A test can have many meanings and serve the purpose of uncovering parts of your personality in a really effective and extensive way. For example, the test of always being of a different opinion than you can be a way to check if you are self-confident. At the same time it can be a way of checking if you are aggressive or violent; it can also be used to check if you have an opinion of your own or not.
A woman's tests are often multipurpose. She can check several things about you with one single test.
So, the basic difference between a test and normal conversation is that the test is meant to find out about certain particular traits of your personality, while normal conversation is meant only for discussing something, without your and your personality being so much under the spotlight.
The list I put here is only a guide; however, in order to give you a general idea of what female tests are like. With practice you will learn to recognize them fast and to react to them even faster.
Test: she does not answer your phone calls, text messages, e-mail.
Purpose: generally to discover whether you are unsure of yourself, how eager you are for her attention, if you are dying to be with her. If you have a life of your own, have many women and are happy with yourself, you will not even notice it.
Particularly interesting: most women say they want a committed relationship but with their test they aim to select men who fuck other women.
When she tests like this, if you come across as frustrated, without other possibilities and you start to call her all the time, she will get to know what she wanted to know with the test: you are not an Alpha.
An Alpha male has many other possibilities than only one.
Paradoxically, one of the most recurrent tests women do is to find out if you are able to be without them.
Test: to have always a different opinion than you in the course of a conversation.
Purpose: if you express your opinion, it means you have the courage to defend yourself. But if you get pissed off at her comments it means you have a low self-esteem.
Test: arriving late to meetings with you or not arriving at all.
Purpose: to find out if you are letting her treat you with a lack of respect without reacting firmly. It is also a way to establish supremacy in the relationship: "I do what I want and you get with it."
Test: try to repeatedly make you feel guilty for everything you say or do.
Purpose: if you don't give a shit about it, it means that you believe in yourself.
Test: asking all the time for favors, gifts and help.
Purpose: to find out if you are ready to do anything for her at her beckoning command. To find out if you will sell yourself for a low price.
Test: saying nice things about other men in your presence.
Purpose: to find out if you consider yourself below their level or above their level.
Test: flirting with other men in your presence.
Purpose: as above. Also, this can be a way to find out how much freedom she can get from you without facing any consequences.
Test: complimenting you, putting you above all the others and in every situation.
Purpose: to find out if you are dependent upon her judgment. Also it is a way to find out to what extent you are weak when confronted with her manipulation. (Don't get paranoid over this: with experience you will learn to distinguish between real positive feedback and tests.)
Test: giving you orders in a direct and even impolite way.
Purpose: to find out if you will let her treat you badly. To find out to what extent she can direct you. The secret desire of every woman is that the man directs her, but generally she will do nothing to help you in that.
On the contrary: if you let her direct you, she will make it even harder.
Test: speaking in an indeterminate, chaotic way for hours about something that could be dealt with in two minutes.
Purpose: to find out if you are man enough to interrupt her and tell her what to do.
Test: putting many dramatic emotions in her speech, mood changes, and sudden emotional swings. (Not only a test but also a general trait of the female personality.)
Purpose: to train you to get used to every whim of hers. The more you agree to her whims, the worse the relationship becomes.
Important! Some women with personality disturbances may do these tests in such an extreme way that they make your life impossible. In this case the only solution is to get rid of them as soon as possible. A woman with high self-esteem on the other hand tests her man, but her tests are rarely directed towards causing him big problems.
If a woman tries to harm you in one way or another with her tests, get rid of her as soon as possible.
She is most surely a woman with low self-esteem, who is not able to live a joyful life at high level.
These are only some examples of tests. The variations are endless. You will learn to recognize them with practice.
Realize that a woman can talk about every subject, but not with the purpose of talking with you about the real subject of the conversation, but with the intention of studying your reactions. For example, at a movie she may ask if you like a certain kind of blond actress with the purpose of studying your reactions about blondes. Likewise she may start an intellectual discussion about porno movies in order to study your reactions about sex and so on.
To become an expert in seduction you need to train yourself to recognize a woman's tests. The only way to get good at it is to seduce and bring to bed as many women as possible.
I strongly believe men should be kept from getting married if they did not succeed in seducing at least 50 women before setting the date.
The reason a woman tests a man is to find out if he is Alpha and if he carries the best genes for a potential pregnancy for her. Only after that she can decide whether or not give herself sexually to the man.
If you pass her tests, however, she will feel an irresistible desire to give herself sexually to you. Passing her tests is practically the same as lowering her defenses and getting her to open up to having sex with you.
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