Feet and legs

Whilst standing, people point their feet at what they want. Even if their body is slightly twisted away, the forward foot will point towards the desired target, so look to see who's pointing at you. Also, whilst sitting, your feet will do the same. Men will sit with their legs open, displaying their goods, feet pointing straight at you. Women will cross their legs with the top leg crossed over and the foot pointing towards what it wants. Women very often cross one leg over the top and then tuck...

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What is selfesteem and why is it important

Is it what happens when we are in a situation and we don't feel in control Without self-esteem, we lose our confidence and not having those two qualities is why most people do not have the skills to flirt. We all have negative belief systems that hold us back though life, but they are not fixed - you can change them. I'm sure at some point in your life you have achieved something amazing, something that years before you believed was not possible, by achieving that goal you dispelled that fact...

Hands and arms

Hands are just great for flirting, from touching each other to touching ourselves. Touching ourselves in public, you cry You'll get arrested Men and women tend to touch themselves a lot when flirting - they play with their hair, women pull their hair from their face to expose their necks. (Note Watch for slightly flushed necks and chest, blood is rushing around due to arousal). Women stroke their necks and play with necklaces near the breast areas. Some women in full flirt will innocently slide...

Flirting whilst out with friends

When you are out, it's usually best if you are looking to meet people to keep your group small. Usually two is ideal, big groups of guys or girls can be quite intimidating, so two or three is quite safe and will give you a better chance. If you are going out with friends of the opposite sex, then trying to meet people is possible and can be great fun, but you will have to be aware of other's perception of you. You will look like a couple and if you do see someone you like and start the flirting...

Who is Steve Hedger

Relationship Coach, Author and founder of Datingshoes.com Qualified practitioner of NLP, Sequential Mind Technology, and hypnosis If you wish to talk to me about any relationship issues please click here. Many people go into relationships blind without realizing. Getting dates is easy, finding a life partner needs far more consideration. Many people spend more time choosing a car or a dress than they do understanding themselves and what will support their future. A woman may spend many hours on...

How do I know if he or she is interested in me

Although we are not covering it in this book, being confident in your own skin is one thing, but how we dress and how we look can also have a huge impact on how we feel and how others perceive us. Try reinventing your image. Get some help if you think you need it. Get the best hairstyle you can afford. Buy some clothes that make you feel great. Pay attention to details like nails and shoes and accessories. If you can afford it, go to an image or colour consultant. Many people believe that the...

Reading Body Language

As you have noticed by watching your friends and your own observations, you will now have some more information about how you come across to others. Were you surprised at their observations In this chapter, we will be breaking these elements down, so we can see in more detail exactly what is happening. How you can read what others feel about you, and most importantly how to tell if they interested in you Any one of these elements can either tell us what someone is feeling but if looked at in...