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Copyright © 2003, DD Publications All Rights Reserved (Ver. 7.16.2003) www.datingdynamics.com

See Things As They Are, Not As You Wish Them ToBe...

PREFACE: THE SCORPION AND THE FROG 7

INTRODUCTION 8

How is this book different than The Rules, or other "systems" with women? 9

WARNING: 10

Another WARNING: 10

How To Use This Book 12

GETTING STARTED - UNDERSTANDING RELATIONSHIPS 14

It's All Sales 14

THE PRINCIPLE OF TRUTH 15

The Vicious Cycle of Male Sex Desire 16

The Comfort Factor and the Novelty Syndrome 17

The Big Trap 18

What is your Goal? 19

Shades of Gray, Not Black-and-White 19

The Myth of Game Playing 20

Sexual Power 22

How is this material organized? 23

Key To The Symbols 25

INTERNAL GAME: GET YOUR GAME TOGETHER! 26

Behaviors That Reduce Attraction 28

Myths 31

The Myth of "Destiny" 31

The Myth of the "Nice Guy" 31

The Myth of the "Jerk" 33

The Myth of the "Player" 34

The Myth of the "Natural" 34

The Myth of "Compatibility" 35

The Three S's - The Key to Your Inner Game 37

Trust 43

Resistance 43

Supplemental Traits 45

Attitude 45

Scarcity versus Abundance 47

Integrity 48

CREATE A CODE FOR YOURSELF, AND A MISSION 49

The Confidence Treadmill 50

Do What You Know You Must 52

Delayed Gratification - Go SLOW 53

Role Models 54

The Big Rule: DOW! (Date Other Women!) 55

Send Mixed Signals 58

EXTERNAL GAME 59

1. Your Appearance and Presentation 59

2. Your Car 65

3. Your Home 65

Detail Orientation 67

Chivalry 68

Initiative 68

Get Yourself a Good Co-Pilot 69

ABF - Always Be Flirting! 69

Flirting Methods 70

THE DATING CONTINUUM 72

Planning and execution 72

The Woman You Want 73

The Three Stages of the Continuum 75

MEET 77

Introduction 77

Acclimation Training 78

Jump, and the Net Will Appear 82

The Three Second Rule 83

The Comfort Zone 83

Rejection 84

Detach Yourself from the Outcome 84

The Best Opening Line Ever 85

Close the Deal (Get the phone number and email) 86

Email 88

Online Dating 89

Speed Dating 90

MATE 92

Beware of "Dating" 92

TOP TEN DATING MISTAKES 93

Availability 95

Dating and Friendship 96

ABB - Always Be Busy 97

First meeting 97

Show Her Without Telling Her 99

Just Say No! (Women) 100

Close 100

What do we talk about? 102

Male Panic 106

First Through Third Date 107

The Kiss 108

Broken Dates - No-shows 109

Sexual Reversal Strategy 111

The Big Test - The Doubt Dip 112

The Dance of Attraction 113

One Night Stands 114

Long Distance Relationships 115

Short term 115

Avoid the Premature "I Love You" 117

Paying the Bill 118

Meet the Parents 119

Long Term Strategies - To Marriage, And The Bitter End 119

Cheating 121

The Long-Term Relationship 121

Going Exclusive 122

Relationship Maintenance Program 123

The Steal 125

MOVE ON 126

The "End" 127

Start again - Rejuvenation 128

KINO OR KINESTHESIS: HOW AND WHEN TO USE YOUR TOUCH 129

First: The Ground Rules 129

First of all, the Bad 130

Now, the good 131

Good places to touch early: 132

Good places to touch a few dates later: 132

Other Areas 133

Tickle Kino 134

Sexual Kino 134

NLP - Anchoring - Seduction techniques - Accelerators 135

BASIC PSYCHOLOGICAL PRINCIPLES 137

Pain/Pleasure 137

Scarcity and Appreciation 138

Female Attraction 139

Defensive Shields 140

Psychological Posture 140

Self-interest 141

Addiction 142

Control Principle 143

Female Behavior 143

Words and Actions 144

Drama and Meaning 144

Stroked and Un-stroked 145

Poisonous Women 146

Danger Signs 151

Women at 30 151

The Program Woman 152

The High-Maintenance Woman 153

Profile of a Good Woman - The Four Essential Qualities 154

MALE-FEMALE COMMUNICATIONS 156

Questions 157

Arguments 158

Feathers 160

Use humor as a calming tactic 161

WHAT WOMEN REALLY WANT 163

Women Want Sex 164

Vulnerability / Honesty / Risk / Emotional Disclosure 165

Tests 166

Give Them the Test 170

Investment Mechanism 172

Your Parents 172

DATING DYSFUNCTION 174

Moods 174

Don't Answer A Woman's Questions 175

Overreacting (More About Why Mommy Isn't Mad ) 176

Boundaries 178

Jealousy 179

Contention Principle 180

SEX 182

Communication 182

Skills 185

The Female Sex Types 189

Sexual Weirdness 191

Watch out for the "I Love You" 191

Crying 191

Infrequent Sex 191

Manage Your Chi 191

One Last word 192

CLOSING 193

APPENDICES 195

APPENDIX I: ATTITUDE ADJUSTERS 195

APPENDIX II: TOP TEN Signs YOU'RE IGNORING THE PRINCIPLE OF TRUTH 198

APPENDIX III: What She Says/ What She Means 200

APPENDIX IV: Brash Things to Say 202

APPENDIX V: Places to Meet Women 204

APPENDIX VII: BODY LANGUAGE 205

References and Recommended Reading List: 206

Continue reading here: Preface The Scorpion and the Frog

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