Remember that while you're in the strip club, you're in Stripper world. You're playing an away game in the other team's home field. This puts you at an inherent disadvantage. What you want to try to do is introduce your world into her world, and show how much better it is.
Know that the whole concept of Stripping is a form of entertainment. Strippers are performers, and they don't see their lives as glamorous or exciting. They see the trouble they go through to look good, the cat-fights between rival girls backstage, the problems they may have with management, the creepy customers they have to put up with, any injuries that may be plaguing them, and the list goes on.
Doesn't sound so glamorous anymore, does it?
So don't talk about her world. Forget talking about the club or what's going on with her in her life. Talk about exciting experiences you have, lessons you've learned, feats you've accomplished, vacations you've taken. And if your life is boring, make stuff up. It doesn't matter, as long as you talk about your passions that are outside of club life.
A man who has his own life and could care less about the fantasy a strip club presents is always a guy who will be coveted among Strippers.
Become The "Striper Boyfriend"
By now you're probably wondering "Gee, all this stuff you're telling me is all fine and dandy, but when are you going to tell me HOW to seduce a stripper?"
Well, I can't tell you this is exactly how to seduce a Stripper, because every girl is different, every situation is different, and every guy reading this book is different. So I don't think I can lay out a step-by-step method on how to get a Stripper to go out with you.
Having worked in strip clubs and dated numerous exotic dancers, I do know that there is a specific TYPE of man that Strippers are generally attracted to. I call guys who meet these traits "Stripper Boyfriend Material."
I've seen everyone from "rock and roll guy wannabes" to upright doctors and lawyers display these traits, and they never fail to work. In fact, I fell backwards into the stuff that works just by being associated with the dancers I drove around with when I was younger, and it was only after seeing the guys the dancers went for in the clubs I worked at that I was able to spot the similarities between what they were doing and what I did.
After I recognized these traits, I worked up a profile of a typical Stripper Boyfriend, and if you adopt these traits I'm going to share with you while in the club, you'll be able to attract the girl you want and hopefully move things outside the club.
So here are the traits you need to know...
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