Eventually you may find a girl in a club where things just seem to click and before you know it, you're seeing her regularly and staying over at her place, driving her to work, picking her up from work, going out to eat, and suddenly - BOOM! You're a Stripper Boyfriend.
I've had this happen to me numerous times. It can be a wonderful and rewarding experience. But it can also be nightmarish and hellish, depending on the type of girl you get involved in. More than that, though, your own mental state can play a big part in the happiness of your relationship.
It's easy to say you want to date a Stripper in the fantasy world of the strip club. In the club she's a beautiful goddess who imbues sexuality. But once you enter into a relationship, that fantasy goes away. You get to deal with the real woman behind that construct. You get to see her come home tired and worn out. You see her in the morning under the harsh light of day without her make-up or glitter. You get to see
her best and worst qualities, and have to deal with the problems and complications she has in her life.
But most of all, you have to deal with the job.
A lot of guys think they can handle their girlfriend being a Stripper. In fact, you'd be surprised how many guys actually talk their girlfriends into BECOMING a Stripper. But it's actually very rare that a guy can handle their girlfriend dancing in strip clubs for an extended period of time.
When you get involved with a Stripper, you need to go into the relationship knowing you're not going to get her to quit Stripping. If she wants to quit, that's one thing, but it has to be HER decision, and you shouldn't pressure her if she doesn't want to stop. Too many guys think they can "save" the girl from that life by whisking her away from it. They think that once they're a part of her life, she's going to turn over a new leaf.
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