Get a FEW big candles. Not just one. Candles add that extra something to the sex atmosphere, making it seem less cold than with the lights on and less scary than with the lights off. They allow things to remain intimate while letting both partners have a visual experience. Their light makes you two look warmer.
But don't get the scented ones; if you have sex for three hours, your room will smell like a vanilla factory. Leave the scent to the inscents.
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