Now, you may think this is a "self evident" truth. But you'd be surprised. Tons of guys just feel like a vat of butter has spilled into their wallets when they enter a strip club, and before you know it, it's 3 am and you're wondering how you're going to pay rent after you've emptied your bank account for some good-looking lady in clear heels.
But I'm not just imparting this idea on you because I want you to be cheap. There's actually a really good reason behind why you should never spend money in clubs, which I'll get to in a bit.
The first thing I want to talk about in this regard is the notion that you HAVE to spend money in strip clubs in order to get a girl in there.
I've talked to many strippers on this subject, and I'll ask them "So if a guy finds you attractive, what should he do to try and get to know you better and maybe get a date?" And you know what the answer is?
99.9% of the time, these girls will answer: "Buy a dance with her and talk to her."
This type of advice is so prevalent, that even OTHER guys who consider themselves "strip club experts" advise guys to buy a dance in order to get to know the girl you like, because they "talked to actual strippers and that's what they said was the best way."
Well, of course the girls are going to say that! They're in the club to make money, so a unified stripper mantra of "buy a dance if you like us" is meant to get guys to spend money and help the girls who dance in the club make money.
But for those of us guys who actually WANT to date a stripper, this is probably the worst advice any of us could follow.
And in a way, this indirectly brings me to the SECOND most important rule you should be aware of when it comes to dating strippers.
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