROACHING WOMEN A COUPLE OF QUICK THINGS:

Just wanted to mention a couple of quick things before we get into another great Mailbag:

1) The New York seminar is almost finished being arranged. It looks like it's going to be Friday-Sunday, the last week of September. I'm planning for a Midtown Manhattan location... it's central to everything, and it looks like I'm getting a VERY reasonable hotel rate for guests. Keep your eyes open for more info soon. If you have any questions, send an email to [email protected].

2) From time to time I want to remind you that every one of the emails contained in my newsletters is real and authentic... I don't have my mom write these, and I don't sit and come up with them myself! Also, I get literally thousands of emails per month from various sources, and it's just not physically possible for me to answer every email. If you have a Success Story and question for me, just email it to [email protected] and keep it short. Share something that's working for you first... I like those emails best!

Just wanted to let you know of a little twist of fate I experienced. After reading your techniques, I made a decision to try them out on a good female friend of mine. Her and I used to be a couple, but four years into it things got sour and the relationship ended. I was absolutely crushed and felt emotionally numb. A few months went by and I decided to get over the possibility of us getting back together. I had pondered possible reasons as to why our relationship ended. It had seemed as if she just one day awoke and saw me as a friend instead of a mate... but I came to the realization that I had become a wussy and just stumbled into that self defeating clinginess. We remained friends, but I was obviously still attracted to her. Well, I purchased your book and decided to move on with my life and let her go forever. Ironically, after some intense practice, I ran into her at the mall and we started talking. It had been a while and I had moved on, so I (naturally) acted like I didn't want her, and I busted her balls in every way possible. She laughed so hard and got really excited. Well, the next month she called me about 10 times to try to set up a time to meet. Finally, I visited her house for old times sake, applied cocky funny (which was downright second nature at this point), and she started crawling all over me! I wasn't even pursuing her. Four years of me being a wussy and your techniques pulled me out of it. Very powerful stuff! Just emailed to let everyone know that this stuff works. It also helps if you actually get a grip of your life and don't let past loves drag you down. Get over it and move on...it will only make you more attractive! Take care and thanks.

Congratulations. One thing that really stood out for me in your letter was:

"It had been a while and I had moved on, so I (naturally) acted like I didn't want her, and I busted her balls in every way possible. She laughed so hard and got really excited. Well, the next month she called me about 10 times to try to set up a time to meet."

Women have a very specialized and highly advanced "Wuss

Detection System". One of the clues that they use in Wuss-Detection is when a guy is overly clingy or shows TOO MUCH interest.

I know that this doesn't make a whole bunch of LOGICAL sense, but then again, almost NOTHING makes logical sense when it comes to ATTRACTION.

Keep up the good work, and I hope you're able to put your relationship back together... sounds like it was a great thing.

Just remember to NOT BE A WUSSY anymore!

I purchased your book and received most of your e-mails. Your book is an excellent guide for success with women. After reading your book I began to see things more clearly regarding women and dating.

I am currently dating four women at the same time. They are all pretty hot and very into me. I use your Cocky and Funny approach with a touch of sarcasm. I have bedded these girls down within one or two dates. Their ages range from 19 to 26 and sex is a daily thing.

However, I grow tired of scheduling all these women. What should I do? I don't want to go without sex like I use to before reading your book.

Yours Truly,

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